Leadership is a skill and an art, if you lead you should learn how to amd the correct meaning of Leadership as well as what qualities are needed.

Here are the most important leadership qualities and skills to look for in a great leader.

• Communication.
• Integrity.
• Accountability.
• Empathy.
• Humility.
• Resilience.
• Vision.
• Influence.
• Positivity.
• Delegation.
• Confidence.

What is the best definition of leadership?

The best definition is leadership is the act of motivating other people toward a common goal. People that have leadership skills showcase a strong personality and interpersonal skills to lead others in their direction.

Why is leadership an important skill?

Leaders inspire others to follow a certain path in life. These leadership skills are important because human nature requires that certain people need to take charge and help others. Without leaders, it’s very difficult to manage large groups of people, set unified goals, and make progress.

What should a leader do?

Leaders help their team and organization make progress and act in the right way. Good leaders should build a vision, set clear goals and directions, and map a dynamic path forward for their team or group.

What makes a good manager?

While a leader is simply a figurehead, a manager should exhibit the right leadership skills to motivate their team to work harder and get projects done faster. Good managers need to be empathetic, exhibit the behavior they want from their team, take responsibility for their actions, delegate effectively, and give praise when needed.

The most important quality is to truly understand each team member on a personal level so that they understand the motivations that dictate their work ethic.

What should a leader not do?

Leaders should act a certain way and there are some negative qualities that leaders should never exhibit. Some of these are:
1. Fail to set clear goals for their teams.
2. Insult or degrade people.
3. Give praise too easily.
4. Act inappropriately or exhibit behavior that you wouldn’t expect from team members.
5. Not hold regular meetings with their subordinates.
6. Fail to take decisive actions.
7. Act tough or lack empathy.

The United states Military teaches all of the above, as a Veteran I understand all of it. As The Navy teaches, Lead by example, lead by doing things right, be honest and above all don’t ask anyone to do anything you wouldn’t do yourself. Leadership is a skill yes, yet, a rank or title does not make one a leader, what it does make is a figurehead only.

In life, we all go through periods of problems, distress, stress or tension. Everyone does at one point or another, and it is how you overcome and get through them that counts. The ones who make it and achieve their goals and are successful have certain things that carry them through. a simple reflection, can show you if you have those characteristics and qualities and abilities to do so.

We don’t have time in a blog to discuss all of those qualities and characteristics. I can get to one very important part of all successful people, it’s called self-control.

Self-Control is, the ability to control one’s own actions and emotions at all times, to reach the destination or destiny you wish to reach as a goal at the end.

In each of our lives, we set goals for ourselves, for some it is marriage, some it is being the Boss or Manager, or owning our own business. For others, it is more simple, like hust being the best person we can be, for the world to see.

What, hurts is when you lose Self- Control period. Many of us spiral out of control due to drug addiction, alcohol addition, mental illness or low self-esteem. Sadly, in each of these instances, the individual in each case has lost self-control found them dependent on something, someone or a condition or position for one reason or another and can’t see what it is, to overcome it.

Self-Control is vital in all we do daily, whether it is a simple task, like feeding a dog or cleaning your own home, or a complicated one like completing college or serving your Country, Marriage, or even having children. Without self-control, we lose purpose and the ability to reach out goals in life, we get sidetracked or we surrender and give up. Why, we lost self-control and perspective, as well as the vision of where we want to go.

Here is the definition of self-control for all to see and Understand:

The ability to control oneself, in particular one’s emotions and desires or the expression of them in one’s behavior, especially in difficult situations.

So how do we maintain self-control so we overcome? We do it by:

1) Controlling our own emotions,

2) By keeping a vision and eye on the set goals we have

3) By ignoring or blocking out outside influences to us reaching our goals.

4) By separating the goals, from outside emotions cause by others in our lives, and protecting ourselves ot do so.

5) To do reach it all takes Self-Control, self control includes nor only physical control but mental control as we as emotional control.

Many times, it is the final one that gets people the most emotional control, for we all get emotional over certain subjects, acts or actions the take place around us, or by others towards us .If we want to reach a goal and get it done, we can’t get emotional and let it interfere in what out mission is. or our goal or goals.

