Hello Friday, has arrived and I have no idea what the weather shall be like outside. My fridays, are slow and steady like most of my days. I may read, or write at home, and then go bowling in the Senior League I am in, When done bowling I usually return home alone and just hang out watching tv, or building a puzzle or reading. I know it is a dormant, slow world I live in. I don’t drink or really go to Taverns or Bars which seems to be the big draw for those in the town I live in. Sadly, it seems, the town I choose to live in, is a slow town with very little to really do in it.

While I have been sent pamphlets and emails on Volunteer Activities to get involved in, there really isn’t much other than the Senior Center for those my age here. we don’t have our own bowling ally, we don’t have a roller skating rink. I have my little hobbies I do alone of course, like walking when the weather is good, reading a decent book when I can, writting poetry and short stories and my blogs. As many who know me even in passing will tell you, I am not the life of a party type of man, nor, am I a ladies man, who flirts with every woman he sees. I am 69 years old and headed to 70 if i make it, next January of 2026. I am not dead, or that infirmed that I can’t get around, so I do what I beleive, I can is all.

I remember clearly when I moved here, I had told my sister and at the time i was 65, she would find me dead in this condo I bought, right here. I know that is probally the truth folks, I live day by day alone, and mind my own each day that I do. I clean my own home, I save my money for things I may need or use and I try hard not to get involved in any other person’s business. What someone else does with their life, is not my business, what is, is how I conduct myself, is all.

I have done many things in my life, as a teenager I would help friends move or fix their cars, or whatever they needed. As a Young man I was busy in the military lifestyle, I served in three branches. I started in the U.S. Army, which I hated. Who wants to be a ground pounder, who is made to retrive tanks, so I got out. I did the National Guard as a Machine Gunner Scout, and then, I went back into the military and joined the U.S. Navy next. In Total my life service to my country came out to 16 years. Most of it sepnt in The U.S. Navy as a Boiler Technichan. When, I got injured, onboard ship, and was finally forced out of service due to my injury, I had a wife and two kids. That marriage went to hell, and life went on, after a divorce.

My life has always been slightly different than most, I am not a coventional person in many ways. So, I went back home and started over. I ended up, dazed and confused and lost in a changed society in America. I struggled and turned to The Veteran’s Administration for help. I got my benefits for medical, dental and prescriptions and then still foundering, I agreed to go back to school. The Veteran’s Administration sent me to college, I was a High School Dropout at one time, one who went back and got a GED to get into the service. Amazingly, I made a decision to commit myself to college and did well. I graduated after three years of night school, with a 3.7 out of 4.0 average. I got my Associates Degree in Hosoitality Management, the Hotel side. I recieved Awards two while in college and then I was inducted into the Aplha Beta Gamma and Phi Thetta Kapps Honor Societies. I was proud and hired to run a hotel. Boredom got to me, and so did my injuries and i was unable to keep working. I retired and got 100 percent Unemployabilty from the Veteran’s Administration and my Doctors. Being disabled due to my back injuries, my PTSD and more is not fun, but, I survive on pure guts and determination is all. I was lucky to have had my second wife, who I loved dearly for 28 years. She and I created a life together and cared for one another in all ways. we helped others by providing rooms for rent in our homes for a price. we saved, we struggled and we grew to enjoy life more as we did.

