A Few of My Favorite Things!!!!!


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The flowers of life I call them, Roses bushes,,Weeping cherry tree and og course the christmas plant. All flowers we love and hold dearly as life goes by and we water as needed. They bring a sweet perfume, a beauty and relaxation.

 

Foo Foo Bowl The Little cat I call Missy Foo Foo, we adopted her from a shelter and she has brought warmth, joy and love to our home! Each night as I watch Television she climbs into my lap in my recliner and keeps me company.

Cherry TreeMy Backyard at sunset, the sky turns colors and the glow opens your eyes to a  sight no one can deny or beauty!

A few of my Favorite Things is what I call them, and you can see why just looking at them!

 

Mel and ILetsGOREDSOXVikings logo_head The teams I follow and Love, they may not always win, but I stand by them!

31005_102488143250451_1750227766_n300x300My Daughters whom I love no matter what and will till the day I die! No Matter what happened they are still my daughters!

My Mother, whom I loved and who gave birth to me. Yet was distant from me in many ways!
My Mother, whom I loved and who gave birth to me. Yet was distant from me in many ways!

In The end These are my Favorite Things in life , not money or belongings, but people dear to me in all ways!wall Family

 

 

 

Alex, my brother’s Birthday!


      Alex A. Sali, was my younger brother, who was the first son of my step-father Abraham. Alex was born with gifts few knew he had because he never used them, he knew music, art, and hard work. He had the gift of gab, and could talk you into buying a pair of used underwear, if he tried hard enough. He was a fighter, a con man, a thief and much more, He was a father, a lover to his women, a traveler of the United states and a Gambler too. Alex was beaten as a child by his father so much so, he rebelled against Abraham and stole his father’s belongings and jewelry and tools and sold them to pawn shops or anyone else he could to make some bucks. Alex had so many sides to him few of us knew him at all, including me, but he was my younger brother, who ran far and wide to get away from his father, his mother and his parental family, sad isn’t it?

 My younger brother ran hard and far after a confrontation with his father Abraham, in the basement of a home we lived in Naugatuck, Connecticut. Seems after I left home to join the military, Alex rebelled more so than before, and he and Abraham had a falling out. They ended up in the basement of the house face to face arguing and fighting it out, as Abraham beat Alex with a two by four, Alex, finally had enough and he was now big enough to fight back, he was 16. He grabbed a lead pipe and cold cocked his father across his skull and caused the older man to bleed well. Abraham with blood pouring down his face, told his son to pack his stuff and get out of his house that day and never return. Alex did and that is how it really went no story intended folks.

 Alex would return in the future once or twice maybe three times from his travels around the United States. He came back to sell a greyhound dog to a dog track one year, another time, to steal more from his father and leave again. But in the end Alex was never to enter his parents home or see his family again, for he hated each and everyone one of us, for what happened to him. It was not his siblings though who bore the responsibility of what happened to him, it was his father and mother. As they aged and he did, they wondered where he had gone and what happened to him, and grew older and hit their 50s as he hit 30. In the end his parents both contacted cancer, his father got cancer of the pancreas and his mother cancer of the lungs, they died one year and one day apart, in 1990 and 1991. While dying Abraham and his wife went looking for Alex and tried to trace him down using his social security number. They found him, before dying, and sent him a message they were dying, Alex, never replied at all, he refused.  

   My sister and i buried Abraham and our mother side by side in one cemetery, after our mother died, bringing them together for eternity.  They never heard a word from Alex! Alex died in California after moving from state to state and leaving behind a wife in son in Texas. and headed west. He died a sad, lonely man at age 30, in a nursing home in California, and didn’t want to be buried under his real name of Sali. He was buried under Alex Sali Martenelli, and he died of aids from drug use. The sad part is he was so talented as a child and so smart he could have done anything he set his mind to, his father drove him to the dark side with beatings and mistreatment. It is Alex’s birthday today September 19th, he was born in 1963. God Bless you Alex and may you sleep peacefully and rest in peace in heaven!.

