Second Life the Virtual World online, put out originally by Linden Labs of San Francisco, California is a place many users disappear to, when their homelife is poor or they are invalids or disabled and need it for entertainment. Many people come to Second Life online, to escape reality and to create and build worlds they can only imagine in real life and as a way to escape the savages and poor facts of their real life. Some enter Second Life for fun also, and others for adult purposes of interaction, verbally or in text, for sexual purposes or sexual adventures or role playing purposes.

Second Life has existed for many years now, since 2003 and it has grown and then shrunk and grown and shrunk again over the time since. It is estimated at the current time to have between 800,00 to 900,00 users across the world. It includes all nations, all nationalities, and all people who can reach it online.

Now some become excited when they join Second Life to learn to build, to interact with others, in virtual world, involves text, or typing, some voicing by way of mics and for any sexual performances or acts one must buy the parts to do so and be in adult sims in Second Life. Second Life is divided by rated areas, From General, to Moderate to Adult sections. each section contains sims built by members who have joined and pay for said sims to exist. Some are for Music, some for building, some for dancing, racing, motorcycle clubs and even gaming sims allowed in certain states and areas worldwide. Second lIfe and Linden Labs is very careful with their rules for games or gambling sims and adult sims too. They do not want trouble in the virtual world and will take action by blocking or banning those who cause it and problems between members, unless they break the rules and regulations of Second Life, they tend to stay out of.

I remind all, Second Life is looked at as a Virtual World, it is based on the imagination of its users, right down to the builds of sims in it. Imagination is what runs Second Life, but dramas between members cause problems of course, and the best way to avoid these dramas is to avoid the people you have them with. what many don’t understand is, some try to build sims and call them educational sims for certain purposes or lifestyles. Before you do so, remember this, you are not alone in doing so, nothing you write as long as you release it is Intellectual Property, once you give it out, on your own. You send someone information over the internet in Second Life whether it is a photo, instructions, rules, or ideas you wrote down, and claim to be for your sim only, it becomes public access, the person you send it to, can do as they please with it.

That said, people tend to think, they can treat others with disrespect, or in anger or just push or intimidate others in Second Life. You don’t have to put up with that at all folks, all you do is ban them , or block them in Second Life and carry on. There is nothing anyone can do to stop someone from doing anything or saying anything about what happens in Second Life if it is not said or done in Second Life, itself or on their servers. They have no legal justification, to step in, if it is not in their Virtual Program, or on Their Servers and people have the right to free speech in America. period.

A while back I got into an argument or disagreement with a Sim Owner in Second Life, and this person decided to ban me from their sim, No Objection there, I never went back of course and never will. Yet, I wanted a way to explain to all why I was banned by this person from their sim, because of the adult nature of the sim and the purpose it supposed, plus people asking me why, it happened. So I wrote blogs here, on my blog site, about it all and what happened and why and explained it all publically, for all to see.

These blogs, had the desired effect I wanted on the man and his sim. People read all the blogs and in the end his sim suffered for what he did. He lost traffic to his sim, his membership decreased and it slowed it down. So, he came after me for writing my blogs, chased and stalked me in Second Life first to a sim that had nothing to do with him or his sim, and then copied my personal information from my profile and tried to report me to Second Life as harassing him and stealing intellectual property. He failed, for he has no intellectual property to steal, since he sent me the information I used in my blogs of his own volition. As to harassing him, I never did or would in Second lIfe, not worth my time, yet he stalked me in a different sim. When the above failed to get me thrown out of Second Life, he and his cronies devised a plan to get me fired as a DJ on a sim that was related to his sim only by the type of adult sim it was. Well, when the Manager for said sim came to me with this problem, she asked me to take down said blogs, because they were beginning to be affected by the blogs, because the land owner they pay for their sim property was associated with the other man’s land too. So, I made a decision, I would leave said sim voluntarily and find a new place to DJ and I have. My reasoning was simple I didn’t wish to cause any trouble for the sim I DJed at, for they were good to me and vice versa. So, I took down the blogs and then changed Sims to Dj at. No the sim I Djed at did not fire me, so people know, they still carry Me on their DJ schedule, but I don’t do it, I left. My choice of course.

As to the blogs, regarding the sim, I stand behind them fully and always will. They may return at any time, and I know they made him change his ways and hide more on his personal sim and in his little sim, he controls. I also know that if he wants to grow his membership list, he will have to change his ways and rules, of what he does. He knows it, I know it, and his members know it too.

Last thing, I have noticed other sim owners in Second Life, who are into the BDSM, D/s Lifestyle have read my blogs, and I noticed that. Now to them I want to say something, I appreciate the fact you read the blogs, I also want to say, I hope you have noticed only one man and one sim is mentioned in said blogs.