28 years after I met my second wife, she passed from Breast Cancer in 2021. In the middle of her sixteen year fight with cancer I myself got cancer of the lungs. I took my wife to every appointment she had, from Doctors, to Chemo, to radiation, to Immunio Therapy in the End. I survived a 16 hour surgery to take out a lobe and a third of my right lung and no more cancer for me. But, I could not, save my second wife, like I wanted to. Losing her devasted who I was and am today. I am not the joyful, funny guy she met, who would dance away the days or nights I could with her. Nor am I, the same man who would cook all the holiday meals and for both of us each day. But, the memories of all 28 years stay in my mind always. It is the special moments that count folks, those moments when you are alone with who you love, and cuddled or hugging, or sleeping, and knowing, you have that one person you will love forever with you. when you suddenly lose them, to a desease like cancer or anyother desease you will struggle, you will miss them dearly and you will grieve in many ways. I know I did and I know also, that at some point in time whether it is one year, two or three or even four, you realize, your still here and they are not coming back. Thats when you slowly start to feel the loneliness seep in, the individualism comes back. and you finally, go at some point, I need to get involved in something else at some point, or I have to learn to live alone, period. So, you live each day, one day at a time, and carry-on the best you can. It’s slow process folks but we all, go through it, if, and when we lose the one we love. Grief isn’t easy, too many things come up that remind you of the one you lost, and you must live with it all and push through. The alternative is not a choice you will want to make.

Anyway, I reminance and I think back many times these days and for one heading to 70 years old, there is nothing wrong with doing so. The memories help us carry-on and search for more to experience and go through. For in the end we are here on this planet for a reason we do not understand. I have a belief, that each of us, were put here on earth, for a reason or mission we need to complete. when we finally complete that mission, whatever it is, we return from whence we came. Is there a Heaven or a Hell? I do not know for sure and neither do you, but, I do know that, where ever we return to, must bring peace for our hearts, and our souls. For living on this plane of existance we currently do, at times, i think it may be that in between place they call Purgatory for me and for you. Religion is not the solution although it may calm your fears. Drinking and drugs are not the solution either. Murder, Mayhem, or wars don’t help either. In the end you find yourself, left alone and making decisions on your own, and awaiting what may come. believe it or not, in the end that is how life is done. I love life, I love people, I love converstaions and laughter, I love the ability to cry too. But, most of all, when I stop to think, I love the facts of life, and the air we breathe, and feel lucky to be here.

Today is a day that will be filled with No King Day rallies across America at different times and places. For 250 years now, almost, Americans have stayed away from Monarchies and Kings of any kind. Now in todays day and age in America one man believes he can be King and Boss of all in a very strange way. The sad thing is America escaped this kind of Ruler and system so many years ago and in the World itself overall it is dying off, yet here we face it once more. It’s sad that such a person or system is this close to the reality, America now faces, in 2025. It is October 18th, 2025 folks!

No, one man should be able to control America or it’s destiny, or fate. No one man should have the right to pluck people off the streets and deport them from our country, without due process in a court of law. No one man should be able to destroy our Medicare, Medicaid, Social Security or Veteran’s Benefits, yet here one is. We have a deranged individual who went from bad to worse once he got back in office, and we, the American People, need to find a way to stop him now. Now he is affecting too many things he has no business in, as President of The United States. He lies to the public and Americans daily and he gets away with it. Yet, Congress is not acting to remove him from office, in anyway, why? If nothing else, he should be removed under the 25th Admendment, he is not sane or competant enough to continue, he is a danger to all.

But I do understand why the 25th Admendment has not been used so far, for fear of JD Vance taking over. He is just as unreliable and unstable as the current President and he would never sign on to such an act. Why simple, because the current President plucked Vance from out of the woods so to say and made him a public figure. Without Trump, Vance is worthless and a scum bag really. So, what we have is a mess.

Now Impeachment with Trump has been tried twice already, and it failed each time. Legally, it may be the only way to go, but, to do so, we must have Republicans join Democrats in this process and it must be bi-partisan in all ways. It won’t happen, because, the Republicans love it all, and they support the mad King that Trump is in all ways. It will continue this way, until the Republicans begin to feel all he is doing, is starting to affect them. There is a very thin line currently that Trump is using if you watch and listen to him, in how he protects his Republican friends and MAGA Supporters. Everything he says or does, is aimed at liberal policies, and Democrats, he is trying to destroy the Demcratic Party and our two Party System of politics. No one man should be able to do so, no one man should be a King like figure in America, No Kings folks is what it needs to be and the protests must be peaceful, but loud and firm, or Trump will continue his actions, he runs rampede over all already and people are scared of him. If Americans do not wake up and stand up and stop him, we will become an Autocratic Society or worse. Is that what America wants, is that what you want Americans, to be ruled by one man as King? If not I suggest, you stand up and be counted, join the protest movement of No King, attend. Lets make a strong statement, lets make our voices heard, lets make the Republicans and MAGA followers listen and hear us clearly. I am not calling for violence, I am calling for a peaceful protest that is heard across America and the World, No King for America, lets make sure.

