African Americans/Terrorists/Jobs


    African Americans it seems keep bringing up certain facts, of which no one disagrees, #1- They were slave sin America for a long while and suppressed and beaten and treated like animals. #2. they believe they are still mistreated and discriminated against today in America, again true for some but not all. #3 They don’t want to be called names like nigger, blackie or anything else that is demeaning to them. Very true and understood, by all, believe me. So what, am I trying to say here, well lets see, that all of this is wrong by the people who do it, very true. 

      But please explain some things to a white American walking the streets, #1- Why do African American try to intimidate and push around other races and colors, like they own the world. #2 Why do, African Americans, speak their own language in their own way then tell other races and colors  we can’t use the same slang or terms they do to describe themselves? #3 Why is it every time a African American child is killed and dies, they were god’s gift to the planet, a great child and educated and on their way to college and this and that, when it’s not true in all cases, including Micheal Brown Jrs.? #4 Who are African Americans to call a white cop a murderer and killer, when all the facts are not all in and the true story is not fully told yet, let the courts handle the matter. #4 What the hell is Thugafy and why was it invented in the Micheal Brown case by Sunny Hostin? #5 For Miss Sunny Hostin’s sake I will tell you the word thug has been used to describe , hoodlums, white, black, asian or any other nationality in history for ever. It was used way back in the 1950s to describe street thug that were white and now  it is used by you saying we are calling African Americans thugs, wrong, we are calling anyone who acts like a hoodlum, bum, thief or criminal a thug period, not African Americans as a race. Not everyone robbed a convenience store, pushed around the clerk and took something not theirs, but Micheal Brown JR. did, didn’t he? So lets talk the truth here and not lie and let the courts solve the matter and see what happens, we may find out, the Officer Darren Wilson only did his job and Micheal did bull rush him to get killed. common sense says to infuriate and incite people using words like murder, execution and killing in this case is wrong and inciting the public and making a racial problem out of what is really a legal matter to be handled by the courts, Judges and Lawyers.

        Next Subject: Across the world Americans are becoming targets for terrorist organizations, because we are still the strongest nation on the planet, because United We Stand is still our cry and motto. No American no matter what color, race, nationality wants terrorist, in our country, telling us what to do or suppressing or killing our families and persecuting us. On that point it matters not what color, race,nationality we are, first and foremost we are Americans and will not allow it here. We still do not belong, in other countries fighting wars and policing nations for them, no matter what anyone says. What we do belong doing is political support not military, it costs us too much, not only in personnel and money, but in time and reputation. I said this before and shall say it again here, did we not learn from both Korea and Vietnam, that policing a country is not our job or place to be? If not than America needs to learns and realize we can’t correct everyone or save everyone, we have to stay out. Lets solve America’s problems first here at home before we try to rescue anyone else please.

          Final Subject; Jobs, Jobs, Jobs, Economy, Economy, Economy! Lest face the problem of the unemployment rate in america head on. Across the country, the one problem for all is no jobs, no place to make money to pay their bills and a hard time surviving. We have homeless families on the streets, begging for a place to sleep, a place to eat and clothing and much more. Yet Congress, is doing nothing to help these folks or the average American on the street middle income and down. Why? The Rich keep getting richer, and the poor poorer, no one does a damn thing about it all. Sad isn’t it? When will Congress do what is necessary to bring back manufacturing in this country? Don’t they understand we have the ability to manufacture anything they want to and they should be encouraging it. drop the taxes and bring it back, help educate and invent new products and lets get the country back on it’s feet once more. America has the best blue collar workers to ever live in the world in it, yet no blue collar workspaces to put them in, because of the tax rates, fines and more. if you can’t reeducate the Blue collar worker to be white collar, then invent blue collar jobs and lets get this damn economy going once more.

 

 

Facing Facts/Legal vs. Illegal/Thugafy?