I have no objection to the D/s or BDSM lifestyle at all and never have, the blogs were never about the lifestyle or anyone else who does it or likes it. This is about one person, one sim, the disrespect and lack of respect for his actions, his lies, and his cowardness and inability to tell the truth and to face someone face to face, and hash it out. Men face people and don’t hide. that’s number one, number two they are not afraid, so they have no reason to lie. Men also have a set of balls, and don’t hide behind female members and members of their sim for protection. Men don’t go crying to others for help and protection either, they stand up, face the truth, admit their mistakes, make changes as necessary to make it work and compromise. That’s how life goes, and that’s how real men make life work. Smart leaders come from smart followers folks, in order to be a good leader you have to be a good follower first, if your not, you have no damn idea, how to lead and shouldn’t. I don’t care if it is in Second Life or Real Life, it applies to both, just because one has a Degree from a College doesn’t make them a leader or smart, just says yes they passed the courses, if you can’t apply the information you lose. A college degree is a piece of paper only, experience, honesty, truth, open communication, listening, and compromising, gets you places, anything less fails.

  Everybody wants to be Heard!  That is what all will say, and age does not matter once you can speak. Many are overlooked, ignored, brushed aside, or told to shut up. People grow up in different situations, and different families. We grow up in such a way as we are told to or directed to by parents and relatives, not as nature intended us to be. We all want to be able to speak our mind, have our opinions and ideas and thoughts heard, it doesn’t matter who we are, by color, race, creed or sex, what does matter is we will fight until heard and acknowledged in some way.

   When, your a child of 4 or 5 years old you start questioning things around you, colors, shapes and items come into focus, but it takes longer for relationships to develop that we can grasp onto and that we as children and human beings can fully understand. Unless we are given freedom to explore and understand these relationships, we get lost. It happens to so many people in the world, that they will work till their dying day to be heard if, they, must. It is human nature to be that way for all of us. I would never deny that and nor should anyone else. Many hit snags, blocks or can’t be heard because they lack the ability to get loud enough or to find a way to express what they wish to say and convey it properly. Now we don’t realize this until one day, we try to convey a thought or words and we find ourselves being ignored or overlooked or brushed aside and go, “ What the hell, I am trying to tell you something”, Loud enough and hard enough that people go oh and realize your saying it to them out loud! Funny, it is at that point people finally go, you exist, you are for real, you are here, and we need to listen. That is how it goes for many in the world, those the quiet ones, as I call them, who sit back, and you do not hear from. It is called all we want to do, is be Heard! So, we struggle until we find a way to be heard! This is how we get our politicians, our writers, our poets, our public speakers and in the end the people who were never heard are finally heard, through written words, or public speaking. They end up coming out, speaking in their own ways, and when finally heard get recognized as individuals with something worthy to say. That also makes them important to the society we live in, in the world.

  Some grow up to write for newspapers, some become news people on TV, others write books or blogs or articles on subjects few would even think of. They quietly plug along, subject after subject, article or book or poem, trying to be heard and tell what they need to and they do not look for fame they look to be noticed, only. They are the ones who are unheard, but finally find a way. They become important in their own ways, through the struggle to be heard. They just want to be counted, acknowledged and able to finally say something and be constructive and worthy of some attention, for once in their lives. They are the Unheard!

2020, As a year has been a rough one for all I believe. In America for the first time since the 1930′ and 40’s, Americans are struggling to survive, people are homeless, hungry and praying to survive. America as well as the world is in danger, from a pandemic that is killing at great rates. As mankind struggles, the world continues to rotate and survive. But mankind is killing the world and the world does fight back. The planet and its ecosystem can only take so much destruction and pollution and it can’t generate enough to keep itself going, it seems No I am not a naysayer, a doom predictor or anything of that sort. What I am isa realist, someone who understands the science, no planet has unlimited resources folks and that includes ours, the earth. What no one want to realize or understand is man is strip mining the planet that gave us life and in doing so we are destroying the only place capable of supporting human life. It may not run out of resources in my life time, but how many lifetimes will it take to kill it, we don’t know yet. Mankind will find out soon enough I am sure.

To fight back, the planet produces thunderstorms, hurricanes, tornados, and more. It cleans itself and tries to come back from the destruction mankind has placed upon it. The planet takes time to rebuild and unless we have some brains and realize we can’t keep going the way we are, the planet will deplete itself and not have time to come back.