Here are five ways to help improve self-control and build good habits:

1. Remove temptation. We are not wired to consistently resist temptation, a study found that the way most people resist temptation is to remove the temptation. …
2. Measure Your Progress. …
3. Learn How To Manage Stress. …
4. Prioritize Things. …
5. Forgive Yourself.

Here Are Three Kinds of Self-Control

• Impulse Control is our ability to stop and think before they act upon a thought.
• Emotional Control is the ability to manage feelings by focusing on future goals.
• Movement Control is ability to control body movements.

What causes lack of self control?It can be a sign of the frustration and anxiety that go hand in hand with struggling. It’s also a sign of ADHD. And sometimes what looks like a lack of self–control is actually a lack of social skills. It’s hard to follow social rules if they don’t know when they’re breaking them.

The Importance of: Self–control. … Self–control includes being able to stay on task and interrupt any undesired impulsive reactions by refraining from acting on them. Self–control and achievement. Being high in controlling our desires and impulses is important in achieving the goals we set for ourselves.

The majority of people surveyed believe that self–control can be both learned and strengthened. Researchers have also identified a number of different factors and strategies that can help people improve their self–control. Researchers have found that people who have better self–control tend to be healthier and happier

Self-control has three main parts:

• Monitoring involves keeping track of your thoughts, feelings and actions. …
• Standards are guidelines that steer us toward desirable responses. …
• Strength refers to the energy we need to control our impulses.

Do I lack self control?

Someone who lacks self–control is easy to spot. They generally have difficulty committing to positive habits, and they may not be able to regulate their feelings or actions as well as their peers. Signs of low self–control could be: … Difficulty controlling emotions.

What are the qualities of self control? Self control has many aspects:

• Control your thoughts.
• Control your temper.
• Control your fear.
• Control your speech.
• Control your bad habits.

. Self–control strategies are cognitive and behavioral skills used by individuals to maintain self-motivation and achieve personal goals. … In recent years, the term “self-management” has replaced “self–control,” because self–control implies changing behavior through sheer willpower.

In the end, Self Control applies to all areas of life, and is vital if you wish to get along in a society or in the world period.

Much of the above comes from the internet and I used public information for this article. yet it pertains to life in general, and can help many people, get ahead.

Ratzu Darkstone who owns and runs, Austin, Cafe LaPe’rouse @ Austin Island-The Story of O@ Austin, wanted Persistence, Grit and Determination, from those who were in his sim. Well, I have plenty as he now should know! The sad thing is he is a predator, and a phoney in all ways.

Sometimes, the hardest part of life is facing a failure or setback, and having to admit, your responsible for it yourself, and it’s no one else’s fault, no matter how you end up looking at it in the end. I have been there many times in my life, and know at times I am my own worse enemy, I get to a point where I let things buildup inside me and then one small thing, and suddenly I explode in anger. For each of us as humans, we are taught to hold our own so to say, to try to solve things ourselves without bothering others. We do it as men and women because we believe we have the real solutions and then find out we were wrong and end up making mistakes that cost us what we really want in the end. So how does one overcome and get to where one wants to go, in the end?

Some will withdraw, and hide and try hard not to show their pain, and then find out, they can’t hide it, because, it rises to the top and breaks over the dam we put in place to control it. I have been there more than once in my own personal life and I can honestly say, I have overcome so much in my life, it is crazy.

As a child, I fought everything around me, why, simple, I was hyperactive and had attention deficit disorder. In my days growing up the mid 1960’s, they had no idea what it was yet. So as I struggled to fit in and failed I faced problems with both my family and those in school too. I retreated into a world of books and comic books and then into the woods in the back of where I lived. Yet that didn’t work or alleviate the problem in my family life or school either.

Again, when one holds back a ton of emotions and fears, it will explode. It did with me as a ten year old one day, and that explosion broke a window almost hurt those I loved and in the end, marked me as a problem child. So, my parents decided they couldn’t handle me anymore and called in the State and made me a ward of the state. Which in turn brought in Social Workers, who then thought the best solution was to remove me from the environment I was in and get me help. I ended up in an Institution for two years from age ten to twelve. Did I belong there, not really, but in it I witnessed things I should never have, I witnessed drug overdoses, rapes, and in the end, I even attempted my first kiss there and failed. By the time the two years were over, I fought my way through my own emotions and asked to go home and got returned to my family. I was tagged in the Institution as emotionally damaged, when in fact I wasn’t, as I said.