    Facing facts in life that will eventually get you in the end is not easy for many or for that fact for anyone. Life brings such events into all our lives each day we live at times. Some people accept and carry on and others try to fight it and die, trying. You can’t fight certain things in life, birth, death, taxes, pain, both emotional and physical, and finally, separations from those you love dearly due to facts beyond your control. All of this happens in a person’s lifetime and is important to note for all to see, before they hit these points in life. Children and young adults feel superior to everyone and like they can do anything in life they wish to do, until they run into injuries, mental problems, emotional problems, and money problems. It’s all a part of growing up in America and in the world isn’t it folks? We can’t protect our children forever and they will eventually leave the nest so to say and have to live on their own or with another human being, so all we can do is prepare them and protect them for so long and hope they are ready.

     Next Subject; The world is not a safe place for anyone! In America we have crazy killers, emotionally disturb and mentally ill individuals and much much more like crazy cops, no one is completely stable. A point was made to me the other day as I watched the mess in Ferguson, occur and blow up on television. The police are just the otherside of the coin from these criminals and hoodlums, gangsters and gangs, as well as these thugs. The difference is they are given a license and a gun to use if needed. The opinions are the same on both sides of the legal and nonlegal communities, and it’s that they all want to be in charge and feel powerful.

       Final Thought for Today: I was watching CNN’s coverage of the Micheal Brown Jr. case where an officer of the Ferguson Police force shot and killed him. During that coverage, I kept hearing how America has thugafied !   What the hell is thugafied and why is it being used? To the commentators on these news shows I want to point out something about this, the black commentators want to use this term to described what white Americans are calling their black children who do wrong, wrong folks! No White commentator invented this word, it didn’t come into existence from a white population making it up and show up on television through the caucasian population pointed at the African America Population, it came from the African American Population period.  I hear  black commentators, and entertainers using it, just like they run around calling each other nigers, why?  No one thugafied Micheal Brown Jr., he ruined his own reputation when he stole from a store and pushed around the clerk before getting shot by the Officer.  It’s all on film for all to see in the videos shown, as sad as it seems it is true. Sunny, Donna, and others like Don Lemon want so hard to defend the black population on this point and hold the side of Micheal Brown Jr.s family up, for all to see and grieve with them they are doing more damgage than good, using words, like murder, killing, thugafied , all are inflammatory terms to angry the public and they should not be used in this case on Television. The case is a simple one, did the Officer shoot Micheal Brown Jr out of fear for his own life or did he overeact? This is not a Black Vs. White matter, it is not a racial problem, it’s a legal one to be solved by the courts and a jury, not by inflammed and angry newscaster or commentators.!

 

Dreams


     Dreams come and go and some stick they say! I had dreams as a child that would steer me away from thing that would cause my death if they happened to me for real. I had dreams of me falling into an endless pit, or or a cliff, or drowning in the mighty depths of the oceans. I Avoided them all by listening to my dreams and remembering them the next day and avoiding it all. Is this really possible, yes it is folks I am alive to tell of it.  Many will say I am full of it, it is impossible to be true, yet I have lived thru it all and still survive today.

      Dreams told me of my stepfather’s death, of my mother’s death and so much more. They told me , these dreams,I would be put away for a few years and The Children Center became a reality.  I spent two years in there and would dream each night of peace, a meadow a place to love in and live in without fear or harm coming at me. I spent two years in The Center and saw many kids come and go and live and die and more in there and avoided it all because I saw events coming at me in my dreams and avoided them each day. Not easy to do but I could remember my dreams the next morning and know when something matched my dreams and avoid, avoid, avoid. I am here today because I did so and I am glad I had that ability back then.

       Yet as you get older, you lose the ability and such happened to me over the years, especially when I graduated Elementary School at age 14. The dreams started to disappear and I struggled on with out them for two years or so, it was like a blackout had occurred in my mind and I was wandering blindly. But they came back in about two years after we switched towns we lived in and i met new people and made friends and  more. It seems they cam back only for a brief period of time and then died out again, and I ended up struggling thru to the service years, wandering thru High School and my teen years.