America itself, is killing itself from within also. The poison that is politicians like Trump, Graham, McConnell and other Republicans is killing the political climate and the economy and job market of the country. Unless the Republicans let Trump go, shut him down, and decide to work with the Democrats and Independents, instead of against, America will spin its wheels and get nowhere. As a country America is dead in the water, people are starving, the healthcare system is too expensive, the virus is raging and jobs are non existent these days. Sadly, the republicans sist and whistle and play word games and do nothing worthwhile.

Racial turmoil, political turmoil, fights agains tthe very documents that make us America, all add up to a disaster, for America period. Look let me say this clear so even the Republicans get it and understand it. In order to keep and improve the country and create jobs, the coronavirus must be defeated first. Then once a vaccine is administered and given out and mankind recovers, then the job market needs improved, healthcare for all must exist, for no job will cover all medical costs. Food lines are here again, people are begging to keep their heads covered and keep a home and the rich are getting rich, but middle income families and below are starving and struggling. They are the breadwinners and main backbone of America, not the rich and famous. America is failing what it was built for.

Let’s use our heads, think it through folks, save the climate, create jobs, give all healthcare and lets live in peace. Greed kills, realize it folks, share!

The Pilgrims who had the first Thanksgiving in America, Gave Thanks for many things at the time. They gave Thanks for arriving in America, safe and sound, they gave thanks to surviving, they gave thanks for The Indians who helped them and taught them what to eat or not eat in their new home, and how to plant foods they could eat and survive on. The First Thanksgiving was special for the Pilgrims and the Indians too, for they became friends at the time, but that would not last of course, but it was a beginning.

Thanksgiving is not just a time for eating, having fun and being with family and friends, although that is the modern way of doing things for sure. This year, Thanksgiving will not be the Traditional Way for many Americans, they won’t be gathering with their families who come from near and far. The Coronavirus/ Covid-19 interferes for sure, for all of us who pay attention and fear it. Not all of us are young or super healthy, we have prior conditions and just can not take the chances we would in normal times, so we stay home and will celebrate with those we live with, period. It is only logical, smart and being careful, especially if you have previous conditions, like my wife and I, who both have had cancer.

But that does not mean we don’t think of those we would normally be spending the day with, because we always do. We did a Zoom Meeting on the Wednesday before in the evening to see them all and say hello and to wish all well. Some may use Zoom, some may use Facebook, Discord or other programs to do so, others phone calls or texts. The point is we all want to be with those we love, we just can’t right now, until we get vaccines and the virus under control.

Doesn’t mean we don’t have things to be Thankful for, because all of us do. Many are thankful to just be alive, the survivors of Covid-19 for some, cancer survivors who carry on, or others who have survived long enough to see this Thanksgiving at all. We are all Thankful for our own health if healthy , we are thankful also for our families and friends who have not contacted the virus and are still healthy and alive to talk to all the time. We are Thankful to have life, homes and food to eat each day, a place to shower or bathe. to be able to do things on computers, or gaming systems or cell phones or in anyway we do them, even reading a simple book. We get thankful even for doing odd jobs and working around our own homes. The simple things in life become so much more important in this day and age folks. Food to eat and drinks to drink become more important as millions of Americans search for food banks to keep their families and themselves going each day.

Many of us are Thankful for Americans voting on November 3rd, the way we all did, no matter who you voted for, we were all heard and brave enough to do so, So Thank you all for doing it. many are thankful for the outcome of the election in America and many upset too, but we are thankful for a free country we live in and our rights we all have too. I am Thankful people know that whether your man won the election or lost it, we had the choice and we shall move forward, come Jan. 20th, 2021.

I am personally Thankful for being here and alive, as is my wife. We fight cancer daily in our home and we know each day is precious and all of you should know that too. Each moment we breathe and wake up and open our eyes is important. It should be for each and every human being on this planet and especially in America, where we have more rights than any other country in the world.

So, as Thanksgiving, is here and the Holiday Season begins in America and around the world, I want to say to all, I am Thankful for Life, I am Thankful for good Health, I am thankful for having enough to eat and keep a roof over my head and I am thankful for healthy family and friends so far in this day and age, It is all I can ask for and hope for and for that, I think Thankful is the way to be. So Happy ThanksGiving to all and I hope this makes you think, what to be ThankFul for!

Wednesday, November 25th, 2020, the day before the Holiday season hits the United States is here! As we get ready to sit down and eat a full meal, play games, relax and enjoy some peace and give thanks for all we have, we have to do it in a different way than we are used to.

Isolated to our homes, with just those who live with us, the Holidays will be slower, but, the internet will allow us to Zoom, Facebook, Skype if we all have the Internet to do so. Otherwise it shall be phone calls to loved ones to say hello and tell them we miss them all. and that we wish them the best and hope they are all Covid-19 free and healthy.