 

 

Three disturbances, that bother us all!


     Good Thursday Morning America!

There are three things that disturb and concern me today as I wake up slowly and look at the news this am!

1) Terror Organizations and the existence of such groups. They are abundant in the Mid-East part of the world and wish to threaten everyone they can for either political or religious reasons. They say the Koran tells them to attack and terrorize people and eliminate people and races. Wrong no where in your Koran does it say that! Part two, why are you attacking countries who want nothing to do with you? Leave them be!  Thirdly as a British citizen told me,  and a Canadian too agreed, it is time the USA, Canada, Britain and other Democratic republics stop policing the world and take care of our own. We can not continue to police the world and then feed our own poor, homeless and ill can we?  I also noticed that those who object to my way of thinking on this subject, never served in the military and never will or could, due to choice or laziness or illness. So that is why they think it is easy to do, it is not their asses on a ship, plane, climbing or hiking across a country full of people who hate them, it’s an honorable man or woman doing it. So if you never served, don’t speak about military missions ok, you don’t know jack about being shot at, or trying to survive in hostile territory.

  2) Veteran Hospitals, I am tired of CNN, and all the major news agencies on television reporting on the accidents or malpractice of these hospitals. The truth is these hospitals save veterans and keep them alive each day, a lot more than they make mistakes or cause anyone’s death. leave them be you want to help and are concerned, then give them more money and equipment and hire more medical professionals to man them. They are under manned by Doctors, Nurses and Technicians, why because Uncle Sam pays so much less than civilian hospitals do. Wake up!  While on this subject, I go to the Veteran’s Hospital in West Haven Connecticut for all my care, last year they saved my life, by first finding cancer in my lungs, in a survey they did of people with cancer history in families. My primary care provider found the cancer and one month later they took a lobe and one-third of my right lung, removing the cancer and saving my life. They follow me and have been watching me and will be for at least five years. So, don’t tell me about Veteran’ Hospitals and their faults or problems, if it is misuse of funding ok, as to performance of the Doctors, Nurses, Technicians, no way you can say they don’t do their jobs. Leave them be and give them more money and help, don’t knock them down.

         3)Final subject for today; The National Football League and its interference, in the personal lives of its players. Listen closely now to what I am about to say folks, I am a NFL Fan for sure and have been all my life ok. And I firmly believe no woman or child should be hit or physically or mentally harmed period, but do we really need to be in each players personal life? I understand  if a player is arrested or picked up on a warrant for harming a child or woman, they need to be prosecuted to the fullest and not allowed to play football in the league, but, if not convicted in a court of law of said crimes, one must remember this is America they are innocent until proven guilty. And to sit them down or remove them from their jobs and not letting them work or provide for their families during the charges or trial is wrong. Until convicted by a jury of their peers folks , they are innocent until it’s proven.  Now, that said and done I admire The NFL for doing it’s job to the fullest in these cases and reacting, but they have taken too long to do so really, these domestic violence cases abound in the NFL and the world. It’s time, they stop!  Violence toward women or children is wrong period and we know it, we are not stupid, so wake up folks, this is a disease of the world’s society and is abundant in it, We need to stop it fast and hard and make penalties more severe regarding it all.  

My closer here today is a link to my latest little effort in writing, produced by my wife on Amazon’s e-books:

 http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00N1W3J5M- The Blogs On Life

   If you like my Blogs, my wife assembled some in book form, please check it out!

 

Modern Parent’s Faults


The faults of parents, is why we have destructive, vindictive, obsessive children with no care for anyone else but themselves, they are spoiled. They are given everything and then asked to behave, and what they do is any damn thing they want and become drug abusers, drunks,stalkers, and more some even become murderers, sad isn’t it.