        I foresaw, people getting married and divorced, dying, lovers getting together and births. All before my military years began at 24, and then in the military I foresaw accidents on ships and on shore stations, jobs i would fill as a sailor and more. It was as if my dreams would drive my life right along the right track I needed.

        Then in 1982 three events changed my life and the dreams stopping was the first one. Then  My first daughter was born, and finally I fell aboard ship down 24 steel rungs on a ship due to lube oil. My back went wacky, my discs went herniated and the deterioration of my spine and life started. sadly you can’t predicate such events as a fall when your overtired and can’t sleep never mind dream, so you lose out on the visions I had for years. It all disappeared on me then, but it does happen folks, your dreams can foretell your future and help ya survive if you can contain and hold the images or thoughts from them.

          As I tried to tell my PTSD Doctor at The Veteran’s Hospital here, my dreams stopped way back then aboard that ship. And I wandered without them slowly meandering my way through a Navy career that would total 12 years and giving me 16 years total service years.Then suddenly the nightmares started from my childhood, from the navy and army and more. Violence everywhere and a struggle to control my fears and angers came up. It took medication to kill the nightmares I had, medication and talking it out with whomever i could. I now have no more dreams of nightmares left the medication doesn’t let me dream anymore, so I survive well.  I use to wake in the middle of the night frozen in fear, unable to breathe, or jump out of bed to my feet suddenly or swing wildly all in my sleep. The Medications have stopped that folks, and taken away my dreams of the future and of things to avoid in life. Amazingly, I still survive it all even now after lung cancer and surgery so, the dreams weren’t there to tell me what was coming, yet I survived so I consider myself lucky. So if you dream folks, listen to your dreams and understand they can indeed be showing you your future and things to avoid!!

 

         

Honesty/ Serving/Micheal Brown Jr. case/Ferguson, Mo.


    Honesty, is the best policy, I was told that from the first time i could understand it till the day I left home to join the service. But while honesty is the best policy so are morals, ethic, common sense and logic. There comes a time when it is best to just stay quiet instead of  speak, when it is better to leave than stay, when it is better to give up and surrender than fight on.  What you say would prove these points, simply, America’s involvement in Korea, and Vietnam, wars we had no business in and we lost many honorable people in. sadly America  keeps playing police force to other countries in the middle east and else where, we never learn our lesson it seems. Screw politics folks, lets think of the men and women who serve to protect and defend their country only to end up dead on others soil. It has to end soon American Volunteer to serve their country and end up dying in someone elses country and dragged home in a box, sad isn’t it?

      As a Disabled Veteran, who served 16 years total between three branches of service i know what I am talking about. I served U.S. Army, U.S. Army National Guard and then U. S. Navy, I did as I was told and served honorably, only to be injured aboard a ship, and then transferred to a Naval Hospital in Germany and diagnosed with six herniated discs in my spine and then fighting to stay in for years before they put me out.  I am now a Disabled Veteran with a degenerating spine, PTSD, Depression, sleep apnea and so much more,  I awake in the middle of the night screaming in my sleep and jumping up at time. Yet I believe in America, I believe in serving my country and defending it, and I didn’t do it for me, I did it to defend and protect the ones I love here at home in America my family, friends and those I love. So, don’t tell me about, the United States needing Americans to serve I did it. What is sad is the state of the American People and the country I love when I see these protests an, with screaming, throwing of cocktails and bottles and more in Ferguson, Mo. Why folks, I understand the parents of Micheal Brown grieve their son and his death at the hands of a Police Officer and I empathize with them in every way, but these demonstrations and protests are far out of hand. No looting of stores and buildings are needed, no breaking of glass or fighting with police is necessary, You all have made your point now, the law and enforcement organizations are now involved and investigating it all. Isn’t it time to stop and let justice and it’s wheels start working to get to the truth?