Growing up there used to be Thanksgivings that were huge in my parents house. a Big Table, a fancy dinning room set, lots of chair to fill, the table loaded with food, the side table and buffets loaded with deserts and in the end, family everywhere, from immediate to Uncles, Aunts, Cousins and friends. Those days will never return, I believe because the society and world we live in, today is very different.

As we move forward we should all be thankful, we are alive, and that if we are lucky enough to have avoided Covid-19/ Coronavirus, it is because we are steadfast and smart enough to isolate and wear masks and keep social distancing. So Thank God we have common sense and logic enough to know we must do, certain things to avoid the coronavirus and survive. Yes it makes it lonely at times and rough on each of us emotionally, for humanity needs interaction with family to survive and with each other in general. We didn’t ask for the coronavirus/ Covid-19, but we have to be logical, use common sense and our minds and abilities to stay alive and avoid the worse.

I love life folks, I do love family and friends , but I also know we shall never know who has the virus, at any given time or date or if they are carriers of it, either. We must do what is right and stop the spread of the virus in anyway possible and stay safe and healthy for our own future and to live. So options are very few, if mankind is to survive the virus, we must stay social distanced , wear our masks in public, and be logical and use common sense period.

As the Holiday season approaches and starts tomorrow in America and in the world, I wish all the best and Happy Thanksgiving, and good health out there. Here in my home my wife and I shall be alone and use Zoom to contact family and say hello and see them on cams. It’s the smart thing to do and yes there are other services to use for this purpose, like Skype, Yahoo, and more. It’s cheaper to get the Internet, a computer and a cam, then to get the virus, and get sick and face the worse sickness/ illness in along time, that can be deadly to us all. Hopefully, the vaccine shall roll, out soon!

Now having said the above and knowing what we are facing for the coming Holiday Season, here in America and across the world, we must also realize we must do what is right to survive, period and for family and friends to stay with us also. It is not about you, or me, folks, it is about everyone from a new born baby to one over one hundred years old! No one deserves to die or wants to, let’s stay safe, sane, logical and social distance, and wear masks if close to one another. Open windows if indoors, or meet outdoors if you must. But, don’t forget the virus can be carried by anyone and no you can’t see or know it, so caution, carefulness and logic will keep you alive and healthy. As one doctor put it to me recently, you can’t take care of anyone else unless you take care of yourself first!

I wish All, No Matter location, no matter color, race, creed or sex, Happy Holidays and I wish all a good time on Thanksgiving. Remember we still have a lot to be thankful, we live in the land of the free, in America, we do have family who are healthy and still with us, at least most of us do. We should be thankful we are alive, and remember those we have lost to the virus!

Happy Thanksgiving once again to all. May your Thanksgiving be filled with peace and good health and I hope, family and Joy!.

Life they say is just a game and they let it slip away, yes, they are lyrics to a song, yet, they do apply to everyday life period. Some hear the song and just sing along, and pay it no heed or bother, some don’t even like the song and ignore it, then there are some of us the song sunk into as we listened and we got what was being said and what it meant. so for those of us who got it, understood it and that it stuck with, it really did mean something and affect our lives and how we live.

Many may be like me, I grew up in family that was just filled with anger, hate and sometimes violence. My parents fought twenty four seven so to say. Us kids got to hear it all, experience the screaming, the yelling and see the violence between the two parents and in the end as we grew up, each of us escaped the home in one way of another. We had no choice, a few of us, for we were thrown out by the man who raised us, as he called us ungrateful, lazy, and didn’t really want us there. To the public they both, stood proud and acted like nothing was wrong and that life was merry and happy. Behind the scenes at home, flying silverware and plates and bodies existed. so not all of us, had great family lifes growing up see, some of us had it rough.

As you get older you figure out what you have to do to survive, experience, gives you something to draw from, to make your decisions each day. It is how it should be for all. We grew, we learned, we adapted and then we moved, on remembering those mistakes, problems and burdens we had before and drew on them each day, to make our decisions as we move on.

Some people as my step-father said, ” Some will never learn at all, because they are too dense, too slow or in some cases too ignorant to understand.” It’s true I have seen it in many cases in my life as I have aged to 64 years old now.

Some don’t get what teachers teach either, Some don’t understand the basics or reading, writing and arithmetic, or the importance of getting the right information, to get things right. It’s sad really, for as a writer, I admire said about writing, “Before you can be a good writer, you must read a lot and learn the language your writing in, then add expressions and punctuation and emotions into it all for it to sell” The same can be said for each part of life we live.