Finally, there is constant rumors and talk of a Trump third term he wants. Under the Constitution and our laws that can not be allowed. The law was put in place to protect our Country and Constitution and way of life, just to ensure we will never be ruled by a King like figure again. Remember, Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness folks. Live Free or Die! No stopping the press, let them do their jobs too. Freedom of Speech is one of the primary things our country is built on and we have our rights to be heard, in speech, print, on an din the media and every where else. NO Kings!

I attended a Meeting last Night that was very well put together and well done. It was all About programs and politics in Westborough, Ma. here. It was interesting in many ways, and many subjects were discussed. From, Community Volunteer Programs, to The new being built Community Center and it’s Swimming Pool repairs and costs, to How Town Meeting are run. Each area was well covered for sure, by those who spoke and the questions afterwards were few. The Westborough Community portion, showed how they community is trying to include all generations in it’s programs and help all they can. While I approve of it, and admire that it is there, they do not make clear, where to go to get involved for these activities, dates or times, or where to even get their handouts or information on the events they do. what locations thay are in, or dates or times. They talk about interactions, clubs, and events, but no specifics.

More Specifics were put out on The Community Center Swimming Poll and it’s costs to repair it all. Which was good because it was broken down into plain english, due to the town meeting coming up, and the fact it has to be voted on to fund it all. The Warrants were brought up and what may be voted on and how the Town Meetings are Moderated and controled. All Good Information for the public to have. The best part of this was the Speaker, who moderates the Town Meetings, he is knowledgeable, personable and kind, but firm on the operation he moderates. As it went he handled it well in all aspects in my opinon but, I am just one person who attended.

While I admire, all, trying to get people involved in our Community in Westborough, Ma. here, the specifics on who to see, where to go, and get involved is always cloudy. There needs to be more clarrity on the locations, times nad dates of the programs. Are these at The Senior Center, The Library, Town Hall or where? What dates and times? and who do you contact if interested in attending or volunteering? What if you came up with an idea to get all involved, but, needed a platform or place to launch said idea and wanted to do so, but needed help in, announcing it or getting someone to come? There were questions of course, but, as i know and i think many do, we don’t always ask, do we?

Anyway, Westborough, Ma. is trying and i agree to include all Generations and ages, I understand that now. Yet, what is lacking is communication of all of these events and programs. Westborough doesn’t have it’s own newspaper, or radio programs or even TV news about it’s town, facilities or programs. It seems they are depending on just word of mouth. If that is the case in a town with over 21,000 people, who don’t communicate well, it is going to be rough. I heard of Farmer’s Markets, haven’t seen one in three years i have lived here. Some spoke of Flea Markets where? Some talked of gaming and dances and more, where folks, when, and times and dates so people can attend?

In many ways, Westborough, Ma. reminds me of the home town I grew up in, in Connecticut. It is loaded with banks and money, it is loaded with churches, and funny, enough bars and taverns. It does notc ontain a movie theater, It does not contain it’s own Bowling Alley, or Roller Rink. They don’t hold Singles Dances or Meetings anywhere, either. They do provide a Senior Center for the Seniors, yet, it is basically boring and hidden in the corner, like an embarassment in my opinion. Life is about interactions, communications, and getting along in life. It’s not about hiding in a corner of the town, huddled like old people, waiting to die, and just occupying space and playing cards or board games.