 

Micheal Brown Jr. Situation/ American downfall?Wars/Politics/ Earth


    Welcome to Modern America where we kill ourselves over a single person being shot to death in an event that was an accident now being turned into murder. The Truth is Micheal Brown Jr. was killed by a police officer who did so out of duty and fear for his own safety. In the end he was an 18 year old young man in the wrong place, and he worked so hard to correct himself so he could go to Technical College, that somehow he himself got scared and went off the rails and robbed a store. Come on folks, I appreciate the fact his relatives, family and friends are mourning him and we all would mourn anyone in our own family who died period, but to go to the lengths of protesting and raise hell and fighting with peace officer and National Guardsmen over it, it’s too much. The point is this folks, and this goes out to all involved in the situation,by protesting and making confrontations with both National Guard and Police, you are making matters worse, we have laws in this country, that can be applied to this case to find the truth. We don’t need to carry it to a point where it backfires on you, so be careful is all I can say. I believe in your right to protest, I believe in freedom of speech as you can tell from my blogs and stories and poems, but what I don’t believe in is going so far as you face being arrested or hurt, or you just make the situation worse instead of better. I say this because i served in The National Guard and The Military and I am a citizen of these United States and i firmly believe in the right we are given under the constitution, but, there comes a time when a protest gets out of hand and breeches the rights of others too and causes more damage than it does good!

    Each day I wake up in America and wonder how long we shall survive as one of the greatest civilizations of the world. The Mayas, The Incas, The Amazons, thE american Indians and much much more died out by burning itself out. The Roman dynasty and the Chinese ones died out too by being too greedy and uncaring that they overlooked the fact they were not super. Is America in danger of this now? I am beginning to believe so! we have scaled the heights of world civilizations, the real question now is will we crumble and fall apart  like those before us or remain intact and show the world Democracy is the way to go? That will determine how America stands or falls in the near future, compromise, caring, and laws to protect all come into the fray and hopefully will help save the Greatest nation on The Planet right now. as we carry on these events like the Michael Brown Jr. Case and others, are ripping at the fabric of American Society, and causing inter-racial problems where there should be none. Would the same thing be happening if this were a white boy, and a black cop? Would  the Whites be protesting in the streets and doing what the blacks are? And why does this have to be a racial thing when in fact it isn’t a racial thing, it’s an accident that Micheal Brown Jr. was killed and we all empathize with the Brown family no matter skin color or national backgrounds.  yet, in the end if this is pushed and pushed and pushed it can explode into what America does not need again, another civil war, this time between races and we will kill each other off and lose in the end. So lets all take a step back and use the courts the laws and our heads for more than hat racks and solve this in a civil way in the courts before Judges and within laws. Thank You!

       Anyway next: as the world continues on, wars rage in the Middle East, africa and else where, we watch the issues and learn from them and hope we do not become involved in other nations worries and wars anymore. Americans have died across the globe in many different countries from the day we became a nation till today even, helping others, and fighting and policing events and countries we have no business in. We can’t do it anymore America, we can’t give assistance to everyone, nor can we police the world and make it all democratic, nor can we  take on the world’s problems! america is suffering through it’s own problems of lack of employment, a sorry Economy and political problems of it’s own in our House and Senate.We need to look at our own and straighten it out before we go any further, we can’t help others if we can’t help ourselves can we? We need to make Congress work again, so they can create jobs, stimulate our economy and pass laws that work for all involved. Immigration is an issue Congress should face quickly, and create laws and regulation and requirements for it all. Lets go damn it Congress ya beginning to suck with your game of stalemate the President, your being assholes. Wake the hell up or get the hell out of office! 

            America has now three Political Parties  in power, the Democrats, The Republicans and now The Tea Party folks. The problem is none of  them see eye to eye or are will to compromise for the good of the people, they just want to kill each other off. Sad isn’t it, instead of putting your party banner up and screaming against every other party, why don’t ya lay down the damn signs and learn to work together for the good of the American nation and it’s people? Not a bad damn suggestion huh?

