Living through Change: A Senior’s View on Politics and Community


January 20th, 2025, five days to my 69th birthday. Today is MLK JR Day and the Inauguration Day of the 47th President of The US. As the day proceeds, I have found my self watching sports shows, movies and anything except news covering, the Inauguration. I have no need or want to watch the 47th President sworn in on my television. I don’t hate any person in this world, I hate what they do to the world and the country I live in is all, and I am far from happy with America’s voting in the last election. That said, there is nothing I or others like myself can do to change what is happening, we have no more control now. Sadly, we must now live through the next four years as they come. I do recommend all save their money, and hold on, because damages will be coming for each of us.

Next subject, lets discuss this so called problem in Massachusetts, of a few different things. One this Massaholes, thing, I hear everywhere I go and I encounter. What makes the people of this state, act the way they do? Why are they so rude, indifferent and narcissistic here? I do not understand it really. I guess because I came from a different state and moved here later in life, it is beyond my apparent understanding. I just wish the people in Massachusetts, would get over themselves and not be rude to everyone who weren’t born here.

Third subject today, I am a Senior Citizen about to turn 69. Now the town I live in is Westborough, Ma. and it has no real place for those who are 55 plus, to meet other their own age here. Yes, I know people are saying do two things to me constantly, 1) Volunteer for something get involved, 2) Go to the Senior Centers in the area. Did it in both circumstances, and found 1) Not all Volunteers get accepted, fussy here, 2) The Senior Center is not the place to meet seniors of the opposite sex for dating. And yes I know they want to build a New Community Center in town, and that they spent foolishly over 800 million to buy a building for it. I also know that building needs another 3 to 4 million for repairs to it and more before it can be finished and used. Sadly, even if they do it in 20 phases, it will take numerous years to get it done due to the fact they did not do due diligence and correct inspections and negotiate better. It’s a sad state of affairs to ask the citizens of Westborough to pay for the mistakes of the Boards that control the town, that’s all I will say.

I have found here in Westborough many people are angry people, doesn’t matter which sex they are. They complain of overworking, over paying on taxes, how nasty others are and more. It seems a negative environment to me, for any social action. This town has three major things in it and maybe four really. 1) Numerous churches, 2) Numerous Banks, 3 Numerous Bars/Taverns 4) Commercial stores of all kinds. So why doesn’t it have a Bowling Alley, a Roller Skating Rink, a Movie Theater? It is amazing to me, that a town of this size, and as far as I can see a decent budget doesn’t have the simpler places for people to have fun in. Look I know all about Pickleball Courts in town and people who love doing that, but that’s not for everyone. A little more imagination might help here. And if the town has a brain it will stop raising taxes on homeowners and renters in the town. You chase people out!

Prices are rising on food, electric, gas, utilities and more. Doctors and Medical and Dental too folks. having more children at this time in America is not the thing to do. Protect our children yes, educate the children yes. Don’t let the Education Department in the Country get shut down, don’t allow Medicare and Medicaid and Social Security to come under attack! Leave Obama Care alone folks! Be realistic here, cut government salaries if you wish to save money. Cut unnecessary items yes, but don’t cut programs and Departments that help the people of our nation.

I want to say this, as of today, January 20th, 2025, a new President takes over and yes we have to live with it. The Majority rules in America and they voted him in. yet, as one leaves and one comes in, there will be numerous concerns for all Americans. I want to stop all the big MAGA Celebrations and the yelling and screaming, and stop and think folks. We owe Joe Biden, for taking us through the coronavirus dilemma, for his peace negotiations and foreign affairs policies. For his amping up support for national disasters and his ability to correct the American Economy the way he did and as far as he did. You can cry all you want about Joe Biden’s age, and how in the last year, he faded a lot. In the future, I think we are about to see the same happen on The Republican Side with Trump. the man is 78, unhealthy, both physically and I believe mentally, we shall see how well he holds up under pressure and more. I want to remind all, if Trump gets ill, can’t perform in Office, or anything happens, You Get a President Vance, than what folks? You tell me! The next four years, will be interesting for sure folks, lets see what happens next! You chose so here we go!

Why Dynasties Fall: Insights for Today’s Leaders


Many Empires, Dynasties and Nations have risen and fallen over the history of our world. You can start by The Dynasties of China, The Empires of The Aztecs, The Persians, the Japanese, and more, and even the Germans under Hitler. What killed each and everyone of them, including The Romans? Arrogance, the foolish idea that one person man or woman is God’s gift to the people these people they follow. Greed gets in the way, arrogance gets in the way, lust for power, and jealousy too. Each Empire, collapsed folks, some were overrun by others, but most fell because there was no want of change, or in some, no reason to want to change. Empires come and they go folks, the question this brings up is simple, how long can even the American Republic/ Democracy last? We are heading down a road, many nations and empires before ours have fallen on. Do we wish it to happen, is it destiny for America and it’s people and have we risen to a height we believe we can’t be pulled or knocked down from? I don’t believe that is the case with America, I think we have leveled off, and now can not maintain the status quo we set, and are beginning to crumble. Sadly, it is evident in our status in the world, our economy which is unstable and in the leaders we place in office these days. America has fallen to being gullible, yp being led by liars, thieves and con men, and worse of all a Convicted Felon! We have entered what I call the Twilight Zone, led into it by a convicted Felon and his array of rich cronies, who bought him the Presidency.

Like other leaders in the world, have found out, money buys power. Donald J. Trump brags of a mandate in the 2024 election there was no such mandate as he claims. Check the real numbers folks, please. If Harris had run from the start of the 2024 election cycle like Trump did, she would be your president coming into office today. Trump barely beat an opponent who only ran for 119 days, that should shock you all.

Let say this Trump has no mandate, he barely has control of the Congress by one or two seats. The check and balance system in America will keep him in check for his term. Of that I am certain. Where will he go with his plans? Well first he wishes to tackle immigration he claims. So how does a government find and round up the illegal aliens in our country to deport them and what procedures will he create? Where do you gather these illegal immigrants, how do you do it, do you make camps for them and how do you ship them out from our country? And what is the cost of doing so folks?

Will America and Trump attack Social Security, Medicare and Medicaid? What of Veteran’s benefits and more? My real question is simpler, what the hell is Doge going to be and how do you make cuts, left and right? How powerful will Elon Musk and his rich cronies be? We all know thenumbers on the donations and contributions Musk made to Trump, and in the end he bought himself a Presidency didn’t he? trump is really a puppet folks, of Muck and Russia, look closely. If I were in Congress, I would be watching the budgets, the finances and Trump very closely. Don’t let Trump and Musk sell us to Putin and Russia, don’t let Trump alienate Mexico and Canada! Don’t allow Trump to cow tow to Putin and Russia and other communist!