Where can one fish, hike, walk, meet others? Where is the Arts for those who like theater, or plays, where is the place to learn new things for all of us? Some as we age would love to learn to play instruments, or draw or paint, or show hidden talents to the world we aquired over our lives. where can that be done in Westborough, Ma.?

We pay taxes, for improvements and operations in town here. And we keep the town going as businesses come and go and the economy improves or slows. I know things cost money, and time and effort, but you can’t get people to get involved, if the communication is not open, loud and clear. Nor, is it helpful that many do not talk to each other here. If your new in town, you come to learn, you can’t walk into a bar or tavern or store and just talk to just anyone. many, shut you out and do not even say hello. why, they don’t know you, yet, if you attempt to know them, they walk away and don’t talk. It is a problem in American Society these days. Look I know it is great to be cautious and careful in the world or else I would not be alive at 69 going on 70. But, learning to still interact, converse and talk to people is vital in life. somehow, we all need to loosen up just a bit, if for no other purpose, just to get along and be polite.

I lived in a small town in Connecticut as a kid. I learned that even with a bad economy at the time, we still had parks for children, we still had places to play sports. We still found ways to interact, whether it was in diners, or other places of business. I move about in Westborough, go shopping, here, which is big. people rushing to and fro through a store, yet you can feel the tension and stress of the fear of interacting with strangers you don’t know. It’s just a fact I have felt and understand. How does one overcome this folks? Well, I try to talk to people in stores, or bars or tavens if I can. I even talk to bowlers when I go bowling, with them. Common interests go a long way. some are into sports, some into nature, some into arts and more. But, as my dad said many years ago, if you don’t take a chance and say hello, you shall miss more in life, than you will ever know. Be friendly, be polite, and if someone says something you don’t like, you can always walk away, we are not gonna like everybody we meet each day. Yet, if you do not take a chance, you can’t find joy, love, romance or fun. You can’t belong if no one will let you! You can bang on a wall, but if it doesn’t break or fall, you can’t get by, unless you find a way around it can you? Communication is the key to life, it’s how we get a husband or a wife and children to repopulate our world. No interacting, no communication, makes us boring, and like automations, like in the old movie The StepFord Wives. We are humans, we have faults, differences and not all will agree, but, if you don’t interact and communicate, you will feel nothing but loneliness and hate. Open up folks, take a chance, thats all I can say. And hopefully, Westborough, Ma. will come to be a better place to stay.

Good day to all. It is Monday here in Massachuetts, October 13th, 2025 to be precise. I have cut where my blog goes by one place due to people there getting angry over it, it seems someone there, got upset. So, I do not push, where I send my blog to disturb people in that way. I do a blog for different reasons folks. 1) To Discuss world events 2) Politics, 3) Romance or dating events or lack there of. 4) General advice or poems, or stories I have written. I usually do not get overly involved in people’s reactions to my blogs, because, hells bells folks, they are opinions, not facts, and if you disagree that is fine, please just remember, we all have free speech and a right to our own opinions.

With that said, let me go forward today. The world is a more peaceful place this am, as Israel and the Gaza mess and war seems to be coming to an end and the hostages have begun to come home. I give credit to Trump for his participation in this one and his negotiations seem to work. It is nice to see peace achieved anywhere in the world, in this way.

Now, can President Trump solved his own countries woes and problems, without making us an autocratic or communistic country? We have an economy that is failing. People are going hungry and homeless. Jobs are disappearing, people are being laid off or cut from federal jobs, with no concern for their livelyhood and families. It’s wrong. Food prices climb, clothing prices climb, oil goes up, gas goes up, medicare and medicaid are under attack, veteran’s benefits too it seems. As time rolls on under the Trump Administration it is not getting better for Americans but worse. we now have military troops in our cities and they are not a police force nor trained to be one. There is no insurrection or revolt on our streets. there is a right to peaceful protests. There is Freedom of Speech, there is a right to critize our President and Government for shutting down on us. The shutdown must end now folks, the longer it goes on the worse it will get for each and every American citizen. Tell your Representatives, your Senators to go back to work now. Lets find a compromise and make the country run once more and get people back into their jobs now.