I overcame this and so much more in my family. I over came verbal and physical abuse also there. My journey was far from over for sure, By 16 years old I had found friends and surrogate parents, because I couldn’t handle the abuse and anger I faced under my families roof, at home. These surrogate families, were there and would guide me and help me along, each in a different way, but it worked.

I overcame being a high school dropout too, by getting a GED a year later. That led me to a military life I started in The US Army, then US Army National Guard and then The United States Navy. I persisted through it all and made mistakes along the way of course everyone does, I overcame though, by adapting to the military rules and regulations and trying to be the best I could. I was slow and reluctant at first, but, I came around to stay in the military for 16 years. I wish I could have made 20, but an injury took me out, in the end I have five Honorable Discharges to my name from three branches, and all my benefits intact. I overcame through determination and grit and more. I never surrendered.

Overcoming things is a way of life and when you stop trying you may as well lay down and die I say. Life will continue on and as it does adapting, learning and growing are vital in life itself. I know because I overcame a divorce next in my life and losing my daughters to a mother who had her own mental problems too. But, I never quit and overcame to know my daughters and their children too, my grandkids are great.

Overcoming, standing tall became a thing to do, in my military life as well as after it. It took to age 40 to get a College Degree but I did it. I earned Honors and a 3.7 grade point average out of a possible 4.0, it took me three years instead of two but I got it. I got awarded for my studies too, the awards hang on my office wall today. I went on to run Hotels and Restaurants as a Manager. But, injuries and mistakes don’t stop and we face and overcome still.

By the time I was forty one I had to face my naval injuries and couldn’t work anymore. Did I surrender no. I was deemed unemployable by doctors, and had to give up work. I went on to write blogs, bury two parents who died of lung cancer. Then, later I had more come at me. In 2006, my second wife came down with breast cancer and that fight began. we still fight it today in 2020. In the middle in 2013 I survived lung cancer myself losing a lobe and a third of my right lung. I survive because i have grit, determination, and persist through it all and I adapt and conform when needed. It’s a lesson many still need to learn in life.

My lil books and poems are online as I write now and then, as are my blogs here. I do that, plus, I care for my cancer filled wife daily, a home that is paid off and has been now for years. I suffer from PTSD from childhood and Military lives. I am on a cpap machine nightly to help me breathe. So some try to tell me my anger gets the better part of me at times, but the truth is, it doesn’t normally, it takes a lot to get me to get angry and for me to go off. Normally, I get along with all I meet in life, and I won’t stand down when attacked or those who I love are attacked either.

You want to achieve in life, in real life or in a job, marriage, or even in a virtual one online, you, adapt to what is happening and what goes on and adjust period. If you want something bad enough you do it folks, believe me, if you don’t failure is what you end up with, ok.

Recently, I listened to someone hold a discussion online in a virtual world, talking about grit and determination and preserving through it all to come out the otherside. I just listened and said nothing, but when Ratzu Darkstone was done I felt, he was preaching what I already knew and know, and I wonder what he would say if he lived my life and knew the truth regarding my life. I wonder.

Never Surrender is a Military saying and Creed for a reason, now you know why!

Each day we wake up in 2020, we are lucky, as thousands have now died of coronavirus/ Covid -19. The Virus spreads at fast rates and attacks the human body in many ways. As Doctors and medical and Scientific experts will tell you this virus is not going anywhere folks, it is going to be around for a long time, maybe forever. There is no vaccine or miracle cure, for it, it attacks the elderly, the weak, and now the children if it reaches them. In other words the virus is not discriminating folks, it attacks all alike.

As the numbers climb in deaths and those infected with this virus, Trump sits in the White House as President, firing heads of departments left and right. His purpose should be working overtime for a decent and safe plan to open the country, that he keeps telling everyone, he wants to do. Opening the economy and country at this time may cost, more american lives than many can stand for. The Virus as I said, has no vaccine and is not going anyway, which means as more come out to use businesses and go back to work or school, the more that will get Covid-19, The numbers are increasing daily, but they will multiply now.