As Trump takes over on Monday, be careful Congress, for we are headed to a Dictatorship or a Autocracy, don’t allow it, please. I shall state this clearly, does anyone understand American History anymore? America is based on being a Republic folks, for the people and by the people , not a Dynasty or autocratic nation, ruled by one party, person or group. I wonder now, what would the Founding Fathers of America say of what is happening today? What would Washington, Jefferson, Adams, and more, including Ben Franklin have to say, of what has happened to our republic and democracy?

Remember, a few things folks, one we have a Constitution and we have our Bills of rights, for reasons we all understand these days. It is to protect and defend our country against just what is happening and incoming on Monday January 20th. 2025. No one party, one person, should be allowed to overcome the will of the people or quiet their voices and do as they or he pleases. That’s why Checks and Balances were created in our land and government. I pray that, it will remain in effect and work properly for the next four years. If it doesn’t, well America’s Republic has then run it’s course like all the past Empires and we shall fall, flat on our face.

I know my History and in America, it was Washington, who saved us from Dynasties, and said two terms is enough for an American President and he left. It Was franklin who said after the Constitution was signed into law and approved, ” We Shall only have a Republic, as long as “We the people protect and defend it” Congress today in 2025, must heed Franklin’s words and those of Washington too, do not let our Republic and Democracy fade from existence, keep it, and defend it, and most of all, keep our freedom please. I didn’t give sixteen years of my life, defending my country as a Veteran who is Disabled today, to see it fall!

Warnings About Trump’s Political Appointments and Policies


January 17th, 2025, in a few days, I shall reach 69 years old folks. My back is a mess from my Naval Service and my health is holding at least, referring to my lung cancer, I had in 2013. The cost of everything is about to rise, due to the incoming Trump Administration and there seems to be no stopping it now.

Biden said his farewell to the Nation now and he has warned the money brokers will take over, is he right, I think so. You want proof of it, take a good look at Trump’s Inauguration come Monday. As the stage shall be filled with people like, Musk, Zuckerberg, Bezos, and the rich left and right. I remind all Americans, Trump will be President yes by title and position he was voted in as, but the real power is Elon Musk who bought Trump the Presidency. If musk says jump Trump will, plain and simple folks. And if Putin says jump trump will too, Trump is a old man, 78 and in the end, he is controlled by those surrounding him now. His physical health is poor, just look at him and listen to him talk, and you can see his mental prowess is down and his capability to really lead is shot. But, America in it’s great wisdom, decide to give him four more years, that we will sadly have to survive.

That said, let me say this now before The Trump Administration takes over. Joe Biden, led the country out of covid, he led the country in creating jobs and an economy that worked. Joe Biden, led the world in peace efforts across the globe and accomplished many items.Now, he is leaving and the country is being turned over to Trump, I am betting that by Janauray 2026, America wil be lagging behind in job creation, your taxes will rise, your health care will disappear, and the US Economy will tank. We may be headed into the biggest recession in world history, and with Trump in charge, laughed at the worse in the world too. Trump isa convicted felon 34 times over and that will stay on his record for the rest of his life. There is no place he can go to hide from it. America is about to become the largest laughing stock ever. Other countries who are democratic or republics or free countries, see what is coming and that it is Trump and they shake their heads at the American People for putting this man in the Presidency. Now, this is all my opinion folks and how I see it, since this is my blog, I write what I wish, we still have freedom of speech in America, at least for today!

When Trump’s plans go into affect, the border with Mexico, his fence will restart again, he wants to Tariff Mexico, Canada, who are allies of ours and attached to us. That alone will drive up the prices of oil, cars and more in America. Who do you think pays for those tariffs, the American taxpayer folks! he thinks strong arming your allies is the way to go, well it is if you want to lose them. we are not an island on our own here, we have allies world wide to maintain peace, and help one another out, if he goes as he speaking, well those ties will weaken.

On the home front here in America, i recommend all save their money and hold on tight. Expect taxes to rise federally and state wise on you. Someone must pay for Trump’s ideas and crazy thoughts he has. He plans on repassing his Tax Break for the rich and his cronies. He wants to kill Obama Care/ HealthCare, he wants to misuse Social Security funds and attack Medicare and Medicaid too. The damages his first days in office, never the rest of his term will cause will be substantial in all ways. I know, I have heard all the MAGA People oh Trump is Great, best thing to hit America since Apple Pie, well they are wrong and now America will see why, soon enough. Sadly, you who voted for Trump wil pay the same price as those of us, who voted against him. But the biggest damages will be economic and as I see it also in the people he is putting into high positions.

Pete Hegseth has no experience, in running any organization or business the size of The Defense Department. he doesn’t understand all of it, and in the end all it take sis one stupid mistake to set off a Nuke War, or a ground war. he has no experience in handling a budget that large, he knows nothing of the Navy, Army, Marine or air Force either. Hegseth served only in The National Guard folks. That is not a person with military strategy in his mind. he couldn’t plan his way out of a paperbox. Yet, the Congress is gonna confirm him. Sad. Kash Patel doesn’t have any knowledge of the Operation, planning or actions of the FBI either, he is not a real Director if confirmed. I remind all, Trump is putting people into position not to run the country correctly, but so he can get retribution against those who prosecuted him for crimes or investigated him. Tulsi Gabbard is not qualified either to be the DNI director. But again, the Republicans are saying Trump deserves to have his picks, sad. What happened to oversight of congress?

As we near Monday January 20th, 2025, I remind all, Trump will take the Oath of Office once more, and like last time he will speak the words, and raise his right hand on a Bible. Yet, like his first time around, he will not mean it. he is there because Elon Musk bought him the Presidency, not because he is qualified for it. Elon Musk attached himself to Trump and paid for Trump’s run for President. Why do you think he did that, simple he wants to control trump as much as he can, to prolong and extend his own financial empire, he has no worry or care for the average American or our families. It’s a sad day on January 20th, in my opinion. And if your joyous as a Trump Supporter and Maga Backer or member of MAGA, well fine so be it, but that shine will wear off quickly, I promise you.

I pray America is smart enough to keep checks and balances on all The Trump Administration is doing and will do. I pray Congress wil use their oversight powers correctly and control fundings and more. If they don’t, it won’t take Trump long to break America’s funding and spending laws. he will rip the Country off for al he can get, and at the same time sell us to Russia. It’s coming.