Back when I grew up in the 1960’s, there was an old saying from parents and grandparents, spare the rod, spoil the child! It’s true in more ways then one, these children who are spoiled and who have never been spanked or punished for what they do, become animals in the human race when they grow up. Too much leeway, too many gangster movies, too many war games and video games instill violence in our children, why do we allow it? It’s easy really, one word comes to mind and one phase, freedom of speech and choice. But before we give that right to our children don’t you think we should teach these kids, yes our kids, respect, discipline,honesty, and caring for others. When I grew up there would be no talking back to parents, there was a bar of soap and a tough man to make ya eat it if ya swore or talked back, he was called father. back then, the mothers didn’t take it, they smacked ya good, in a store, a mall anywhere if ya got out of control. you were their child, their responsibility no one elses. What has happened to core values of raising a child? what happened to teaching morals and ethics and beliefs that will guide and protect them all their lives and making them the best they can be? I guess the permissive parents of today don’t get it or remember it either.

  Instead of teaching your children to read, you give them televisions and video games, ah anyone remember a good book? Anyone bother to teach them to count, spell, or how to compromise to get along? Any of you parents ever think of saying no to your child, and telling them they have to do what is right, instead of letting them go on their own?  Don’t blame the child when they grow up and become adults if they walk away from the family or you as parents because you didn’t instill basic values and beliefs in them, it’s the parent not the child to blame! Wake UP!

Now for all those anti-violence and child abuse types who will say I am wrong, I did not say kill your kid or beat them to death here, I did not say abuse them, I did say punish them, discipline them and don’t spoil them, teach them respect, morals and ethics, manners and respect. Thats what i am saying, and don’t let your child drift into the wrong crowds, don’t let your child quit school, don’t take care of your child till 30 either, teach em to stand on their own two feet. It works with proper parental guidance and discipline, it did for generations and generations and it still will today!  Save The Children and make them your own as parents, teach them the honesty they need to survive in the world as well as rights and wrongs to do and not do. Sadly, it’s lacking in today’s children, I see it everyday in stores, on the streets, in home sof people with children, wake up, your the parent not them.

NFL Wake up and Change


Sunday has arrived once again folks, and The NFL will rule many home televisions and men’s hearts, as they watch the games and ignore all else around them, but men there is more going on around ya. Pay attention to the wife or girlfriend some, watch the kids and do your work around the house first and foremost, and please remember whether your team wins or loses, do not take it out on family, friends, loved one or anyone else. I hope I have made that one clear to you big NFL Fans.

The National Football League has it’s problems for sure these days. The Washington Redskins have a name problem and I believe it should be changed to a different name for the team. The Indian People of this country and the world have been discriminated against forever, and what all forget is they were here first not the team, and if they say any reference to them should not be used I agree. Change the name Mr. Synder, and let the Indians who were here way before any white man, african American or anyone else, feel comfortable again. It’s wrong to use something a whole nation and race doesn’t want used against their wishes please.

We now have many NFL problems arising and i believe the NFL did know of them and buried them to keep the games and it’s business going at all costs. IT makes money and thats it’s thing to do, it does entertain people both men and women, but it needs to discipline it’s players, coaches in the correct way, it needs to recognize it’s not a government in and of itself.

Ray Rice, now Adrian Peterson, violence, in action by full grown men who call themselves pro football player should not exempt them from punishment. No Man has the right to punch their wife and knock her out like Rice did, and no father has the right to beat their child with a switch or belt like Peterson did . Women and children are the weaker species here physically men and if you don’t have the self-control to not hit a woman or a child then maybe you shouldn’t be so lucky as to be paid to play pro football anymore and go into counselling. Maybe instead of beating women and children you should beat upon yourself and get help with anger management, think about that.

Do not misunderstand what I am saying, I love the game myself I am one of it’s biggest fans, but in the end if it’s players are going to hit and hurt women and children, I will say they need punished and more than a three game suspension or fine, they make millions playing the game, they don’t care when ya fine them.  The NFL needs to suspend them and more in response to these incidents and make an example out of the serious ones and correct the lesser ones. If your going to run a Pro League and do it right lets keeps child, women abuse out of it now. I stand for the rights of the women and children and think these men are too high on their own testosterone to stop their own actions. They need calmed down. Self-Control is something all need in the world, especially men who are athletic and strong and who can seriously damage a woman or child. Wake up NFL!