Home prices, jobs, food prices jump,car prices up, clothing up, gas up, oil up, utilities up, when will President Trump address our economy correctly and fix it? When will he stop sending Troops to cities? When will the deportations stop, and the violence caused by them? Yes, there was an immigration problem, but, this is not the proper way to handle things. Everyone you pick up and deport or try to deport, has a right to due process, and should not be sent to a Salvadorin Prison! Wake up here!

President Trump wants to be reconignized, he wants attention, he wants notoriity, he wants to be thanked all the time. He wants a Nobel Peace Prize and he has a big head, and no heart these days. Look, when your Presdient is more concerned about, being awarded and known for his deeds and setting a place in history for himself, and begs for awards like the Nobel Peace Prize, it’s silly, stupid and assine. You want awards and reconignition, earn it, fix the economy, fix medicare and medicaid, fix the homeless problem, take care of the ill and disabled, pay your military and you’re veterans on time. Find a way to help your farmers survive so we have food to eat. Build affordable housing! Lower prices on utilities, home costs, food,clothing, gas prices, oil prices. Lets make America better for all, not just the rich. Lets not extend the Tax breaks for the rich, lets ask them to pay their fair share for a change. Do something to fix our country President Trump, not take on the world’s problems and try to be a hero, fix America please!

Release the Epstein Files, also. If your not in them and did nothing wrong and are innocent, then release them, show us all. What is there for you to hide? Only one reason to stop them from being released your in them and you know it. But, again, you won’t release them for fear of what might happen if you do! We all know that now!.

Let me end today’s blog and thoughts with this thought, How did America, a country of such pride, dignity, and honor, ever elect a 34 time felon as President? How did we ever allow a two time Impeached President to get re-elected? How do we get to the truth about Trump’s involvement and friendship with Epstein and Maxwell and the pedophile cases that happened and are currently in the news? Answer those questions MAGA Followers and we may solve some of America’s biggest worries and problems to date. Bring the answers if you have them MAGA Followers, don’t run from the facts, don’t hide the truth and don’t protect, let us get our answers now! The House of Representatives and The Senate must reopen the government and do it now! I say, if you don’t work or report to work, you shouldn’t get paid either. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander so to say. Can’t pay Federal employees cause the country is shut down, domn’t pay the politicians who shut it down either. Simple, if they don’t get paid on time watch how fast they wil go to work and change things. Just my opinions folks and thoughts for the day.

Hello October 11th, 2025, here in Westborough this am it is overcast and 50 degrees. As usuaul Westborough, Ma. is a quiet lil town, with many people roaming round, but few say hello, don’t you know. We rush to and fro, and off to more stores we go. We run home to change and dress and try to look our best, yet no one says hello. It;sa quiet burg so to say, you can run from store to store everyday. You can run from one bar or tavern to another, and never worry about any bother. Every now and then, politics come up, and people get angry it seems to me. We have the Maga folks, The Democrats and the Independents too. it like living in a rough neighborhood, and leanring what not to say in school. So you avoid politics and you try to make conversation with those you meet, most of the time it ends with a nod of your head and an utter defeat.

I love life, I love laughter, I love having something to do an dthe chatter. I love interacting and having fun, but, in Westborough thats not the way it’s done. I don’t drink, although I have tried taverns and bars, all bullshit aside. I have popped into JP’s, Red Heat,Cold Harbor, and Central House at different times. Even The NeighborHood tavern around the corner from me, which has a great sandwhich I love. What I have observed is most people don’t interact with people they don’t know, and they basically hang with only folks they know. Now, I understand, staying safe, staying with friends, but you can never expand that, if you don’t let others in. It’sa veryc autious atmosphere in Westborough, people tend to walk right by, and not say a thing.