The Military teaches some very important lessons also as you serve. First is dedication, and then persistence, then they tell you, simply put, ” To be a good leader, one must first be a good follower.” It’s very true in life folks, not just in the military. People ignore these little lessons or don’t really absorb them and let outside interests or outside interference come into play. Those who control themselves make it, those who don’t, end up in trouble. Or end up not making it anywhere and just spin their wheels.

Love lives, teach us things, too. Compassion, understanding, open communication, for starters. if you don’t have those basics, you will never have a long lasting relationship, and among those items, honesty comes into play at all times. The more you lie, the more you cheat, the shorter the relationship will be, why because you will always get caught period. and breaking any of the above, destroys relationships and they are vital to our well being as human beings, yes, we all need human companionship and interaction to survive, for without that, the isolation would kill us. Mankind would not be able to perpetuate itself and we would die off. Makes sense right? I knew it would for those who read and listen, at least.

As we age we get more settled in what we do, how we do it and why we do it and with whom. we finish exploring at some point, feel comfortable in our own skins and we just lock ourselves in and stay there. Unless, we see something or learn of something that happens or exists that attracts our attention and we make an effort to learn it, explore it and accept it as a part of who we are or what we do, in our routines or styles of life. Once we do accept and adapt to it and do it on a normal basis, it becomes a part of who we are, in all ways.

OK, so many, may think, I am telling you nothing you didn’t already know, you may be right, but for some that is not the case as we all know. So why say this here and now? Simple life is changing for all humanity, it’s changing in America too. People need to learn, not to look at color, race, religion, or sex. We need to leave behind past prejudices and discriminations too. Mankind is growing, t’s changing, it’s developing and in the end what it becomes is not our choice, it’s the creator’s choice out there. The world is changing, it won’t be one race running the world, one color running the world, or one religion, it won’t be bigotry that carries the load. It will be acceptance, it will be open communication, it will be listening, it will be acceptance of all, and we can only survive if we do so ourselves each day, we are alive. We all must get along, we all must interact and accept one another and in the end, respect one another to make life better for all on the planet. If you can’t accept that, then you have a definite problem and need to re-evaluate yourself and how you interact with others.

So as time goes on for me, I care not if you are white, black, brown, hispanic or asian, I only care that we all get along, and we can stop destroying the world, our nation and our republic and democracy. The same should be true for all, regardless of sex, color, race or religion, for it is the only way mankind survives.

To Enjoy certain activities and styles is anyone’s choice in the world, at least in the free world. We all have preferences and in those preferences we all have our own beliefs, styles and ways of doing things. Each person is an individual and should be accepted as such, no matter where they go or what they do, we may not agree with one another, but we do not force each other into anything. That is how life should be.

I have witnessed many things in my life, from a messed up family life as a child with warring parents who were verbally, mentally and physically violent to one another. I have seen drug abuse, and users who killed themselves, suicides and yes cancer patients. I have seen death and I have seen life, I have roamed the world and served my country. So I have done many things. From being a follower to being a leader too. I have run Boiler rooms in the Navy, been a machine gunner scout, and an M-88 Tank retriever driver on the Army side. So yes, I have done plenty from managing restaurants and hotels, to writing blogs, books and poems, so I have lived a good life. I love life in general always have.

Honesty is always the best policy also. You sugar coat something or lie it doesn’t work, people figure it out in the end and you lose. The honest facts are the only way to go. And avoiding the truth will never work in life. It never does.

As many out there who are members of Second Life the Virtual world put out by Linden Labs know, and there are many, around 600,000 to be approximate. Now it is a virtual world built for playing, games, building sims and just having fun, but it isn’t a game not really.

To put it briefly, Second Life is a virtual, online world where users create avatars which can travel to worlds and lands (called Sims), participate in role-playing games, create and sell products, and socialize with other Second Life residents. Now, it can be fun and many use it for different reasons of course. I have seen dancing clubs, sci-fi sims, I have seen wilderness sims and sexual sims too. I have seen all lifestyles represented in Second Life from the straight population to the gay population, to the kink worlds of BDSM and D/s.

For any sim to work as many are finding as they move around in Second Life, there are rules for every sim in Second Life, for each is run by individuals. Some are open and allow all who enter to do as they please, others restrict things and try to control the members who enter their sims. It depends on the person who owns it, how they run it and it’s intention of course. Sadly, the owners of certain kinds of sims have many restrictions, rules and try to play God and control all on their sim. This causes problems when a sim owner decides to play God, they lose or ban, members, than cry later they can’t find people to join their sim anymore. It’s a sad sight to see, for you can build the prettiest, smartest looking sim in Second Life History once you learn to build in it. But to get people to use your sim or participate in the sim you build is the tricky part. Visuals alone won’t get you there, creating training programs for lifestyles won’t either unless, the Training program is fair, intelligent and well put together and isn’t changed 24/7, as many do. I have been in many sims in Second Life in going on fourteen years, and the ones I have run into arguments or fights with, only number two. Now one was just a foolish sim, sexually explicit and silly, so I didn’t care about it much. I was glad to leave it, as i was with the Second One too, with one exception. Don’t lie to people about what your doing, don’t lie to people regarding why you want them gone from your sim either. I may not agree with how the sim in question was run for reasons. I can state here.

