The Dating Dilemma: Understanding America’s Gender Divide

Society in America has changed to a point of almost no return. People get angry from discussions, they don’t interact anymore. Women are afraid of men and men of women. It’sa crazy problem few understand these days, or have a solution for.

Across the country, the dating scene or interactions between men and women, have diminished in many ways. The simple ways of meeting a person of the opposite sex for dating or a relationship of any kind has become difficult and hard to do. Dating sites have become a breeding ground for spam, phonies, pretenders and players. It seems, people wnat to tease, or post hemselves as available and then back out or run from anyone online texting or emailing or leaving them messages. men and women get ghosted, or ignored period. Thus, the lack of interaction between men and women in American Society.

There are certain issues for both sides as far as this issue goes in general. Women, believe the only rreason men want them, is for sex, or for money. They want to be independent and able to care for themselves, but, on the othe rhand they search for men, who can provide for them also, in ways such as, fixing their homes or cars, or doing work around their homes they live in. men, also do not want to be taken for money, like women, or their personal belongings also. What’s lacking is trust, honesty, caring and actually talking to one another with proper communication and listening. It’s a pretty sad state of affairs in American Society these days.

Politics divides many a sit is today also. american society has evolved into a war between the sexes, that only is escalating as it goes on and time passes. women complain when men discuss the problem and tell men it’s their own fault, while men tell the women they are not open enough, to allow approaches and availabilty for dating. It’sa serious cycle that keeps spinning and pushes both side further apart for sure.

The common ground is really, that both sides, fear approaching the other for basically many of the same reasons, unless, you include the sex issue of course. SO, what cna be done to overcome it is my question? How do people both women and men, get ove rthe doubts, the issues, the worries that are causing it, when neither will approach the other? when one goe sout even to a Coffee Shop, or a Library, or a Store or anywhereelse you can feel the tension and stress in the air. It exists and i know many wil say, ah, I am always complaining, but, it is not a complaint but the facts, in America today. Which is why our own Government has come out talking about and discussing the LOneliness Syndrome in our country. It’s like a viscious cycle that is hard to break and change.

My suggestions in the past, have been laughed at, or angerily responded to as being my own, and not right. Some say, I dod it to myself and i should complain, but, I am not really complaining, as to posing the real question, which is how do we overcome it? I don’t have the answers folks, but, I do hope and wonder, can it be overcome and things made easier for all!