I love walking trails and resevoirs, I like bowling and playing pool with friends myself. But, by doing the sam ethings repeptitvely, we isolate ourselves and we don’t even see. Age is another factor I see, while the youth have fun and the middle age to 55 hang on, and have families, there are senior citizen who have nobody and no way to find anyone either, like me. You can laugh, you can joke, but, in the end, you are alone and you know it. People seem closed off, or distant, or fearful of strangers, or just saying hello. I know, for myself I may talk to many, but, it is like asurface brushing, and no touching, feeling, I get. I know I have said it before, so, us Seniors 55 and up, end up alone, when our partners die or divorce us. In my case i lost my wife of 28 years, when she passed due to Breast cancer. I find myself, looking, but never touching since, her passing. It’s like a little child at a candy store window, who is afraid to say I want that one, becaus ethey know they can’t afford it, or will get rejected and told to move on. we hesitate, we procrasiant, we smile and do nothing and walk away. It’s all a part of a Seniors day. I have seen many women, I admire you see, yet I say nothing, for fear they will reject me. We get older we get set in our ways, so, it leads to be alone is all I will say.

Anyway, as life goes on, I hope America has learned a lesson now on the Political Level. We will suffer now, due to the way the voting went last time around. Prices, rise, on food, utilities, gas, clothing, housing and more. people are getting laid off, and having trouble finding jobs now. The economy is now in the dumps. Sadly, it wil hit all of us period, at some point, we all will hurt and that sucks. medicare, medicaid, social Security, Veteran’s Benefits and more all under attack these days. I hear men searching for work, but none to be found, no one is hiring you see. They can’t afford to, they have to stay afloat themselves and their companies. It’s a brutal, circle of how do I stay a float, keep my business going and feed and take care of my own family, without losing it all. So they, cut back, they lay off, they don’t hire anymore. people don’t spend, if they don’t have it folks, so places are closing down. Jobs are disappearing and more homeless and unemployed are growing. It produces a atmosphere of desperation for many, how do I keep my home, how do I feed and dress my family, what happens if one of us gets sick or hurt? So cautiousness, comes out, and fear and thats where america is at these days, you see.

Well, I rattle, I roar, and I talk and chatter. I know in the end most of what i say, doesn’t matter. No one listens to one voice in the woods, when all the noise of the world is so loud and bold you see. we who care, or wonder, or look for solutions, get overshouted and drowned out. So, we do what we can by making some noise and we try, but, in the end, the world flies by. It’s all a mess these days you see, is there a way to fix it, or must we let it be?

Screaming doesn’t help, yelling either,nor does violence, or being a cheater. In the end, the truth is this, too many Americans choose this. And as Americans know the majority wins in each election, and once you make the choice, they are in office and you lose your voice. So we are stuck now, until at least the mid-terms, and maybe till 2028, as we now have learned. The Senate an dthe House cowtow, to the man who won, he helpe dthem get their jobs and now it is done. They earn apaycheck even if they don’t work, so they don’t care if you or I hurt. If your going to shut down the Government, then you shouldn’t be paid either, if you ask me. why are we paying Senators and Representatives, to sit home and not do their jobs? Lets stop this, lets not pay them, till they return to work. Lets, hit there medical and dental benefits like they are hitting ours. It’s time to take the fight to where it belongs, to the politicians who led us on. americans need to stand up and fight back, or we shall all lose, we are under attack.

I have surrendered in many ways to the current enviroment and condition of the Senior Dating Scene in Massachuetts and Westborough area here. I gave up on dating sites, becaus ethey eat one’s money and produce very few results, that don’t match what one is looking for in a partner. No matter what preferences you put out, or distances either. I know it sound crazy and some may believe I am wrong for saying so, it is true.