         My final push here today is for peace on the planet, the destruction and elimination of a race, or religion, or colors or nationality should be the further thing from any humans mind. You all want to worry about something, use all the anger, energy and strength to fight, to save the atmosphere and planet you live on on! You will sooner or later folks, use us the resources this planet has and it will become a dead husk of a planet on which no life can live, unless we learn to replenish it and take care of it. And it won’t matter what human being you are of what race, nationality, color or religious or ethical and moral backgrounds, you will die off from lack of atmosphere and resources to drink and eat. So all should begin to act now to do the best you can to save Mother Earth and Humanity as a whole!

 

 

 

 

 

Differences where?/ Micheal Brown Jr./ 2016 and Hillary!


     Good day america, as we start a Monday and a new week we have so many things happening in the world it is hard to discuss what is really important to everyone in one blog. The truth is the world is slowly killing itself off because of mistrust, anger and obsessive behaviors by so many. People tend to never forget it seems, the Jews and Germans, The Jews and Arabs, Black versus white, Yellow vs. brown and more. All a sad statement on the state of humanity as a whole if you ask me. Why, can’t everyone just realize, we are all human beings with flaws and problems and we all make mistakes. Why do we persecute and damn those with different beliefs, color of skin or nationality? Because we are over ignorant of the fact that we are all the same under the skin and as humans we all hurt, we all bleed, we all have emotional and mental problems and we all want peace. Listen up world, and people don’t you think it is time we all stopped killing each other over what we believe or don’t believe and allow each other to live and let live? sadly, no one on the planet seems to get it, humanity is the race, not African American, African, German, Jewish, Catholic, Protestant or anything else white or brown, or black or yellow, none of it matters, if mankind doesn’t get along and try to survive together, we will all die!

      Next Subject, The Michael Brown Jr. incident and his death. While I agree the boy was a boy and tried to surrender, and the officer is  and was wrong in firing 6 or 7 shots and killing him, are we going about solving the issue in a correct manner or, in a manner harmful to many more issues, than just his death. If the protests are not held peaceful and they erupt into chaos we put ourselves open to racial wars in the United States I for one know I would not one to happen in America, and i don’t think anyone with a mind that works properly would one one either, we would kill off  each other so quickly and be a society filled with weapons and more in no time. We need to calm it all down and examine it fully, then make responsible decisions on how to handle it properly. The Officer who did the shooting needs a chance to explain it in a court of law, he needs arrested and protected until it is over too. The witnesses who were there and saw it all need to be brought to court also, and we need to hear the honest truth of what happened that day. If it is judged the Officer acted wrong then he will have to suffer the consequences for what he did. But it must be done in lawful way in a democratic society. we can solve it folks if the truth is all told.

         Third Subject, Wars: Wars rage across the planet in many places these days, Afghanistan, Iraq, Iran, Africa, and other places for instance. The real question is does it have to be that way? No folks, bitter rivalries, set aside all of it can be solved in a peaceful manner if we try hard enough. We can’t get rid of all terrorist organizations, for they will keep popping up no matter what we do. But we can isolate them, cut them off from society and the world in such a way as embargoes,sanctions, and more. we should starve them off and watch them wither away in the deserts and hills they hide in. We don’t need to fight with them and battle them everywhere, for the more you battle and fight them, the more they grow and the angrier they get at the world. Why, let them grow at the price of  our freedoms and peace, let them fight one another I say and leave us the hell out of it.  America, can not and should not be policing the world and every country or organization out there. We can’t do it folks, didn’t we learn from Korea, Vietnam, that we spread ourselves too thin trying to do this and we lose in the end in men, money and weapons. Leave it be, let these nations police themselves and lets get the hell out of it all. I don’t care what American Foreign services say, we are not the world’s police force and can’t be! 

