Lets do a survey, of Massachuetts women who are over 60, single, divorced or Widowed I will ask some questions, I do not want your phone number or email or even your name, just simple answers if you can provide them, ladies.
First question,
- As a single women in today’s world, what is the first thing that draws you to a man?
- While all men will admit, we love a women’s curves and her pretty face, we know, that is not all women want us to notice, so what is most important to you? A) Your intelligence, B) To Be Respected, C) To Be cared for, D) To be listened to?
- What makes for a lasting relationship for you?
- Why in Massachuetts, a place where all women are well educated, and smart and make their own money, is it so hard for a man to get a date with you women?
- Do fears of being abused, used or taken for money come into play and if so, how?
- What age differences matter to you as a women, what range say like 10 years or less or can it be more?
- As a woman in your 60’s or up, are you seeking companionship, friendship, a relationship or what?
- What makes you listen to and be attracted to a man? A) His looks B) His Physical Form C) His intelligence, D) His sense of humor E) His ability to participate in events and such ? f) His Pick-up lines?
- In Massachuetts, where do senior women over 60 go and what are they looking to do?
- Last but not least, I notice Massachuetts women will look, smile, but never approach a man, in anyway, why is that?
Now I ask these questions for my own personal knowledge and to try to get some insights to the women of Massachuetts. As a Single widower age 69, living alone, I have to wonder all all of these points. So any help ladies would be nice.
If you wish to answer some of these questions or all for me; please feel free to reply in confidence and without any names, numbers or email addresses, to bmccurrach20@gmail.com. Thank You for reading this, if you did and taking the time, if you answer, ahead of time.
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I’m attracted to a man’s warmth, kindness, and intellect. A nicely groomed casual man who won’t make me choose between A)Your intelligence, B) To Be Respected, C) To Be cared for, D) To be listened to? I hope to give all of those things and hope to receive them as well. I hope to feel loved and also to be challenged: the ability to do those things makes a lasting relationship. I want to have the hard discussions when needed, and have us both trust each other to make it through that, with a stronger relationship.
“Why in Massachuetts, a place where all women are well educated, and smart and make their own money, is it so hard for a man to get a date with you women?” To start with, speaking to us as “you women” will get you nowhere! We are not all the same. “Why are you men so self-centered?” Does that feel like curiosity or aggression? B) for me.
At 70, I looked for a man my age or a bit one way or the other. Honestly, I wasn’t open to dating a much older man, my beau has to keep up with me. My man is a few years younger – that works too.
I looked for a real connection, an empathic connection, a committed relationship. Not everyone does.
#8: A man’s eyes, hands, and forearms call to me. Weird, huh? Then sense of humor and intellect.
Physique and pickup lines don’t speak to me, actually they are distancers for me.
I have kissed a lot of frogs via internet dating, but I still think it’s direct, fairly simple, and I met my man on Zoosk website. In person I will approach a man but am more inclined to do so once I sense some interest. One reason online dating is successful for many. Make some effort! My old pattern was towards quiet, introverted, intelligent men who also were depressed and self-centered. I worked a while on changing my pattern, and it worked.
And back at you: try to answer similar questions yourself, so you are aware of what you are bringing to an interaction. Do your work! Good luck.
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