Good Parts of America


       Hello America. so many are putting down the American people and Country and Government in the world it is crazy, the American Way is the right way! Too many think wella democracy is wrong and we are too permissive, go tell that to the people of Vietnam, Korea, Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan, and the DictatorShips like the one in Cuba. Sadly, they still exist and will because people are afraid of taking their own destiny into their own hands like the people of America did.

         We have things in America called voting, right to free speech,education for all, equal rights and more. We are actually one lucky country in all ways. Plus we have proven we have the strongest military in the world also and I understand why we help everyone, it doesn’t mean I agree with it though.  Yet as an American you know, you have to accept the position we are in as a nation and people and lead on as we do, don’t we?

          The bottom line about America is simple folks, we can agree to disagree and discuss anything, without killing one another over it, plus we go by majority rules.  And at the same time we recognize the minority has a voice and must be paid attention to also. It works folks, if we all compromise, and remember  the United We Stand and Divided We fall saying , so stay United! America has pride, resources, people and more that believe in freedom and we shall believe forever!

 

 

Video Gaming Madness By:William M. McCurrach


 Video Gaming Madness    

  It is ancient history so to say now, as to when the first video game appeared on the world market and the electronics craze really began. The 1980s is now decades ago when companies like Atari, and Commodore Computers came about. All hooked to a TV antenna on the back of your television and or with a monitor of its own and keyboard and silly joysticks. It now seems so long ago after all the inventions and progress since, doesn’t it. Pong, Table Tennis and then graphics came about as children and adults got fascinated by Intellivision and then PlayStations and X-Boxes and personal computers. Lap Top computers became the craze and now Tablets and E-readers abound, everywhere a person goes is someone reading, or playing or working on an electronic device. Amazing isn’t it folks we have become total and unashamed electronic geeks who love having video games to play and watch.

         As a kid born in the fifties and raised in the sixties and seventies, we never had game consoles, computers, e-readers or video games. We had erector sets, microscopes, dolls, rings, jacks, jump ropes and balls. We had puzzles and paperback books and hard covers, and a little TV if we were good. Today’s children live and die with electronics and it is sad when you removed it from the kids they get lost and don’t know what to do anymore.

          Such is the preamble to what happened to a child born in 1982, little Gerald McLaney. A young boy who by the age of fibe years old was given a controller to an Atari Console and got lost in simple games like pong and table tennis and grew from there. His parents didn’t think anything of it, it calmed Gerald down when he was upset, it made him quiet and happy and they could hear him in the next room each day, laughing and making fun sounds as he played for hours.

            His days were spent staring at a Television screen full of pixels and shapes and laughing and yelling and sometimes crying when he failed to beat the games. Never though would Gerald ever give up no matter how many times he was beaten by a game he always went back to play again, to prove it was beatable to him. Usually Gerald would figure it out even at five years old, a small boy who’s brain sped as fast as light pixels across the screen. He mastered games like pong in no time, tennis in no time, Mario Brothers by 7, and was on to games of Champion Tetris and puzzles and more.

                His days were spent going to school, coming home rushing through homework, finishing it and on went the Television and the game console and Gerald would be lost once more to the world, in an electronic wasteland staring at a screen of colored pixels now that moved at the same rate as his brain cells fascinated by the games invented to play with. Gerald never worried about making friends or going out to play and his parents saw no problem letting him do as he wanted and what made him happy. After all Gerald was happy as he was and no one cared if it was the video games and Television screen keeping him company, all they knew is Gerald was a happy kid and never caused trouble.