Americans are stubborn and overly proud people, they will not wear masks and many don’t wash daily as they should. Soap, water, sanitizer, shampoo all good for killing the virus. You need sanitizer 24/7 folks, it dries your skin out. Wipes work for surfaces of course like your car, counters, door knobs and things for touch. Keep distancing, to 6 feet apart, stay safe and healthy, stay home.

Yes I know summer is coming and the beaches will open again and more. But, I warn all, any place with large gatherings or crowd will spread the virus in someway. So I would say stay away from crowds and be careful in stores and malls too. Large crowds or strangers or people you don’t know can be taking a chance at getting Covid-19. Be careful, be safe.

As the year goe son and the virus continues to spread and be here, Trump’s cries about the economy is not really about jobs, or money, it is really about how to get r elected in November of 2020, period. The Truth is Trump has no real accomplishments as President, to really brag on now. He is counting on The economy to return to get re elected in November, he is not concerned with how many will get Covid-19 or die at all, if he was, he would have a Federal Program to fight the virus out there. He doesn’t and never has produced one so far and we are now in mid , May or 2020 and this virus came out in either NOvember or December of 2019. He refuses to listen to scientist and medical experts and when they tell him 18 month to a virus he tells americans, ity will be here by December. What will happen, honestly is the cases of Covid-19 will rise quicker now that the economy is opening back up, and more will die at a faster rate. It will be on Trump’s record and reflect back on him that he failed to act on time, nor did he come up with a plan once he did react, period, it’s a sad thing. How many americans are losing family to Covid-19, and going why? NOt being able to attend funerals and burials of your loved ones, and saying goodbye over video connections, it’s sad. IT really is, yet the Trumpers will scream you down, chase you or attack you to protect Trump, who they follow blindly an dnever examine the facts of.

Come November 3rd, 2020, it will be up to Americans to say yes or no to Trump, for another 4 years. I suggest to all, don’t repeat the mistake of 2016 please! Because in my opinion, I have a dog, who could make better decisions and who has better leadership talents and qualities then Donald J. Trump.

Why does it seem to me, that Trump, our President doesn’t care how many die from his opening up of the American economy? His soul purpose is to reopen the American Economy to get re-elected in the fall, that’s it folks. As the numbers grow and they will now that people are disregarding the virus due to Trump, the body counts will rise. As they do you need to ask yourself a question, What kind of a man and President would do this and let thousands die due to his pushing america to reopen and go back to work?

With that said, even Trumps own people are getting the virus in the White House including his Coronavirus team itself. Yet he presses on to reopen the economy, why he wants to be a hero and get reelected and his blind followers back him, go out publicly without masks and protection constantly and the death toll rises in america. All so he can get reelected. He has failed at everything he has done as president, I would never vote for him, because he is selfish, narcissistic, idiotic, telling people to drink disinfectant, come on! America made the biggest mistake it ever could in electing Trump President he is the laughing stock of the world.

As the numbers climb, Trump scrambles trying to answer reporters questions, he has no answers, so he deflects, lies and states outrageous bullshit, publicly. The truth is his followers believe him and do as he says and end up ona slab, dead and their families crying over their deaths.

Reality does not fit Trump’s world in anyway, he is lost and doing as he pleases, costing people their lives and families pain and suffering and lost. The numbers attributed to his plans and ways and orders will climb, sadly he will go down in History as the worst American President in our History.

As America’s death toll from the coronavirus rises, and the world’s too, is it logical and making sense that due to economies, the world wants to reopen and intermingle again to make money flow?

I understand the facts in this case in many ways, The want to make ends meet and for men and women to go out and provide for their families. I also understand the medicalcaring of home bound patients I have one in my wife who has breast cancer here in my home since 2006. I survived lung cancer myself in 2013, and have diabetes and PTSD and more. So, O more than most do know what being in a high risk category for getting coronavirus also known now as Covid-19.

Yet, President Trump is urging americans to take a risk and go out and work again and put themselves at risk to first catch Covid-19, which is nasty as a virus even if you survive it and live through having, or facing death from it.