Whether you run a Dance sim or a BDSM/ D/s sim, you need to not lie to people about it’s purpose of how you run it and not be overbearing with rules and restrictions, either. You also should avoid being assine, and not listening to the people who make suggestions to you. Secondly, don’t say your a Educational Opportunity for people to learn something and then not provide it. The sim I speak of says that in their profile and then claims they wrote their program themselves, they didn’t, they stole the information off internet sites, about the lifestyle. It is not an educational opportunity, what it is a Cult the man is running in Second Life, period.

A Parrel to this sim is the current status of the United States of America’s Presidency problem. Trump has put out false information about this country, how the elections work, his loss in the election and convinced his followers he is the winner of the 2020 election, he isn’t. What makes it dangerous is people believe these lies and then hit the streets, and cause damage and violence and harm others. The same is true of the Sim and Owner I am speaking about here, in Second Life.

From the day I entered the sim in question, the bullshit, lies and acts piled up, until I just confronted it and ended up banned for doing so. BDSM and D/s people who have lived it in real life will tell you, what I say is true.

You don’t advertise falsely first off. secondly you don’t put out rules that all female submissives must kneel for all men. No modern woman will buy that. It is wrong in today’s society period and arcadic. Thirdly, no woman volunteers to be publically whipped and gang banged in today’s society, it is embarrassing, and humiliated and breaks their spirit and they know it too. Then when someone disagrees and says something and tries to get it changed, the reaction was outrageous and stupid. But that is how it goes when someone is in God Mode in Second Life. The real kicker was all was fine, till the question of the Poly Lifestyle came up in the sim. LOL. Then it was we are a Poly sim and no-one was practicing that first off, secondly all have a right to not like Poly, compersion included or not. The day I was banned from this man’s sim it was due to the following conversation with one of the submissives there, in the Cafe or Public Area. The submissive said she didn’t believe or like multiple partners and I said I didn’t approve of harems or believe in them, either. The next morning when I entered Second Life I was banned from the sim, by the owner, his excuse was I scared the girls on the sim, I never did, he lied. The man is a phoney is all and all now know it, due, to my blog writing.

So what did I do then, I wrote my blogs which many have read and seen in the past. Then he didn’t like that so he came stalking me in Second Life on a sim I Dj at. He threatened to have me removed from Second Life for stealing his Intellectual Property, he can’t, he gave me it in the first place. Dumb answer. Then he got someone to go to one of the places I Djed at and force them to make me take down said blogs, by telling them they had no choice, they would have to fire me if I didn’t pull the blogs. It is indeed childish on his part, so to solve the problem I took care of it. I removed said blogs and then left the sim he attacked and on my own. That way they are not affected by what I wrote or whoever he sent, to do so. I can Dj anywhere in Second Life, but I won’t Dj for a sim that lets him and his friends control them. So I moved on.

Recently, I learned the blogs I wrote had their desired results on him and his sim even if he didn’t want them to. He can deny it publicly on his sim, but, I know he is looking for more applicants and can’t find them and that his sim is slowed down and he can’t find mentors for his mentees either. Now he may deny that, to many, but the proof, I have, says otherwise, and I can produce it if needed. Not everyone is afraid of him or his sim, as he would like them to be and people do talk. That’s all I can say and need to say.

As to the BDSM D/s Lifestyle itself in Second lIfe it shall continue on and no I won’t attack other sims that do it, in anyway. Many are more flexible, more reliable, decent and yes even educational and worth the effort to join or visit. There is nothing wrong with the Lifestyle folks, BDSM and D/s is a choice, I agree and many of us, like to use it or see it in use and protect it. I admire those who are more permissive and open about it all and honest, I don’t like liars, I don’t like phonies and most of all, I don’t like cult leaders and their followers, who can’t see they are wrong or grow and change.

Like President Trump and his non-thinking sycophants who follow him blindly, and have almost destroyed America, the owner of the sim I was on and was banned from, is the exact same type of person doing the same things. To Blindly follow someone and be led by someone who is full of shit, phoney and knows not, what he is doing, is dangerous. It hurts all involved, including each man who enters his sim for training and calls themselves dominants or each submissive who listen to and kiss his ass.

