Too many lonely people roam the internet worldwide looking for the impossible relationship that they can not find in their normal, everyday, ordinary lives. They use internet services for dating, chatting, role-playing, in every form from “G” rated to “XXX” rated and find no solution to their problems or loneliness, why is this?
A close examination of this situation shows that too many people are in too much of a hurry or desperate for attention that they will do anything to find someone. Sadly, what does that say about human kind and people in general on a world, that is over populated as it is today? Chat programs and simulations are being used daily and nightly, 24/7 around the clock, from Yahoo, to MSN, to Second Life and others, yet people are still basically alone. Why?
People stop and think one day, when you were young and having fun doing what you really enjoyed, and not trying to be what someone else wanted you to be, weren’t you happier and able to make more friends than? Yes you were!
I can only tell everyone the same advise I gave an old friend of mine I know over 40 years now. We were both divorced at the time when I walked into his apartment and found him with envelopes and letters all over his coffee table and spending a fortune in stamps and time to write letters to women in magazines. Put the magazines away, save your money for stamps and envelopes. Live your life to the fullest, enjoy your job and life and do what you love most and someone will find you.
And as my friend of over 40 years now found out, it works. It took him two weeks to meet a woman he spent over ten years with till she died of cancer on him. And then he took the same advise and did it again and is now getting ready to celebrate his tenth anniversary again with a new woman. It works folks for both sexes, be yourself, have fun, do what you enjoy and someone will find you, chats and simulations and the internet is not the solution to loneliness, real life is.
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