            His life went on and on as the video games grew, he went from Atari, to Intellivision, from Intellivision he graduated to X-Box and Play Stations. The games went from simple games like pong and table tennis to games of more violent natures now, war games, battles, battleships and planes and then the shooters. Yes the all-time favorites for Gerald, his shooters games of war now allowed to be played across the internet now, as servers sprang up and blood and gore and sounds of explosions and fights and yells of death filled the room Gerald played in. Gerald staring at the screen to see a dot move and shoot and duck as a player’s pixeled characters head exploded 300 feet away in the game and the scores rang up and awards He joyed in being able to kill as many opponents as possible and being the best on the score boards around the world now. Yet behind the screen as others were being beaten and seeing Gerald’s pixel character in the game come up victorious and win, no one knew the real Gerald who was now home alone always with no one to watch him. He was snacking on so many things over time that between the age of 7 to 17, Gerald had somehow grown to 300 pounds and could barely move. Yet he refused to put down his controller and stop his game playing for it was all he knew. He ate whatever he wished, no his parents didn’t pay attention, nor stop him as long as Gerald didn’t bother anyone and was happy.

            The video game sounds could be heard in the halls with Gerald’s door shut as he played on and on seldom stopping except for bathroom breaks and to get snacks. He would rush as fast as he could across the hall to the bathroom to go and then wait when no one was looking and get food and drinks and run back in and play more. He lived for the video games each day, looking online for new ones to play, buying and downloading what he could on a credit card. Each game was more complicated to win, each shooter more violent and gore filled as Zombies died, and Soldiers and Hit Men and Mobsters all at Gerald’s hands. As Gerald sat back in his chair in his room his eyes filled with the colors and pixels of the screen his thumbs and fingers gliding effortlessly across the controllers, smiling and never caring about anything else.

               The pressure from the weight and his lack of physical exertion began to get to Gerald each day, slowing his heartbeat down and causing bladder and bowel problems, but Gerald didn’t care much, he wanted to just sit in the dark stare at the screen his fingers and thumbs sliding over the smooth buttons on the controllers and watch pixel characters on a screen bleed and die left and right as he worked through each map and screen. It was after all Gerald’s whole life now, he knew he couldn’t run and play with the other kids now. Gerald could barely make it to the bathroom 100 feet away and the refrigerator 200 feet away downstairs once a day. He would sneak down when no one was looking with a tray and climb slowly back up the stairs, with the try loaded with drinks and snacks and junk food.

               Once a week Gerald would get up and empty the trash when no one was home from his bedroom. Bags of trash he stored like a rabbit storing food, until no one was around and then disposed of them. No one knew Gerald existed except for the fact they kept feeding him food and drink and hearing the sounds of the games in the hallway and down the stairs throughout the house. This went on for a good 5 years and at times only visitors would wonder how Gerald was to his parents, but when they asked to see him, Gerald would tell his parents, he was too busy doing things and the game sounds would get louder. Slowly but surely over the next two years the gaming sounds from Gerald’s room would fade a little at a time. Becoming less and less to be heard from Gerald’s room daily. His own family tended to believe Gerald was fine, because the sounds did keep coming and going on and off and he never ever complained of anything.

              Finally, after five long years, Gerald’s family began to wonder how come they didn’t see or hear from Gerald much anymore, what was he doing now a days. Was he really ok in that bedroom of his and  why didn’t he come out  or answer anymore?

              One day, they decided it was time to see Gerald again and make sure he was alive and ok. As they pounded on his door there was only video games sounds inside and no verbal response from him.  They knocked harder and harder but no response still. So they tried to open the door to Gerald’s room, and failed not once but three times. Now worried frantically, they dialed 911 for help.

             10 minutes later the fire department and police arrived to find out what this was all about, Amazed they listened to how someone wa sin this room and had been for so long no one knew what was happening, with him. They knocked first looking for response like everyone else did, but nothing. They asked for a key to the door but no one had one to let them in. The Police decided to try to break the door down by their shoulders yet it did not budge. 