I write this as a Warning to Congress and the American People. Trump has ripped off his suppliers and builders over the years, he has attempted to launch a University that never happened and ate those funds. He couldn’t sell water, or steaks either. This is a man who sexually harassed and touched women he had no right to. yet, here he is in The Presidency in a few days. Sadly, Americans voted for him, which is their right, but there isa reason a convicted felon has never been a President before now, and I pray, Congress, the American People, will watch closely, monitor and keep track of all he is about to do. For in the end, we may end up the first Country to commit Bankruptcy under Trump. be prepared, is all I can say. I would walk away from Trump is I met him in person, whether as President or not. He is an unbalanced individual, old and aged, and unstable mentally and definitely physically too. Sadly, we must live with the decisions people voted in place for now. One thing to stopped and think about, if Trump, due to mental or physical disabilities, can not perform his duties, you will end up with a President Vance, you chose it folks, good luck.

Watch Trump Closely: A Warning for 2025


Good Morning January 15th, 2025! Some have suggested I should move back to Connecticut, because I do not understand the so called Massaholes here. I also don’t understand the taxes here and how the towns and state want to soak it’s residents all the time. But, that’s me folks, and no I am not moving to Connecticut in the future, I own my condo here in Westborough, Ma.

That said, lets discuss what is ahead for the nation as a whole. I did not vote for Trump and never would or will. The man is a convicted felon first off, and that alone shall never be removed from his name or reputation. He has bought himself out of it, in every case he could, yet, New York said nope your guilty, live with it. Yes it pisses him off, he is now officially the only United States President who is a convicted felon period. I would recommend, Congress and The Senate watch him closely, for he will rip off the American Tax Payers for whatever he can as he goes along. A Con Man and a convicted felon never change their colors folks, and they find ways to hide what they are doing. So, I recommend people put Donald J. Trump under a microscope, and watch him closely. Never in my lifetime have I ever seen a President who wants to kill the Department of Education, wants to go after Social Security and Medicare and Medicaid, but here one is. His views on World Affairs also suck, he thinks intimidation is the way to control the world. Lets tariff everyone, and see if they like it. While his tariffs will slow down other countries, they will kill the American Economy too. Many Americans do not understand, how tariffs work, when they find out the tariffs are not paid by other nations but by Americans in the end, well you can get the drift so to say. Anger will rise, as the economic numbers start to jump, gas prices will rise, food prices will rise and more. Trump has never been a negotiator when it comes to anything, his idea is force them to do what he wants. That attitude and anger will, cause major American Economic problems and rising prices.

Next, Trump needs to be watched closer on legal matters and using the Justice System to get revenge and retribution. He wants to go after anyone who prosecuted him, charged him etc. As the old saying goes Donald J. Trump and Baretta said it best ” Don’t Do the Crime if you can’t do the Time!” Your lucky your free to be President and The Justice System saved you. Also, you should kiss Elon Musk’s ass, he saved you and bought you, for the next four years. Bottom line, your a puppet of Elon Musk now, and Putin is pulling your strings also. You never did get out from under Putin, Trump, you just hid it well, for a while.

As we start 2025 and the Trump Administration comes into focus, take a close look folks, and Congress both the Senate and House, his appointments tell their own stories. A Defense Secretary, who only served in the National Guard, and has opinions that make no sense regarding women in the military. A Sexual Harasser of women, running the Military as sad tale indeed, and easy for Russia and others to just blackmail. Other appointments are even worse, I get he wants to shake up Washington, but, don’t be totally stupid Senate and The House, you let him have his way, with no controls on him, your done and so is America. He will sell us out to Russia and let Ukraine go down and more, He is weak, scared and not capable in my opinion. Your going to Confirm a Secretary of Defense who never handled a budget over 100 grand a year and when he did he blew it, to the tune of deficits in the hundreds of thousands. Now he can get his hands on the over eight billion dollar military budget if he is confirmed, Wake up!

That being said lets discuss another Trump item and problem here. I remind all, that Donald J. Trump is not a healthy man at 78 years old and his age alone is a factor here. If at anytime, Trump gets ill, has heart problems, or more, and can’t handle the job, you now will get a President Vance. Is that what, American’s want? Imagine, Trump enters office in a few days, his health goes south, and wham, we then have a President Vance who has no experience, no knowledge or ability to lead this nation. If you thought Biden was a problem, with a back up of Harris, well, your deeper in the shit if Vance must take over at any point. Think about it folks!

These are just a few of the facts of the coming Administration in America. Looking at it now, I can honestly say in my 69 years of life, this month I have never seen a mess so bad in American History. Oh I have heard it all, MAGA is Great, the Wall will be built, he is going to deport all immigrants who are illegal, ok, how do you pay for all of that now. Where is the money coming from for his petty bullshit projects, and how rich is his friends going to get off of all of it and him too. I never thought I would say this about American’s but, here it is, your gullible, easy to fool, and basically, ignorant of what is coming. Sadly, it is going to be your children, grandchildren and great grandchildren who will suffer, when Trump buries Medicare, Medicaid, and Social Security, attack Health Care and destroys our reputation on the world stage. he was already laughed out of Nato in his first term, and how many countries will allow a convicted felon to tell them what to do, or allow him in their nations? Not many! he is foolish, he wants to attack Canada, Mexico and then take Greenland, the Panama Canal, and do it with military force, and his incoming Defense Secretary has already told Congress, he will do as the President tells him to. Sad !!!!

I know I can’t change how people voted, no one can, you made your decision Americans! Now I suspect, you will have to live with the results we all will. Good Luck, because me, I will mind my own, save my money left and right and not get involved with MAGA, Trump or any of it. I pray, American’s will heed my warnings here and keep very close tabs on Trump, his Administration and what he is doing, otherwise, we get handed to Putin in the near future.

The Truth About Massachusetts: Population, Politics, and Parenting


A little commentary about some subjects that may or may not disturb people here in Massachusetts and else where for today!

First, let me say this, Massachusetts, has it’s problems in many ways. It wants to increase it’s population, but has numerous problems controlling it’s citizens, and it’s tax rates. Crime in this state rises, and then towns decide they want to improve, so they attract Senior Citizens and build condos and then sell them and then tax the buyers out of them, for projects they can’t afford. That my friends is stupid, it is like a double edge sword to it’s own purpose of attracting the Seniors in the first place.

Next, let me address a common problem I have run into in Massachusetts, the popular called Massaholes so to say. let me say this clearly so I am not misunderstood, there is no need or want or any other reason for this to be. People are strange here, and mean and argumentative too. They do not accept new people coming into their state for whatever reason. Secondly, the citizens here, seem to think, they rae better than anyone else in the nation, and they are always right when they are not. Politics plays a factor here too, but, it is not as strong as this Massahole bullshit going round. Wake up folks, you can’t call for people to come to your state, to increase the population and tax base, then, tax us back out and get away with it. Sonner or later you will find, we wake up and leave, in mass exoduses. Is that what you want here, just the money you can squeeze out of people?