           Final subject for today, before 2016 hits many politicians shall be trying to position themselves for the Presidential election. I am sure we will get Democrats, Republicans and Tea Party Candidates. As they come out and announce themselves, be prepared for some words of wit, which will amount to shit! Also be prepared for some serious candidates and some not so serious ones. In Picking your next President I can give the country a little advice as I see it. Stop and study what they are saying, stop and choose character, strength, honesty and truth for the office, plus someone with experience to fill the many roles a President has to do. A Commander in Chief must stand tall, be strong and make good decisions for our military and the country. They must have a domestic program that will help the economy and medical programs too. They must leave Social Security in Place and help the Veterans, they must look out for the poor and make the rich pay more in taxes than they are now. They must know the American People need a leader who can create jobs, push education, forge forward in life and make life a little easier for all, not just the damn rich. I wish I was a Harvard Graduate or a Yale one or some other big fancy college and had a law degree, for if I did I would run and tell the country the truth for a change. We are destroying ourselves, here in America as well as across the planet, we are promoting global destruction, destroying our own atmosphere and burning up the natural supplies the earth provides us, to live on. Wake up people the world only has so many resources left on it and in it. we burn em up at a faster rate than the planet can recreate them, sooner or later we shall be eating one another to stay alive and kill ourselves off. Before you laugh at me and what i am saying take a better look folks, it is happening. In the end let me say this to all who will vote in 2016 for the next American President,  we need caring, determined and honest, we need experience, we need logic and common sense and in the end it doesn’t matter if it is male, or female, it doesn’t matter if it is black, white, yellow or brown, it does matter that whoever it is, is in touch with the American Dream and the American people’s will to be the best we can be. In my opinion Hillary Rodham Clinton should be America’s choice, she has been there and fought in courts, in congress and as Secretary of State. She has compassion, strength and is honest and in the end, is the best qualified person for the job.

         

 

Child Rearing/ Discipline/Mideast/Ferguson, MI.


     The old days of hitting your children went out in the 1980’s when Bill Cosby got his show The Cosby Show. He sat in television teaching parents how to teach their kids without spankings or yelling or hitting them. The bottom line is while that worked on television, in real life it does, for spare the rod, spoil the child comes into effect in real life. It’s sad but true, what I call The Cosby Syndrome is now prevalent in American Society and causing more problems than it is worth. The children of the 1980s and 1990s are todays problem people in the world, they had no discipline of any physical nature and believe they can do whatever they want to whomever they want and get away with it all. Bullshit folks i am not allowing it near me. I feel sad, that America had two decades of child rearing based on the no hit, no discipline style Bill Cosby came up with, it changed American Society in the wrong direction. The permissive style and the easy going manner does not work with every child.

       Next subject; Unrest in the Middle East is out of control, the last time a nation of group tried to wipe out a race, was the Germans in World War 2 and Hitlers attacks on Jews. Sadly we still have meglamad people in the world who believe they are right and everyone else is wrong. Isis is such a group bent on destroying a race, and threatening everyone they can with violence and take over. They will never get there of course but they do exist and Americans know it just as well as everyone else. Sadly, though it is happening in the middle east, the birth basin of religions of the world and it should be stopped. But, America can not police the world, it isn’t our job and we can’t afford it either. Nato should get involved and so should the European Union in all ways. For it is on their continent not ours. I agree it should be stopped by why America, we have no business being there!

           Ferguson, is my final subject for today! Civil unrest, battles between town citizens and police of all types is no good for no one and will accomplish nothing in the case. A young man died because he didn’t listen and resisted arrest ,after he robbed a convenience store. The tape shows how he strongs armed the clerk and took the cigars and left on his own. I am sure the Officer who shot him also told him to get out of the middle of the street and received a radio message describing the theft and person who did it. The only real problem here is the number of shots the officer used to take the boy down. Other than that which is an internal police matter now and the cop will have to explain his actions I am sure, why all the protests and rage over it all? People please listen to me, to rage, wreck, ruin and protest over one kids death is wrong, it happens to all races across the world everyday. Lets stop the protests and acting like someone took your birthdays away and calm the hell down. The basic truth is if the boy didn’t rob the store and walk out, he would never have been shot and killed. I don’t want to hear anymore about his, Mark brown’s reputation, was besmirched either, the kid besmirched his own reputation when he robbed the store. Sadly the facts are the facts, so people calm down and let them come out at their own pace and in time. The truth shall win out period.