               The Fire Department brought in a saw and they cut thru the door to Gerald’s room. They found Gerald who was now 400 pounds and leaning against the door as the door gave the rest of the way under his weight. Gerald died 400 pounds, happy with a tray of snacks, sodas and his video game controller in his hand! Sadly Gerald never bothered with anyone but the gamers online and ate like he did to do so, but he never interacted with real people in the outside world either.

                 Three days later they buried Gerald McLaney in a piano box, to hold his 400 pound body and before they tossed the dirt over his casket, they threw in his X-Box 360 and a controller!.

 

Silent Majority Speak Up/ Hillary Clinton


America it is now time for the silent majority to speak up and make changes, the 2014 midterm elections are almost upon us. If you believe as I do that Congress has been stalemating the country and not doing it’s job, now is the time to make a change. The silent majority which is the ones who get screwed every time congress wants to tax people, needs to speak up this 2014. We need to be rid of politicians who sit in office, who just don’t work for the american people. We need change America, a change for the better, like putting in people who will compromise, throwing out tea party candidates and backing democrats in my opinion. Republicans and Tea Party politicians have sat in Congress blocking bills and laws they have no business blocking, they lie, and are lazy actually. You want to make a difference this November vote democratic, get rid of the non- working Republicans and Tea Party Members and lets move the country forward.

Two years from this November will be the most important election America will have faced in a long time, as the Presidential Candidates will soon roll themselves out and announce. When they do America, please listen closely, pay attention and don’t make a wrong choice in the Voting Booth. This country has been stagnating under the past two administrations, under Bush due to stupidity and wars, under Obama because he  is black and the Republicans are blocking everything they do. Obama never really had a chance, even though he tried, with health care and more, it was all blocked by a Republican controlled Congress. Sad isn’t it folks, the economy is stagnated, the politic plans of Americans who need help are blocked and Republicans and Tea Party members sit back and do not a thing and then say re-elect me. Why? I have no idea if you can’t compromise and work together with your fellow colleagues, get the hell out of office and do something else, politics is not for you.

        The closer we get to 2016, the more I feel our only choice is Hillary Rodham Clinton for President. Yes I know she would be the first Woman President, ever and many think she is hawkish. She isn’t really she wants to defend america and it’s people. She I am sure will have a domestic plan, to go with her foreign policies and more.  She will stand tall and tell the world and American People why certain things need done and how to keep us out of more wars. She will help to fix Obama care I am sure and handle the immigration problem in the correct manner. This is just the start of what Hillary Clinton can do people if elected. If you think the Republicans, Tea party or even an Independent can do better, then you need your head examined.

  Vote Hillary Rodham Clinton for President!

9-11 Remembered!


 America do not ever forget 9/11, do not ever forget unless we stick together as one people indivisible under God and Constitution, we can be overcome or hurt. That was proven on 9/11 with the dastardly attacks that hits us and the lives we have lost on that day and since from the after effects. we struggle each day to maintain our position as a leader and peacemaker of the world, but we can’t continue to do so forever. There comes a time when America must recoup and withdraw and allow someone else to provide and do the duties necessary to keep the earth going. So, if France, Russia, Italy, England, or any other country has the audacity or strength to stand tall and help Syria and their people do so now! America has helped the world through two World Wars, Korean Wars and Policing, Vietnam and Policing of it too. We have run to the rescue of Iraqis. Afghanistan’s , and many more, who has ever come to America’s rescue at any time, say hello to France who helped us way back in out Revolutionary War. We repaid them many times over and ever rebuilt Japan after their deadly attack on Pearl harbor and our Retaliation for it against them. No other nation has been so damn generous as to forgive and forget those who attacked them and rebuild them too. Isn’t time we stopped saving the world and save ourselves here at home? 

IF I Die


http://www.wattpad.com/3901046-if-i-die-by-william-m-mccurrach

If I Die is my Poem posted on Wattpad for al to see and read!

I Hope you all like it and will vote for it!