The Massahole affect goes deeper than you think, it is in your attitudes toward one another and strangers too. You shut people out, ignore people, fight and argue with people too. Grow up here will you! Just because someone does not think the same as you, doesn’t mean we are wrong or right, it means we have our own ideas and opinions too. Accept that will you, please and stop thinking your shit doesn’t stink! There is no excuse for the rudeness, arrogance, anger, that comes out of the Massaholes! None, it drives people away, it affects people emotionally and mentally too. Wake up! The coldness, and anger towards others is really nasty in Massachusetts and it is bad for the state and it’s citizens too.

Third problem, as I was discussing with others in online chat rooms and blogs and more, the loneliness factor here in Massachusetts, is huge. The dating scene in this state is sad. Look, whatever happened to approaching someone and saying, I like you, I like your looks, or your personality, want to have dinner or a coffee, I would like to know you? It seems in this state that is looked at as being too forward or rude or too demanding, why? Please explain that one, ladies and gentlemen, please. I have no idea, how this state even accomplishes the task of repopulating itself, if people push you away for asking someone out or liking someone. It’s stupid and if you think someone just wants you for you money, well, that is not the case always. The other thing I have noticed is Massachusetts has more narcists then anywhere I have lived or been, why? It is a sad thing to see and one has to watch out for these people, they don’t care for anyone but themselves. This Massahole attitude and problem extends into public places and worst of all on the roads, when your driving at times. Wake up, Massachusetts!

The state already has what I believe is the highest tax rate in the nation, maybe not exactly but close to it. Now I want to remind all, a new Administration is coming into power in Washington, DC and with it comes problems like never before. They intend to tariff to death our neighbors Canada and Mexico, tariff other countries to control them and try to make America first once more. I am tired of this bullshit of Make America, Great Again, it’s crap. I will remind all Americans, I was born here, I will die here, I defended this country and gave my health for it too, for 16 years, America has always been great! Why, because we have the right to Vote, to Free Speech, and a Constitution unlike any other. We have The Bill of The Rights and protections for our people. We take care of one another in many ways. We still have the best of almost everything in the world. The most resources too, so don’t fill me with crap about Making America Great Again, we never lost out greatness and never will. Wake up folks ! You can run around with your little red hats all you wish, screaming and jumping up and down, because we are America, go do it in Russia and lets see how long last there, before your either killed or shipped out to Syberia! Wake up!

Next topic, the raising of American Children these days. If you decide to have children, please remember some basic facts. 1) You made them, you pay for them ok, not State Aid or welfare. 2) It’s your responsibility to teach them right from wrong, and manners and morals and ethics. 3) Discipline them, make them understand societies rules, and common courtesies. 4) An Xbox, Playstation, or Video Game console is not there to raise your children or babysit them. It’s entertainment they must earn to have. 5) The Internet must be controlled and so must the children’s access too to it. Do, your job as parents, guide, teach and protect, and raise them properly. Teach them logic and common sense please, and correct them when they are rude or get too arrogant. What the hell happened to parenting your child and correcting them properly? Damn! One other thing too, schools are not your child baby sitters folks, they help a child learn yes, they teach your child the things needed to make a living and survive, you control your child, and their behavior in school on the streets and in places of public usage, is your responsibility, it reflects back on you as a parent and adult, when your child gets out of control, or does something illegal, wake up.

I know, I have heard it before the old argument of what decade was the best in American History. What Generation was the best to live in, and I have heard people get upset when discussing this. Well being as i was born in 1956, I can not account for any decade before 1960, in my experience. The 1960’s produced jobs and money in America, but failed to police itself properly, as we all know. we had the peaceniks, the drug usage and alcohol usage increases too. The Vietnam and Korean Wars and Assassinations too. Then, we moved into the 1970s, pot became the thing, peaceful protests, political turmoil and more. We still had the best cars and music of any era in my opinion. Yes, we had political turmoil again, Nixon and Watergate, and Agnew too. By the end of the 1970s, with Carter as President, we learned even America had to learn to save energy in the world, turn our thermostats down and worry about jobs once more. We learned or began to learn, the world didn’t like us as much as we thought and they started attacking us for political positions and actions we did in the world. In the end I still believe the 1970’s were good years, but I am partial to them.

Let me say this to all, today in 2025, we now enter a period of time, where America itself, and our way of life is at stake and our way of government too. Democracy is at stake as is the Republic as founded by the Forefathers of our Nation. We can not change the way the voting went, or the President we will have legally, but we can defend our rights and make the incoming Administration live by the rules of our land, for no one is above the law. We have checks and balances and as Americans we have the right to use them to protect our way of life and our people. The Presidency may have been bought by Elon Musk and his billions, and we may ultimately end up under a President Vance also. I remind all Americans, whether you Voted Trump or not, he is 78 years old, not in the best of health, just look at him, and imagine if something happens, you get a President Vance, I hope your ready, because i don’t think you thought of it when you got all MAGA excited and voted Trump in again. Time shall tell if I am right or wrong here, I am not young myself, so, I may or may not live to see it, happen. But, I think all politicians no matter party, race, nationality, should prepare just in case. For this is America, we will have to adapt and change and adjust, as we go forward and yes the majority voted and yes I understand that. I am just saying what few thought about when they ran to the voting booths. Sorry folks, just honest opinion here.

Let me close here with a simple thing, in America these days, there are still a few of us who have manners, ethics and morals. We still open doors for women, we still respect their opinions, we still can say without doubt everyone has their right to their own opinion. We still can be civil, polite and work together no matter what, I hope. I still have Hope in The Promise of what Our Forefathers, Washington, Jefferson, Adams and Franklin and more said, and made, and as ben franklin said, after they signed the Constitution of the United States, We shall have a Republic only as long as we the people, Protect and Defend it! Never forget that Americans, we must do that!

NFL Wildcard Weekend: Key Matchups to Watch


Sunday/ Funday begins for me. It is Wildcard Weekend in the NFL, and I enjoy the NFL and it’s playoff format, but, I also know if it continues to put it’s playoff games on pay streaming services, it will lose viewers. It isa matter of being overly greedy for the NFL. They should back down to the main stations they used before of CBS, NBC and ABC, allowing the people to view said Playoff games for free, bolsters the NFL. Forcing people to pay to see these games, will hurt the league overall, in quick time.