      

              

            

             

       

          

1960’s children vs. todays, so to say!


     Hello America and The World! You all don’t know me or where I live or where I came from, but you do know and understand some of my thoughts and ideas and advice for others. I write poetry,stories and small books and even during my lifetime have written editorials for papers and much more. I walk among you, watching, listening, to events in the world, neighborhoods, churches and much more, I observed then, devour and give back the opinions I can in many forms. I am your average American, I grew up in the 1960’s, the wild era when drugs were running free more than today, where music roared all rock and roll, and politics had real heros.

       I grew up in an era when mom said do it ya did, no sassing her, or dad came up stairs at night and dragged ya from bed and beat your ass, till ya learned to listen. Back when no child got divorced from their parents or complained and took what they had coming because they knew they did wrong. back when dads taught ya to do carpentry, auto, mechanics, masonry and so much more and mom did the laundry, cooked and cleaned house. There was no bullshit like today, and our parents knew where we were and that we were coming home each night. It was a world of discipline and permissiveness all rolled into one, yet we turned out to be todays, senior generation who can see the truth. They all said in the sixties we wouldn’t survive, we would kill ourselves off, or end up as jailbirds, funny how that didn’t happen, many became business people, teachers, lawyers and so much more including politicians crazy huh?

        Today, we walk the earth as grandparents, our own children grown and doing their own things. Amazingly, many of us didn’t do what our parents did in raising us, we didn’t beat our children, wash their mouths out with soap and do cruel and unusual things to them. Yet we maintained discipline over our children and taught them morals, ethic and manners, why is that? It’s easy folks, it was passed from the prior generation down to us, that our children are our promise and our problems if we don’t raise them correctly. We learned because our parents didn’t leave us a choice, as they would say it was their way or the highway, so to say.

          Believe it or not, our parents were correct, when they steered us away from bad crowds, guns, and drugs and for some even rock and roll. or like many parents back then learned from their parents responsibility for a child’s actions belongs to the parents, not the child until they are old enough to know the difference. back in the 1960’s a parent didn’t shuffle their child off to the government unless it was out of desperation at the time. They solved problems at home with the old rules, of spare the rod, spoil the child and it worked. And no they didn’t beat their kids in public and air their dirty laundry on the streets either, they handled it all in the home. Parents were parents and families were solid units that survived. Ever wonder what happened to today’s generations now running the streets? I do!

           The sad thing is to see people 30 to 35 years old who have never left mom and dads home and have to live there because they can’t get along anywhere else. They were given too much and had the world handed to them as a child and all they had to do was ask and poof it was there. Then, like what happened in my home happens, they try to move from moms and dads and have no skills to socialize with others, and they steal and act out in anger and then end right back where they started from, mom and dads basement. These spoiled brats and hoodlums, are not really responsible for their action or ways of thinking, their parents made them that way.And now that they have been protected and not taught to interact with humanity and society as a whole, they believe they may do as they please no matter what, who they may hurt or destroy and get away with it. Sadly, that is not the case folks, unless you allow them to, stop em when you see it, turn them in if they get out of hand and shun then if they continue and give them back to the parents who created them, let them retrain their child, for entry in human society like they were supposed to do in the first place. Don’t try to push the child out of the nest and get rid of the problem just because you want privacy with your wife or husband, when they are not trained to act normal. They are still your child, teach, train and make them earn their way, instead of them blaming society for their errors and mistakes. make them understand they are the ones responsible for their own actions, let them take the fall if they screw up and learn.

          Is what I am saying tough love? Maybe but in the end there comes a time when we all must learn to stand on our own feet and make it. Birds get pushed from their nests and taught to fly or die, the same should be good enough for humans too.