The Economy is important yes folks I agree, but before you all rush out, remember there is no cur for Covid-19, there is no vaccine and there probably won’t be till mid 2021. Scientist, medical experts are all saying the same thing, viruses take time to be found number one, working viruses that are safe don’t just come out of the blue to stop such a virus, hard work and research is what takes time. Then you, have to mass produce it before it can be given to all, it has to pass all trials and be safe for humans to take. All Medical Experts and Scientist will tell you the same.

Our President, wants us to rush out, and reopen the economy and country with no worry about how many more will get sick and or die. They contain or control the Covid-19 Virus in the White House, never mind the country. So, now President Trump is not letting anyone not tested near him, his valet has the virus and so does Vice President Pence’s Secretary. The White House is scrambling to do tracing to see who was in contact with those, who have had it. The Advantage the President has and all in governemnt is simple they can get a Covid-19 test daily, we the citizens of America can’t.

I remind all of today’s numbers pertaining to the Covid-19 Virus as of this last report I found on the Internet—

Confirmed1.38M+17,776- confirmed cases/ COnfirmed deaths-81,491

So As I remind you of those numbers I ask you this question, why is it ok for us to rush out and restart the economy, and Trump and his family and the politicians of america ok to hide and not come out themselves? Why is it The White House and it’s people from the President on down to he Senate and house of Representatives to get daily testing and not us, the citizens? The numbers above were not supposed to be 81,000 r more deaths until august folks, but, they are now higher than predicted and will continue to grow. Do you wish to be one?

I say, forget reopening the country to reelect a failing President who wants reelection! Stay Home, Stay social distancing, use masks and sanitizer and wash yourself daily, soap and water! Take care and protect yourself and those you love, the ones who haven’t are now a part of the 81,491 deaths above. Be safe out there!

May is now upon us all in the World, we are hunkered down. frighten, scared and worried about surviving. As other Americans suddenly believe it is time to reopen America, I disagree, completely. There is no vaccine for Covid-19 folks and it will not just die off on it’s own. 65,655 Americans are dead due to the virus, and in the end we still don’t know where it came, from or how to stop or kill it before it kills us.

I tire of sarcastic individuals or those trying to be funny, about this virus covid-19. It’s killing people at a rate of 2.8 per 100, it hits. No Seasonal Flu did not kill at that rate and still never will. Coronavirus is killing at twice to almost 3 times the rate of the flu folks. The numbers are staggering, the hospitals are full and backed up, medications for conditions other than those for the virus are drying up.

Food is out there but I ask, do you want to go to store or supermarket to shop these days, I don’t and you shouldn’t either. People have no idea what social distancing is, and because some don’t want to believe in it or listen to the guidelines, people bump into one another stand in line and rush and then bam, someone sneezes, someone coughs and you now have a whole line of people or a store of people infected with it. It spreads that fast, do you understand that America?

Look I am not saying panic, but if you don’t stay home , stay isolated the best we can, this virus will keep spreading and killing. It’s that simple, OK!

Confirmed 1.13M- cases of Covid-19 65,605- Deaths These numbers grow daily and people run around making jokes, being sarcastic and try to back Trump and all he says about, said virus. The Facts are simple and Trump will never admit a thing he screwed up. No I don’t blame him for the virus, I blame him for not reacting when he should have, for not stopping and going we have a problem here. I blame him for lack of preparations, I blame him for not listening to medical and scientific individuals who are specialist. Trump’s only interest is himself, his own reelection in November and his own money woes. He never refilled stock piles for this pandemic, he cut funding to many things he had no business touching, without looking. Trump has failed at everything he touches and because of his ignorance and his, I am in charge attitude, millions have died now. and Millions more will still. His stupidity of lets reopen America, is like the dumb leading the dumb here, it’s a flashback to the movie DUMB and DUMBER in my book. There is nothing as sad as seeing a United States President stand on public television and ask if people can inject disinfectants into themselves. I have a 3 year old child who would tell you it kills people if you ingest it, warning labels all over it, yet he said it on television. Children heard it and reached for it and parents had to stop it, the poison Control Centers had to stop people from doing it, over the phones and internet. Trump has no idea what he is doing and someone should tell him to not give speeches on this virus, to be quiet and allow the experts to speak only. Sadly, Americans will do what they want and venture out, get the virus and die, there is no vaccine people understand that. No vaccine, no way to stop the virus from killing you and me, understand. Hunker down, stay safe, stay home, and don’t go to parks and beaches or clubs or stores or go to the movies or go bowling or anything else. You do, you are taking the chance of getting this virus and passing it on to your family and loved ones. Do you want to wake up one day, and get a phone call your family member or friend died of covid-19 and you gave it to them and are responsible for it? I know I don’t want to.