That said, The Games on Prime were good games both, that ended up in lip-sided wins for the two teams that won. The Ravens proved they are a team to be dealt with and a clear front runner for the Championship. The Texans have proven they are the young upstart team, rising and a threat, to challenge also. The two teams that lost on Saturday are disappointing in many ways to me. I thought the Chargers would contend at least and Herbert throwing four interceptions, greatly disappointed me. The Steelers, were on a four game losing streak and they had lost their mojo during that streak and never recovered it.

Today there are three games to be played. The first at 1 pm, will be the Broncos and Bills in Buffalo. While the Broncos show great promise and area strong team, the young Quarterback Bo Nix may decide this game, at least for them. Yet, I doubt Denver can go into Buffalo and survive, never mind win. Josh Allen a powerful Quarterback who has shown he can overcome if needed, and he controls the ball. Now the real question will not be points in this game, but who can stop the other teams offense. Buffalo has shown it’s defense is one that will fight back, and Denver’s Defense has improved over the season. Who gets to the opposing Quarterback more and gets the turnovers may indeed determine who wins. In my opinion, I say Buffalo based on Josh Allen, and the Buffalo Defense. We shall see.

At 4;30 pm, today the Packers will ramble into Philly and the Eagles may face the challenge of the Season in them. The Eagles are a great team, but, how will Jalen Hurts be and will he play first question. Second question can the Eagles be stopped by The Packers defense, I think so, if not stopped they may be held down, if Hurts is out or not fully healthy. of all the games this Wild Card weekend, this one may be the most interesting. If Jordan Love plays up to speed and his receivers do too, add in the running game and it may be a knock down, drag em out game. Barkley is running at his best in his history and he will be rested for this game. Yet I remind all, one running back will not win this alone. I expect this to be a game of hit and repeat and back and forth here. maybe the most competitive of all. Who would i take, if i were a betting man, well, don’t be too surprised here if the Packer find a way. Just my opinion of course.

Now, comes a very interesting contest in my view at 8 pm est. As the Commanders re-enter the playoff picture, with a Quarterback who has shown not only promise and skill, but a clear determination to never surrender of give up. The Commanders have their Quarterback for now and ther future in Jayden Daniels, the man can run, he is poised, he has a rocket arm and he is smart enough not to throw interceptions left and right. What of the Buccaneers though, right. Well, The Bucs are actually a team that made the playoffs in my opinion because another team crumbled. Baker Mayfield is an experienced Quarterback yes. He has numerous weapons at his disposal and he is not afraid to run if needed. Again, we come down to a game I believe that will be determined by mistakes and turnovers here. Can Mayfield hold the ball and not throw interceptions and can he move it against a pretty strong defense in the Commanders. I think as a overall look at this game can show, it will come down to turnovers and The Commanders defense, can they get to Mayfield? we shall see, I think this may be the second best game of the Wild Card Weekend right here. Yes the Commanders are a up and coming team, and may be a surprise here.

The Final Wild Card weekend game will be on Monday evening, in Arizona of all places due to the wild fires in LA. When the Vikings and Rams line up head to head, this could be a shoot out, at the OK Corral so to say. Stafford has a rocket arm and so does the Viking’s Darnold. Both teams are full of great receivers and have decent runners. Defense wise who holds the advantage here, may determine the game and who moves on. Now before I go on, I have been a Viking’s fan, since I was a child and that will never change for me. Yet, i am also a realistic person here, so I know the teams problems and faults, even under Kevin O Connell. The Vikings, while a team with a 14 and 3 record, need to be motivation big time to beat the Rams here. Sadly, they slooch off at times and think, it will be easy and do not play full out. They shoot themselves in the foot many times, by giving up the ball, and their defense not having the energy to hold at the end of games. You can say what you want, but, I know, the Vikings well, and sadly, that defense, losing energy in the fourth quarter. The Rams no matter their record are a very dangerous team, Stafford can pick apart a secondary and their running game is not easy to stop. never mind the imagination and skill of their coach. The Rams have many major weapons in Kupp, Pucuna, and their running game too. This game is going to be determined by the Vikings defense or lack of it, and if it can play up to the task. The last time the Vikings were able to do so, was when the Purple People Eaters were strong and good. is there enough in the Viking’s motivation and engine to carry them here or not. If they falter here, what will happen to the vikings future? as to the Rams they have won before, they have experience on their side and a Quarterback in Stafford who has driven this road before. Is Sam Darnold, a Quarterback who can play without mistakes, and move the team to score well? Can Darnold play, and show he can win here, or will Vikings fans be disappointed once more? The Vikings proved they did right by letting Cousins go, just look at what happened to Atlanta. But, did the Vikings find a Quarterback in Darnold good enough to carry them forward in the playoffs. Monday evening will tell us all of it, folks. And if Sam Darnold wants a new contract in Vikings land or elsewhere, he will have to prove he can win, and play well. This could be make or break for Sam Darnold and his career in the NFL.

Community Center Concerns in Westborough: A Cautionary Perspective


Last night, I went to the Town Meeting here in Westborough, concerning building and providing a Community Center. I listened to the proposal, the alternatives, and what has been done so far. While I admire Westborough’s intentions, I do not agree with the way it is being done.

Some mistakes have been made, and the Boards I saw last night need to slow down, first. The first mistake, to the project as I see it was the purchase of the building intended for this purpose. A 20 year old building, was not the way to go, the building should have been better inspected from the start. A Flat roofed building has numerous problems for the New England area of Massachusetts. The roof is already twenty years old, it needs a full replacement, period. Second problem with this roof is it will need to be reinforced once redone, to carry the additional weight of the AC Units to be place upon it .It must not only hold the AC Units and be sealed properly and maintained, but be strong enough to withstand Snowfalls herein New England.

The roof is a major flaw the town did not recognize when it bought the building. The roof being 20 years old as is, needs to be totally replaced, not repaired. As it sits right now, if one small leak exists in said roof. you will need to do a full inspection of the structure in all areas. Water damage, can be devastating as we all know. Once water gets in, it will travel, throughout said building causing major problems not only by weaking the roof structure itself, but, by weaking the walls, and framing. if it has leaked anywhere along the roof, and I mean anywhere, you then face a possible clean up of mold, mildew damages, that will cost additional millions.

That is the first thing I will mention here. The next is the repointing and strengthening of the structure to hold the weight of what is being proposed and the pricing. Motar pointing up, while can be done, may not be enough if the water damage exists, from the roof, especially, if there is water damage inside the structure.