Sycophants follow blindly, do as they are told and parrot the leader, it happens in the sim in question daily and is sad. Just like Trump’s sycophants, who get violent and upset and end up arrested because they do as he says.

Instance of this is the man who went to an event in the time of coronavirus and decided to breathe heavy on a woman at a rally on purpose, because she said she didn’t like Trump. No consideration for the fact coronavirus rages and he might be spreading it to her, so he ended up arrested for assault folks. His excuse, Trump said the Coronavirus is not bad and he doesn’t have to wear a mask, he may want one, while in jail now!

The same can be said, of the sycophants or the sim I was on, blind loyalty without any common sense, manners, people should have in the D/s and BDSM Lifestyle online and offline, remember to;

Have Fun, Be Respectful, Be Tolerant, and Use Common Sense! No Matter your Lifestyle!

Well, life moves along just fine in Second Life and in real life for me. Second Life is a game folks, those who get too wrapped up in it and too serious shouldn’t, for to get out of it, you just sign out. You can not sign out of real life and there is no place to run and hide if something goes wrong in it. Seems the best way to do things for some in real life is to run and hide and in Second Life, when confronted or told they are wrong or should change something they are doing, people do far worse then run and hide, they ban people and bad mouth them and then later, when people fight back they cry and complain they are losing applicants and need help to get more, on their sim. Well, you lose out when you act like a Cultist, God or Idiot is all, you can’t treat people with disrespect, then think, they will not fight back, if you do, you are stupid.

Second Life is a game folks, not all are going to agree with what you build for fun, what kind of a sim you own or what you do in it or how you do it. And when you lie to the members you have, or you cause drama or disagree with them, disagreeing with you, you are treating them, without respect, being rude, inconsiderate and in the end, people will rebel and fight back. No man or woman wants someone being disrespectful, rude, unkind or mean to them, nor does anyone like someone lying to them. False excuses get found out, truth will always win out in the end. If you think you have a problem with one member, of your sim and you ban them, you may not realize for everyone you ban, you have two or three who say nothing but feel the same way and do so quietly behind your back. And you will never weed them out for they are smart enough to sit in silence and pass information to others, who are already gone and they can use it to get back at you. So, if I were the owner of said sim, in question, I would wonder who is passing information out and why, because if there is one, there are more.

Recently, Second Life is more pleasant without the drama of the sim in question of course for me. I go where I wish in Second Life, enjoy the experience and avoid the drama. I get told, I was wrong for writing blogs about the owner of said sim and his sim and the truth is, I wasn’t! It had to be said, clearly to all so they understand what they are getting into, if they enter his sim. Why go to a sim, and find the reason you are there is controlled by one owner, and he puts you through assignments and requirements and rules and then doesn’t follow them himself, and has no patience, understanding or ability to work with you, to help you through it all. You can’t make robots, all the same either, online or in person, it doesn’t work.

Sadly, somes sim are controlled by others and get pressured by others and because they are D/s or BDSM Based and I disagreed with one owner and his ways and wrote my blogs they threatened me, with losing my DJ job at another. Well I stayed for a few weeks after, was all, but as of a few weeks ago, I departed the sim, that went along with these people. Now they will have to do without me.

I don’t mind because I can Dj any kind of music in Second Life and do, from Rock to Motown, to the Blues and there are many sims to do it in. I don’t rely on Djing to live my Second Life, I do it for fun.

As to the Owner of the sim who put this pressure on, he has bigger problems then I could ever have at this point. My Blogs had the effect I wanted, he is losing applicants and people and he knows it and so do I, now. Will I let the blogs loose again and write more on his sim and him, well, time shall tell, because if i am attacked again, stalked or bothered by him or his people in anyway, I may. I have no fear, my blogs are not attached to Second Life so I can put up what I ever I wish, say what I wish and use whatever I have or get, to write, whatever i wish.

Life will go on in Real Life as well as Second Life, disagreements, arguments are all a part of life on both sides. We disagree and move on and have our say. It’s all a part of life folks!. Second Life is a game and fun and entertaining, but what it isn’t, is something that can affect me or what I say or do in my blogs. I will continue to write blogs and articles and more, it’s what I do.

In the near future I will be writing more blogs, some about politics, some about the state of America and Some about the Virtual World of Second Life also. Depends on my mood, what passes my vision and what is brought to my attention.

News and politics and facts are important whether in real life, or in Second Life’s Virtual World. People cause the problems they have in either world and in the world period. When you think your God or a Dictator, or a smart ass, or just plain above everyone around you, you end up in the same shape, ignored, looked over or around or losing out, on life period.

Personally, I have always been a loner who made himself fit in, all my life. I am not your average man in any way. I have walked away from things that I believe are dangerous, stupid, idiotic or just plain foolish in life and in virtual life also.