As the virus rages through humanity across the world, we hunker down in mass in our homes and try to prevent ourselves and our loved ones from getting it, in anyway. Each day is a adventure in survival, as we try to get the food, and drinks and medications we all need to survive.

Here there are only two of us, my wife and I, huddled in our home, I am 64 and have a lobe and one third less than a normal man, due to lung cancer in 2013. My wife, is 79 going on 80 in September and she has breast cancer stage 4, that has metastasized to her bones and her battle includes, immunotherapy treatments and blood draws and shots.

Now, I am stable myself, My cancer was taken out but hers is ongoing everyday. As millions of americans, fight for survival in the sameway we are, it is people like my wife and I who at the highest risk for getting this virus. If it hits either of us in anyway, we may as well just call the coroner and have the body bags ready. We are realistic people, trying to survive, not playing games and yet the coronavirus, is here and no one is really safe, out there.

We had started ordering groceries for delivery, and found it was nice to pay for it to be done and feel a little safer when they were deposited on our doorstep. The next time we tried to do the same every delivery date was filled up and I was forced to put in for pick-up of said groceries. Which means I am taking a chance at 64 with a lung cancer history in doing so, but I have no choice but to do so if I am to feed us both.

Americans, have gone completely crazy due to this virus, and completely selfish and foolish too. Lets hoard toilet paper and sanitizer and more. Why? Look let me say this to all, the virus has nothing to do with your ass end being wiped. As to sanitizers for your hands, ever hear of soap and water, or clorox bleach or Mr. Clean. The unrealistic approach of hoarding things, is nuts folks.

As we stay home and hope the curve levels or comes down and less deaths occur and a vaccine can be found, lets remember to help our seniors, keep them safe and our children too. I know each of us, are worried about getting the coronavirus and I agree worry, be alert, watch who you touch, do social distancing, but don’t go crazy, and hoard and be so selfish you destroy others and give them no chance for living themselves. We are one race, humanity, be realistic here, be a little kinder, and don’t be like some stupid ass survivalist ina death movie. OK?

People fighting over cleaners and sanitizers and toilet paper will not stop the virus, staying home will slow it down and the rest is a waiting game on the scientists and doctors to find a vaccine for this virus. As we all wait and be extra careful, do us all a favor, act with humanity and common sense, have a little bit of manners and show some courtesy to Seniors and children too.

President Trump has sent too many Americans into a panic attack with his stupid speeches and false words. He is not a Doctor folks he is playing to his base and playing politic with this virus, just trying to get re elected. You can’t re-open churches and pack them by Easter, you can’t realistically predict when this will end. Nor, can you predict, when a vaccine will be found and be ready for all humans, that’s a long process. President Trump wants to reboot the American economy, so he can get re elected not for any other reason. If you reboot the economy, you send people to work spaces, factories, offices where people get packed into by any where from 5 to 10 to 100’s in small spaces. Not the right answer folks, stay home! The virus is out there, we don’t know who is just a carrier and spreader, and we only know the numbers we are getting on a delayed basis, it has to catch up for the correct figure to be compiled for release. Trump think every speech on coronavirus isa platform speech to boast about some achievement his administration has done, when in fact, he has failed at all of it. Yes listen to the medial speeches, do what we did Doctors are done, cut Trump off, his political bullshit has nothing to do with what we all need to hear and know, how to beat coronavirus, how to stop it’s spread and how to stay alive and avoid it. He can claim whatever he wishes, he failed as a President in everything he has touched, and he has failed to handle this crisis correctly too. He is not a President, he isa cheerleader asking you to play his game, dont!

Stay Home, Stay Safe, only go out if absolutely needed for food or medicines. Don’t get close to anyone, wear masks and stay clean at all times. Be safe Americans, Be Safe world, this virus will run it’s course, we will find a vaccine, and in the end, we will survive as one humanity on the only planet we will ever have that supports human life. So, stop, Think, stay safe, stay clean, stay home!.