The exterior, while I believe in the appearance will need to be improved, the cost is going to get out of control for what is being proposed. Then you need to reshuffle the interior of the building to fit in what you need to use it for. My question is why so much, at one time? I am a Disabled Veteran myself, and I know what Veterans shall need. I also know that dividing such a Community Center up in the way it is proposed is very costly. You are trying to do too much at one time as I see it.

A place for the younger generation of teens to mid-twenties or thirties, should be separate and a place away from Seniors and Veterans. Not forced into one building in the way proposed here.

On top of the structure itself needing to be fully inspected and tight and sturdy. The exterior proposal of rebuilding and fixing sidewalks, and parking lots, is ok. yet, if you look at the numbers as presented and the layout of the exterior and interior of what is intended, I ask, even if done in twenty phases, the cost for this is crazy. I know, the economy in America is about to change once more, under the incoming Administration in Washington. Price will rise folks, you will get hit with maybe numbers that are twice what you have estimated already. Stop and think about what you are doing here, slow down.

Next is how does a Town the size of Westborough, Mass. intend to pay for such a building, or Community Center? Where will the funding come from folks, the people of Westborough, will not like having their taxes raised to pay for such a project. On average, you are asking Westborough citizens to add approximately eight hundred dollars a year or more to their current tax bills. This increase will anger many citizens, and you may lose out here. The Senior population that is growing here in Westborough, may be seniors, but we are not stupid either. There are now many condo complexes here in Westborough and yes the older generation and population is growing, yet, you have to remember, their wallets and purses are not. They are retired, elderly, surviving on social security and retirement funds, pensions. as it is the price of living in Westborough, Mass, is up there without additional costs of this nature.

While I agree, something must be done to accommodate the Seniors of Westborough, and it’s Veterans too, I do not agree to the cost of said project of this Community Center. We currently have a Senior Center in Westborough, so what is wrong with extending it? Is it the property it sits on, the cost of said expansion, what? Who came up with the idea of purchasing a building for this purpose, of a Community Center of such size and paying so much for a twenty year old building? Who inspected it prior to purchase, for feasibility, and purpose? That is where the first problem sits in my mind. This was not in my opinion, thought out fully, and you could see that, in the presentation at the meeting last night. The economy of the town, and it’s population which is growing in age, can’t be asked to foot a bill this high, that will hit our taxes and be reasonable, not in my opinion.

Before you start, designing and fabricating the interior of such a Community Center, you will have to start with the building itself. The damages on the roof, the ac units being replaced and secured alone is major here. One small leak in any part of said roof, can lead to a major disaster here. As one of the members of the board said, roof problems here in Westborough have occurred to many structures in the past and recently, and have cost the town bundles of cash to repair. What assurance and guarantee is there, that this building, will not do the same? A re-warranty of such a roof will not be enough, to hold. The best you may get on such a warranty of this type by an insurance company out there may be 5 to ten years not 20 to 25 as needed. A new roof may cost more initially to do here, but in the long run, may be the best way to go for safety and maintenance also in the future.

While the design of this Community Center is pretty, and nice looking, it includes far too much in one shot to get done. Go back to basics here. You made the mistake of purchasing a building, that is in need of repairs and maintenance. Fix the building and structure first. Second, find out, how many people said building can hold under the safety and fire codes of Westborough and the State. This will have to be a slow build if it is done, phased out over a lot more time, then is suggested or being planned for here. Go one step at a time if you plan on accomplishing what you wish here. A rush of any kind will only cause going back to fix what you missed, or did not do correctly.

I know, I am not a city planner on said project, and I am only a concerned citizen in Westborough looking at this from the outside in. I also know, that rising costs are about to hit this country and it’s economy, with the new Administration coming in Washington, DC. The taxes will rise folks, tariffs will hit, and people will suffer the costs of said actions. If you don’t believe that, then you are living in a make believe world, for no American can be that blind not to see it coming.

I live in one of the Condo Complexes here in Westborough, Mass. and I know, the Seniors who live here, want to have a say in how the town does it’s business, and how it pays for it all. I remind all, on the Town Boards and in the town Government here, Seniors in all of these Condo Complexes, don’t want to be taxed out of the town, we chose to come here. We are on budgets and financial plans and retirement plans. we are not, the rich, nor are we the money bags, you intend us to be, to expand your town. You need to stop and tell us now, where you plan on getting the funding for projects like this, how much it will cost the average home owner and taxpayer on each level. You can give out pretty pictures and looks of what you want to build all you like, but in the end, we the people, especially the Seniors and Veterans, want to know, what’s the bottom line and cost for each of us and can we really afford it all? That is never mentioned in these town hall meetings, by anyone on the boards is it? Why?

As it sits now and for what I have seen as a citizen, Senior and Veteran, I would vote no for said Community Center. You can’t build it unless you can pay for it folks, in a decent way that will not, coast each Home Owner and tax payer that much. Look I know Northborough, Marlboro, Southborough, all have better Senior Centers than Westborough, everyone knows that. You can’t be playing lets keep up with the Jones next door and get away with it if you don’t have the funding and budget to do so. Slow down, fix the building you bought first and foremost. Make it safe, make it structurally sound, make it adhere to Fire and Safety Codes and buildings codes as set forth by the town and the state and the Federal Government too.

Get financial assistance from The Federal government towards any part of the project that affects or is built for veterans. Ask for assistance from the State for Senior citizens that live here, and show the state the town’s population is aging and increasing in numbers and the reason you need this. Without outside assistance financially, I do not see how the Town of Westborough can come up with that amount of money to do this Community Center and make it work. Don’t fabricate it, don’t bypass the cost of it, don’t pretend here, be real. You can’t ask people who are 55 and up, to pay this bill, you can’t ask Veterans who are Disabled, or on Disability payments to do so either. You can’t tell Senior Citizens who no longer work, to enjoy and pay such taxes either, you will have a major revolt on your hands. Wake up, before you go any further, reevaluate what you are doing, slow down. It is not the Senior population, The Veterans, or even the children of Westborough, who made the decision to purchase a twenty year old building with problems, it is you the board who made that mistake. so before you proceed in any attempt, to build such a Community Center as presented or any of the alternatives, you need to go back to the basics here. Fix your eight million dollar building you purchased first, in a proper way, and as affordable and in a safe way. Once the building is safe, structurally, the roof is proper enough to not only hold the AC Units proposed for it, as well as leak proof and the masonry points needed to be fixed are done and repaired, you can then start the project if you have a way of funding it, properly, without, killing the average tax payer in town.

