Good day America, I hope the war stops in Gaza, I hope all can get along and allow each other to live, well and freely.
Lets discuss a subject that is now being brought forward and to the public’s attention, the lonelyness syndrome that exists in America. I say this because before my wife passing in 2021 I had not noticed it of course, Since her passing, I have come face to face with it daily it seems. Men and women, are single or widowed in America and they are alone out of fear, anxieties, and the inability to socially interact. People avoid one another, hide in fear of rejection, or determine they prefer to stay alone, before taking a chance with someone new, to be in their lives. As we age, we lose touch with the dating scene and how it is happening in the world around us. It has changed in so many ways now and it has switched almost entirely to online dating sites to meet someone. It has become a digital world in too many ways. People lose their morals, ethics, common sense and logic, tryingt o impress each other on the internet with write ups and descriptions and pictures. In the end they fail, because some lie, some cheat, some use fake phots and more. Plus it is harder to meet someone from off the internetin a dating site, than in person actually. ONline you have to work overtime to convince someone to meet you in public and the chance you could be meeting a pervert, fool, asshole or worse is bigger than in person meetings in a bar. It actually says alot about American Society, because people have more fear and anxieties, then others realize and it shows up, as people no show after making a date for a meeting. It happens daily to thousands or more in America daily. Few, gather up the nerve and guts to actually meet this way, and few actually pull it off.
Dating sites online are filled with fake profiles, fake photos, and men faking being women and vice versa, as they play mental games with one another. It becomes a game of who can fool who and get away with it, and then they disappear online for a while and come back under a new identiy to do it all again. It becomesa game to them to dupe people out of their credit card numbers or cash as these sites charge for their services but produce no results. Elderly, and desperate people dump their money online to try to find a companion or partner or Friend with benefits on adults ites and just lose their money. It has become an industry for the hackers and more these days. Americans are lonely and not finding a way to meet one another and get together online and in person ot of fear and anxieties like losing their money, credit card information, or being abused. So, most get no where doing it.
So Americans, tell me how do we overcome the above, say we are single and over 55, or 60, or 70? Tell me what do yopu do please, for i myself fit this category for sure and I find myself lost, and alone like many others. If you have suggestions, ideas or more, speak up, give us an answer to what to do to meet others in our own age groups without being taken for money or more in todays world? What do you do to find a compatable partner in this world, under these circumstances in America, where do you look, and how?
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