I love people in general and women always. I like smart women, and ones with a sense of themselves and a sense of humor too. I always have said if one can not laugh at themselves, they are not worth knowing really. I love intellence in women in all ways and honesty too. Yet in Today’s world, it seems women have many concerns when it comes to dating, especially in my age range. I am 69, and many women are concerned, first off, about preserving and protecting their own money and belongings and money. I have no interest in any of that, I am fine with what I have. I have my own money, my own home and my own car, to do as I please and go where I want. At this stage in my life, I don’t need a woman to clean or cook for me, either I do fine on my own since I Graduated from College with a Degree in Hospitality Management/ Hotel Managament. Then I hear the concern of all men want is sex, and we want a woman’s body. Look I admire the female body, I love the persons who live in them too. But, if you think just because you have a great body, I will chase you, you wrong, I don’t work on looks or physical features. I guess i am different in many ways, I like a mind, a personality, a smile, a laugh and interactions. I don’t seek just a sexual partner, I seek a companion, but, under the way the dating scene works these days, if your like me, you get ignored by women. Why, because I do not chase or persue, I talk to women and treat them with respect. I believe a woman is smart enough to let a man know she is interested and what she wants. But, again I am not like most men, on that point! I am me, for who else can I be, has always been what I go by. I look at it simply as, well you can like me, or not like me, I cna live with it either way and I force myself upon no one.

Too bad it’s not the same world I met my two wives i had in. Back then, I went to Bowling Alleys and Pool Halls and met my first wife while in the Navy. We had 12 years of marriage and two children before we divorced. My Second wife i met in a sinmple way too, A Single’s Dance. I went just seeking to have fun and get out. I sa wher across a crowded roomand asked her to dance. 28 Years later, she passed on from Breast Cancer, and yes I miss her. Yet I am still here. So, I have to live on till I pass, we all do the same thing, don’t we?

I find life interesting in many ways. It can be unpredictable. it can be sudden, it can be long lasting and loving, and it can be many other things. It can be angry, it can be sad, it can be grieving or it can be enjoying and laughing. Life is a mystery, and at the sametime, it can also be like a plane coming in for a landing, a flight path already determined. We control our own destiny and fate don’t we? At least I believe we do, to a point. You go about your own business, go shopping, walking, play a game or sport, go to a movie or even go to a tavern or bar or church, if you chose to. But, who you interact with, how you do it, determeines if you find someone or someone finds you. Physical attratcion is one thing, sexual attratcion another, mental attraction is a third. We work off of interactions, off of discussions and talks, socially, it is an effort to interact in todays America and world. Why, because interaction these days is on the interaction, through social apps and dating sites, more than in person. We have gotten away from interacting with one another, we do more online than ever before.

One thing that has come up world wide is how the population of the world is decreasing, not staying the same or growing. Why? Simple, human interactions are less these days. AI and the internet has taken us from in person interactions to online interactions, and texting and cell phones. Then sites are popping up on a daily basis that call themselves dating sites and they only take you for your money. You get hacked, you get chased and spammed and people want your money not you. Dating apps today are not real, many are phoney is all. Sad I know but, true. So what does one do in todays world to find companionship, friendships or love or a commitment to being in a relationship? It’s like shooting an arrow at targets you can not zero in on, these days, too many moving targets period. So men, stop chasing, we stop pursuing, we stop trying to use dating apps too. Then, women complain men won’t ask them out, reason is simple ladies, men got tired of refusals and denials and put downs just like you do. It’s really a mess to waddle through and try to find someone to match with. Sadly, the population is diminishing on the planet, and in America as a country too. I don’t know what to say or do, I shy from asking any woman out, because I too, hate the idea of rejection. We all do no matter what sex we are, don’t we. It hurts. So, we stop trying and give up! Just my thoughts as of today in 2025, Just figured i would voic ethem her eon my blog. Best of Luck to all of course.