Phasing parts in is great as long as you can pay for each phase. The phases would have to be smaller than being proposed and the project may not get fully completed till 20230 or so, yet in the end, it would be properly funded, properly maintained and finished to be safe, comfortable, up to building codes, and worth the effort and last for many years and possibly a generation.

Please don’t think, I am saying the Community Center should not be built, or that I am saying it is not needed. I am saying, find a way to slow down, find a way to pay for this project that won’t break the citizens of Westborough’s back here. Stop, trying to outdo your neighboring towns, be logical, be economical, be realistic, at no time will this Community Center be holding over three hundred people in my opinion. While the Senior Population is growing folks, they are also inflicted with aliments that stop their participation. we slow down, we can’t drive much. we can’t afford gas and extras like we did when younger. Wake up. The Veterans are not going to be able to on limited budgets pay for this either. So, how do you get it paid for, built, and completed? Please tell us, the citizens, of Westborough, It’s home owners and tax payers, our Seniors and Veterans, where the funding comes from, how, you get it and how much it will cost each of us. Break it down, because at the point the project is at now, I see too many mistakes, and no answer for the funding other than the citizens paying for this and taxes rising. What’s the options here, and in my opinion, if they are not good, stop the project, and recalibrate here.

Why Resolutions Fail: Embrace Change Instead


Hello, January 2025, it’s already the second day of the New Year. As January begins, I am looking forward to trying to get out more, see things more and meeting new people and seeing new places. It won’t be easy to do for me, since I am going to be 69 soon, but, it is an option I am looking at. I tire of being a widower, and being alone, but, at almost 69, I am, so what to do is what i ask these days.

As 2025 starts and America rolls back to the Trump era again, I wonder, how bad it can get for all of us. How bad will the economy become under Trump, will he wage a war against his rivals and the justice system that convicted him? What will he do on the wall on the border, who will pay for it and how will it get done? How many agencies and Departments will he try to kill, or shut down and why, is education one? So many questions surround what is coming in 20 days, for America and it’s people, will anyone be able to slow Trump’s madness down and control him some? Time shall tell, I am sure.

All of the above happening in 2025, and in the end, people still make resolutions each new year! I came to the conclusion, resolutions are not worth making, why, simple, most make them, New Years Eve, and by the 15th of the month, they drop em and forget em. So, I thought about it and said why resolve to do anything, anymore, I am about to turn 69 this month? My thought was instead of a resolution, make changes to my life. For if you don’t change a thing it will all remain the same! Make an effort to meet new people, go new places, laugh more and treat people with respect and be kind. That’s a process one can do on your own, if you try, be real, be kind, be generous and laugha lot and help others. Beats making Resolutions you drop in 15 days don’t it? Try it, ya may fly it, as they say, lol!

Each day is a new beginning, each night a sleep pattern that works, at least for now. I say play nice, have fun, take care of business and your health, and in the end try to laugh and smile more. A smile a day and some laughter too, will make life better for me and for you ! When your down and worried and ya have some troubles you carry, remember to just work them through, and bring that smile back to the real you. The world does not work if your depressed, it does not work when angry. So don’t go down those roads my friends, try to smile and laugh till your end, and always know, you can make a new friend. Welcome to 2025, welcome to the present and future !

A Heartfelt Apology: Reflections on Life and Mistakes


Apologies are needed. Like most my age, I am set in my ways at times, and do things wrong, I make mistakes and errors, so like everyone else I am far from perfect. As 2024, slides towards it’s end, I think back over time and some of the things I may have said or did that were foolish, idiotic and just stupid. being honest about this, there have a been more than a few in my lifetime and even in the 3 years I have lived here, in Westborough, Ma.

If I have offended, or hurt anyone in anyway, please accept my apology. I do have my problems and I am not always a socially aware person, nor am I always socially acceptable to all. It stems back to my childhood actually, and it is hard to fight against, when it is instilled from your youth.

Never was a social type person, even as a child, I would not stay around people long. I ran for the woods, I hid there, exploring life, and animals and the surroundings. I came home only when hungry or tired. Now some, who know me today, have said I am a loner, a wanderer, some say I am strange and they don’t understand me at times. I laugh it off a lot, but, they are probably correct, in their assessment of me.

Is there a reason for all of that, well, I don’t know, if it is a reason, but I can tell you what causes it mostly. #1) I have had Hyper-activity and Attention Deficit Disorder, from birth. So at times I do inappropriate things and say things I should not. It’s one of the things, that has always been misunderstood regarding me. As a child, I was so bad, I had trouble in school and at home. I just couldn’t handle it all it seems. By, the time I hit fourth grade I was in so much trouble and at home too, my mother decided to call in the State Welfare Department for help. A year later she signed me over to the State and I was put away in an institution for what the State called Emotionally disturbed children. I would remain there for two years, until I fought to go back home. During that time, my mother tried to give me away at least three times. Twice to Foster Couples, and the third time, the State called her and told her, we are offering your ex-husband his father a chance to take him. That didn’t work either, simply put, my mother went crazy over it. In the end it would take a message I put on a dictaphone belt, in the Social Workers office to get me back home. It worked anyway, I was home again within a month, after that.

I had numerous confrontations with my mother over my wanting to meet my father. She would tell me I was just like him, a bum, a penny pitching bum, no good for nothing. I fought back all my years I can remember from age 5 to 18, over it. What bothered me more than what she said, was simple, if he was so bad, why did she keep all the old photos of him? She never answered that one.

At 18, I hopped a greyhound bus in CT and went to New Jersey to meet my father, without my mother knowing. I met the man face to face in his parents home, and with his sister present. I believed it went well, for I was invited back, in the future and even met his second wife and his seven other kids. I was content, after that for I knew it was just my mother’s anger when she spoke of him. But, Mom, well she was never one to leave things alone. She found out I had met him and she went bonkers. The next thing I knew, I was in her car and we were on the road to New Jersey. The confrontation between my mother and my father , was like two pit bulls together, and he was the weaker of the two. Sadly, she walked all over him. By the time we were leaving, I was upset once more. My father was a man who was 6ft 2, and around 250 lbs. at the time and my mother was a whole 5ft 4 maybe 120 lbs. But, she had him shaking in his boots that day. In the end, before we left that night, I asked my father to step outside with me so I could talk to him. He agreed, so I told him, if he didn’t tell her to not come back and to leave him alone, he would never see me again. He looked at me and shook his head, that he understood. As we climbed in the car to leave, my father walked around the car to the drivers side and tapped on the window. The window rolled down and he told my mother, Don’t come back to New Jersey ever again, stay away or I will have you arrested. Then he walked around the car, and tapped on my window, he looked me in the eye and said, You are welcome to come back anytime you wish. That ended my mother’s control of my father or me. When he would die in 1984, from cancer and she got word, I was in the Navy. My sister told me how she cried over his death. See, just because your divorced, it doesn’t mean all the love that brought you together is gone.