As the hunt for a vaccine to defeat the coronavirus continues, we are all worldwide, hunkered down only going out for medical reasons or grocery shopping to eat and drink.

Many are lonely and isolated, and the social distancing is driving some into fits of anger, depression, and causing problems domestically. The side effect of being social distanced is the lack of interaction, touch, feel and of course laughter or tears in person. A Human being is made to socially interact with others, we all know this from our youngest days of life, we are taught it.

The fact, so many are dying is something is is unavoidable to deny! Lets look at the numbers as of today, April 4th, 2020- 1,119,109 Infected, have the virus so far, and these numbers lag behind reality folks, it takes time to collect them.

The death toll mounts across the world also, 58,955 deaths all attributed to the coronavirus. The numbers give us a stark reality of what is really happening with this virus in the atmosphere we live in as human beings. The multiplication factor daily is scary and deadly folks, we need to hunker down as much as possible, period.

I used to be a die-hard catholic when I was kid, because my mother was one and sent us to church all the time every Sunday, until we got old enough, to say yes or no, on our own. Religion is a primary need and right of all people worldwide, but I want all those who are religious and church goers to know, and listen to me, here. The good book does not say you have to attend church to survive or be recognized by your God or higher being. It does state and I quote all are heard everywhere. The Bible says it in it folks, God Hears and sees all, and knows all. So do me a favor you church goes who still attend church, stop walking into a church and killing each other, ok. It’s like a blind flock of sheep, walking on a train track and waiting for a train to hit them and not paying attention to the train coming.

Wake up Please, Stay Home, pray at home, worship at home, read your bible at home please. I know the Priest and Church needs money to survive and parishioners too, to survive, but the church will still be standing, when this coronavirus is gone or we are finally vaccinated from it. Be smarter then you are zealous or dedicated ok, God gave you a brain for a reason , make the right decision here and stay alive, stay home. You family needs you, you children need you, your grandchildren need you and your parents too. I hope you understand, I am not putting down churches or religion folks, I am saying it will be there when it is all clear and all GODS can hear your prayers, or confessions, from you from your own homes too. A church congregation is a gathers of many people, it is a small building packed with people, it will spread coronavirus big time, please listen!

In the meantime, I want all to stop and think of the numbers infected and dying each day. Yes they are multiplying by three each day. It is no more oh the flu killed more last year, wrong. It is no more a hoax or political weapon being used against The President of The United States or created just to stop a re election!. Never was, never could be, if anyone is dumb enough to create a pandemic in the world, then guess what, they are only going to kill themselves also, so it isn’t that, ok. It’s a damn virus folks, it takes time and effort to isolate it, and to study it, and then break it down and find something to kill it, that will not, kill us as humans when we take it as a vaccine, ok. So listen, it may take two years or more to find the answer, we don’t know, so hunker down and lets all cooperate so we can all live once the vaccine is found.

The only thing you should go out is for necessary things, like, medical needs, medication, groceries if you can’t get them delivered. Please, try to cooperate here, and stay safe out there! We don’t need interaction so much if we have families and someone we live with, we do need to be more patient, more kind, more understanding and of course, more accepting of those we love and live with. The longer we are locked up and isolated and social distanced, the need and fears of wanting to get out will manifest itself, but, don’t do it folks. All you do is spread the virus, give it avenues to race to others on, an d ifect and kill more, stay home, stay safe please!

The Medical staffs, Doctors and Nurses, technicians and more, all need us to stay home. They are the front line here, they deserve our support, our co-operation and they deserve our respect too. They put their lives on the line every time they enter a medical facility, of any kind. They know it too, but they also know the need to save mankind, you and I, is primary, their dedication and commitment to it should be honored and they should be listened to. Stay Home, Stay Safe!

I see this everyday on Television , hear it on the radio, and see it in newspapers, What is it? IT’s simple it is Donald J. Trump trying like hell to look like a hero in the coronavirus outbreak and pandemic. He fails each time.

Today, 95 percent of Americans are hunkered down in their homes, in quarantine, trying to avoid a virus that kills. It has now killed over 5,000 Americans alone and there is no slowing it, it seems.

