Why do ex-‘s act stupid?


             I was divorced way back in1992 and my ex-wife took my daughters of course and raised them. She falsely accused me of crimes I did not commit, and I almost went to prison for it, but I didn’t. I gave this woman what she wanted her divorce because of problems in her family not mine. I have nothing to do with any moles testation or sexual abuse to anyone, her father did. Yet I ended up in a divorce because of that situation not my situation. When you marry someone do yourself a favor check for family problems ahead of time, they hide them well, I found out and they pass them on to their children if they get a chance. One one mistake when I got divorced was walking away from my daughters and leaving the state I was in. But as we all know, once a woman says divorce and requests it, us men have no legal leg to stand on and fight with, nor are we set up to raise children on our own. SO we make logical choices and use logical voices and carry on and start over, never forgetting what we left behind.

             I followed the laws and instructions of the courts, even though I was innocent completely of any charges when I was released. Be careful men, if you marry a woman and you do not know what her father or mother did to them growing up it can get you jail for 10-20 years. They pass on their stories of sexual abuse and molestation to their children who then make false accusations. It happened to me, but I survived it. Women of divorces are also vindictive about those divorces towards their ex’s for no real reason. It happens, believe me, I know I live with it daily. Any Way.

            I have two daughters, from this woman and both are beautiful and smart, yet, different I must agree. But besides their differences with one another I love them both equally and would do what ever I can for them and their children too.  But, recently, I have grown upset and angry with what I see from my daughter, on her Face Book Page, but, I know also her mother is controlling it right now. All of a sudden my ex’s second husband is named as her father, that’s crap. So I sent him a message telling him he isn’t her father and I sent my daughter one telling her I didn’t appreciate seeing this. My Ex-wife is an idiot at times and she will do anything she can to get at me including this bull. But I shall endeavor on and be a bigger man then she is a woman and let her take her Zoloft and carry on.

           When you ask for a divorce , you get what you want and you still hold anger over it, over 20 years later, it kind of tells me you didn’t really want the divorce in the first place and your sorry you made the mistake. Grow up and realize you made the decision and I accepted it is all, don’t ever blame the one you decided to hurt for what you did, blame yourself and grow up!.

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