I also have a lot of Military behaviors built into me over the years. I served three branches, Army, Army National Guard and US Navy. Did 16 years folks and I was injured on duty and discharged on a Medical Under Honorable Conditions. 6 Herniated discs later, PTSD from childhood and military life, I still survived. I know crazy right, but, you learn to deal with pain the best you can, and continue on.

I went on to marry a second time, I even went back to school, after I had to get a GED for the service, and did so at 37 years old. I graduated from College in 1997, and got an Associate Degree in Hotel Management. I am a member of two honor societies. My Grade point Average was 3.7 out of 4.0. I received two Awards also. So I did ok.

I watched for 16 years as my wife, suffered through breast cancer next. I would walk with her, talk with her, bring her to appointments and everywhere she needed to go. In 2013, she went into remission, fora while and when she did, we were happy till, the phone rang. My Doctor had found, I had Lung Cancer. So while she was in remission, I was laying on an operating table for 16 hours to have a lobe and one third of my right lung removed. My wife told my sister while they sat at the hospital, she didn’t think I would make it, but I did. In the end all I needed was a device to expand my lungs, for a while.

I watched when cancer hit my wife once more in 2019. Back to Chemo and radiation we went, week after week. We took the breaks they gave her, I stayed with her every step of the way, praying. In 2020, the doctors, stopped her chemo, it wasn’t working anymore. She elected to do Immunotherapy, like her first husband had done. That held her, till March 16th, 2021.

At 3 am she fell in the bathroom doorway and hit her head. From that night forward, it was all hospitals, tests, and rehabilitation centers and Nursing homes. i would drive to see her daily back and forth, and go home to an empty house each night, missing her. The last time she went to the hospital was when I found out as she lay there in bed, that the cancer had spread to her brain. She was sent from the hospital to the nursing home down the street from me. I visited daily, talking to her, watching tv with her, making sure she ate the best she could. On July 31st, I went to see her and she was trying to eat, and no one was feeding her. I fed her the best I could and then when she slept, I went to see the Administrator of the Nursing Home. I wanted to know why they were not feeding her. I got no decent reply so, I asked how much longer she had on her Medicare Insurance. The Administrator told me 3 days. I asked for Hospice to be brought in, and set her up to come home.

I fed her, got a nurse to help keep her clean, and kept her home. On August 10th, 2021, my wife passed in her own home, in her own time and place of choice. Since then, I have been trying to recover from the loss of her and haven’t made it back to who I am as of yet. Sorry to say, it hasn’t been a smooth recovery for me. I am trying, but, I am up and down at times, crying at times, and in between, just hanging on the best I can. Yes I am not perfect, I say things wrong, I do things wrong at times, I am human. If at anytime I did or said something wrong to anyone it was never intentional. All, I can do or say as, we close out 2024 and move on to 2025 is I am trying to be the best I know how to be. If I am hyper or don’t pay full attention or don’t seem to, please forgive me. I owe some apologies for things I have done or said, in 2024, this is me apologizing to all at once. Please accept it from me to each of you! Last but not least of course, I want to Wish all a Very Happy New Year, I hope 2025 brings lots of hope, love and joy to all !!!!

Surviving and Thriving: Senior Life Advice for 2025


December 28th, 2024 is upon us all and with a whole 3 days left after today, it is time to look forward to 2025.

We can’t change the election results in anyway and yes we will now have a second Trump term of four years. For those of us who, did not get the President we wished, we must get ready. I recommend, saving every penny you can, and preparing for problems before they come. if you own a home keep it, if you owe on bills pay them off, if you can. be prepared, for who knows what is coming next.

As we close in on 2525, be prepared for prices to rise from the gas pumps to the grocery stores to clothing too. Doctor Bills will rise also as trump tries to mess with Medicare, Medicaid and Social Security and the Affordable Care Act. So many priorities, will change from one Administration to another. For the immigrants who are here, whether you are here legally or not, I would cover my ass, if I were you you. His deportation plans are scary as hell, and i am sure will break apart families, because he doesn’t care. As to the Border, and closing it, be prepared to pay more taxes to do so. Mexico won’t pay for it for sure and you can bet, Trump will try to build it again. means more Border Guards and more security costs. I am sure all understand that. someone has to pay for all of it plus his tariffs he wishes to put in place, guess who Americans, you! That is the way I see thepolitical world of America going into 2525 and another Trump Term.

On a personal note, I recommend taking care of oneself, fully. Keep you money tight, pay your bills and walk the thin line and try not to fall from the black into the red. If you get into debit, it will be far too expensive for the next four years, to get a loan, interest rates will rise. So, do yourself a favor, don’t spend if you don’t need to, period.

Now, as a Senior Citizen myself, I live alone, and have since i became a widower in August or 2021, basically. Self-sufficient is the way to be, depend on no one or nothing, live on what you have. I don’t have a relationship or partner so I am lucky in that way, because I have only me to take care of these days. Track your income carefully all, ya will need to.

As to finding a relationship or someone to share my life with, well, at my age, of almost 69, it is best I find to just try to have fun and stay alone. crossing over the line into a relationship will cost, either me as an individual or whomever I am with. So, in the economy we have, best to not go there I think. maybe I am wrong, but, it’s a rough and tumble world out there, isn’t it. In today’s world, even a friend with benefits situation costs, and can be expensive lol. Beside age is alway a factor anyway isn’t it?

I am hoping for 2525 to be better, happier, and more fun for me. I want to get out more, have more fun if I can. I am hesitant to do so, even if I want to. The danger of being a Senior Citizen and being taken advantage of is real. Too many hucksters and more out there, trying to steal what you have. They attack your income, savings and more, so it pays to be careful at all costs. In the meantime one can’t just hide and do nothing can one? So, you have to be careful in all you do or not do. Life is no bowl of cherries these days is it? I just hope at some point I can find a balance and some happiness in the future, so I can live my Senior Years out in peace. Is that asking too much? I think not.

I have as of today out lived my two grandfathers ages, my father’s age, my mother’s age and even my step=father’s age. I have survived through physical pain, mental pain and recoveries. I have survived injuries and even cancer so far. I think I am hanging in there, but know, I am alone. I will probably never find another woman to be with I am old. So I wil accept it as such and not really look, why should I? LOL! Life does happen and force you to accept what it gives to you and makes you deal with it. That’s all any of us can do, folks, unless we hit it rich quick lol.