Yes, we can clean our hands and bodies daily, yes we can stay home as much as humanly possible in isolation, with only those we live with.

We still need to eat, so groceries have to be bought, Water needs to be had, primary necessities too. Medications are needed for those who are sick or mentally ill, help is needed by the elderly and more. Is it coming no, why, because from day one of this pandemic the American President Donald J. Trump, was unable to gather his smarts and himself enough to know it was coming and prepare for it.

The medical supply surplus shelves are now bare, the masks and respirators don’t exist, and people are sick and dying, why because Trump told everyone it will be fine. The Virus will disappear by April, then by Easter, and now he says end of April. wrong. We may not see this virus die out or be overcome until a vaccine is found to kill it, and that folks takes time. As Dr. Fauci and others have said, the process to create a virus can take up to 18 to 24 months. That mean this virus can be with us at least 2 to 3 years, or better, why simple, once they identify the virus fully, they still need to find what kills it and then find the best way to administer it to you or I, so it doesn’t kill us too, the vaccine that is. Facts are facts folks, yesterday in one day we lost as Americans over 1,000 people in one day to it, who is next, you or I, family, or friends?

We need a President who isn’t worried about being Re Elected now, we need a President who won’t come out during a Coronavirus update Info briefing and start talking politics like it’s all that matters. Because folks I don’t care if gas for cars is .99 cents a gallon now, it’s nice, but who the hell is going to use it? We are all in isolation in our homes, hunkered down trying to survive, low gas prices mean nothing to me, if I can’t go out, do they?

Primary concerns now are food, water, survival, soap, cleaning yourself, sanitizing surfaces. Keeping your loved ones alive, not Trump’s re election. One way or another, the election will be held we know that and somehow the votes will come in. In the meantime President Trump complete your job, lead the nation and its people, make the right decisions, listen to the medical and scientific experts about this virus. Stop telling Americans it’s a hoax to ruin your re election, stop saying it’s political ploy, start telling your Trump Supporters the truth and save their lives. Because of you Donald J.. Trump thousands will die who are you blind followers, for they repeat everything you say, stop being a Carny Barker and start being a damn Leader! Wake up!

If America loses 100,000 people to 240,000 people to this virus, what do you think their survivors are going to think about a President who worried more about his own personal agenda to get re elected then about the people of the country he is supposed to be the Leader of? The numbers can end up much more than 240,000 people and the knowledgeable and educated Americans with common sense know this can be double that easy. Safe distancing can only do so much, as can masks and gloves and sanitizers. The truth is this virus has to be fought in the medical arena and in the labs of the world. To beat it and kill it is our only option here, it is now in the hands of lab technicians and scientist. What we need is full backing of these individuals from the ground floor up, including all medical personnel who are fighting it in all areas. They will be the ones who have to treat us all, care for us all and in the end administer the vaccine when it is found. Their dedication and work is what will save humanity, not a President who wants re elected!

A few things to close with here, see a Nurse, A Doctor, anyone who works in Medicine these days, say Thank you to them for fighting this and helping others ! The sacrifice they are making by putting themselves out front is huge. They don’t need to do it folks, they can quit if they want, they do it because they want to and feel the need to, please remember that. They are dedicated, caring professionals, and people who love people and humanity. Treat them with respect!

Second thing, to all the doubters or people who thought this was a hoax, a ploy to stop Trumps; re election, it isn’t! It is real and thousands are dying on our streets and in hospitals world wide. Are you going to be like Trump and deny it, until it hits home, by hitting a friend or family member? Wake up before it does, it is real, no hoax, no ploy by anyone. Viruses don’t care if your a Democrat, a Republican, white , black, male, or female, they don’t care what nationality you are, what country you belong to, or what nation your from! They strike and they do change as they go along sometimes they become weaker versions, sometimes stronger once as they evolve. But no matter what, they are not a hoax, they are a political attack, they are not a way to stop someone’s re election ok! They are deadly, watch as the numbers grow and you shall see!

Survival of Humanity and the world is at stake! Stay Home, Safe Lives! Stay safe, by using all you can to protect you and the ones you love! The best place to be is home, the best way to be is clean and sanitized the best you can, and on that note, I will end my blog today!