What people do not understand about me is, I basically don’t believe anyone is better than me, I don’t care if you have a Law degree. or are President, or if you own a sim in Second Life or a mansion in real life. The fact is you treat people with respect, you get respect back, if you don’t well you will always get what you give. And then you have to re-calibrate and adjust and change your rules of behavior and beg and hunt for people to put up with you, and to help you out in the end. They don’t flock to do that folks, for people who are ignorant, bossy, dictators or cult leaders or even Presidents who believe they are Gods!. When in the end all you end up with are the sycophants who you had all along following you blindly, you get nowhere period and you lose out. Ask, some of the biggest Dictators, Cult Leaders and biggest asshole of all time, they all get overthrown, beat on and destroyed in the end. Why, because people get fed up with their bullshit and get together and fight back.

Soon enough all shall know what I mean as we watch Donald Trump whimper, cry, complain, file lawsuits and get nowhere, and ultimately have to pack his belongings and scamper from the White House in shame. It’s the only way he can leave the White House, why because he is like a petulant child, who is spoiled and won’t quit or admit defeat, like a five year old at Monopoly, the board game. He stomps his feet, he rants on Twitter and other internet programs, hides in the White House stares at a Television screen and refuses to do his job as President. What I don’t get is this, why the Republicans allow him to do it and they enable him to do it daily and take no action to stop him or make him act, for the good of the country.

In the end the Republicans are responsible for Donald J. Trump being the President, keeping him as President and not facing him, as he destroys America’s security and fails at all he touches, including the coronavirus fight. Over a Quarter Million Americans have died due to Covid-19 and Trump’s inability to act and to lead in the fight against it!

Trump is now America’s biggest problem and complication period. He must be made to start the Transition process to the Biden Administration, or the status of America as a World Power will fall further. The Fight against Coronavirus will not be met and more Americans will die at a greater rate than ever before. Yet Trump hides in The White House watches Television, and has his lawyers file bullshit lawsuits, regarding election results!

To President Donald J. Trump and The Republican Party, Donald you don’t have to concede the election, but you do have to transition to the next President. It is your responsibility as a President, it is also going to look like shit on your legacy and in the History Books, and it will affect your brand and name and reputation. Your choosing to let your own name be tarnished, destroyed and your legacy to be shot, just to stomp your feet and cry and get even with The Democrats because you think they did you wrong. In fact you have done all wrong, since the day you took office, including lying from day one.

To all who believe, because they were elected to Office, in America and think they can do as they please, I recommend you don’t follow Trump’s example. For as you shall see soon enough in approximately 60 some odd days, it doesn’t end well for you.

To Donald Trump, if you do not concede that is fine don’t, but, you need to start the Transition and tell Emily Murphy to recognize Biden as the Winner of the Election. The Security of America is at stake, our position in the world order and Biden needs the information to fight the coronavirus and to make his administration work properly. If you don’t, it will damage America and its people.

If you refuse to leave the White House or Presidency, The Marines will be coming to escort you out of The White House on Public Television for all the World to see. For you will have no legal legs to stand on, and President- elect Biden will make sure you go. Then you can stand there and scream at the Marines, that they are losers and watch as they smile escorting you out on public Television. Be a fun site for all of us to watch, like a bad cartoon!. It will be embarrassing, humiliating and shameful on your part, no one else’s.

Your days in the White House and as President are ending Donald, John Trump, be a man, instead of sulking in the White House, hiding and avoiding the facts and truth and acting like a petulant child, act like a man and leave in a proper transfer of power. The options are yours of course, but the facts say I am right. It is time now, Donald Trump to act like an adult, a full grown man, and to pass the torch to the Next President, it’s been done, many times before and should be done now!

Second Life is interesting in many ways. It contains sims built by its members that cover all kinds of subjects and styles and ways.

I have seen Star Trek in Second Life, Disney Worlds and characters, Racing tracks for cars and motorcycles too. Gaming sims and yes, Lifestyle sims. Each is unique in its own right, why because it is built by people with imaginations and for pleasure and personal fun. It is what Second life is all about folks, it is a place, many like myself like to escape to when real life allows us to or we need an escape. It can be a place to date, chat, learn, and so much more, the interactions between the members is always interesting, in many ways.

Now, I have been using Second Life for 14 years, come next month, I like the chats, the information, the ability to meet different people with different thoughts and ideas from around the world and seeing how they try to get along with one another or sometimes just don’t. I have never met anyone who would say they didn’t make some enemies in Second Life, or they have not met people they don’t like or agree with. It happens, for each of us who enter Second Life come from different social and regional and nationality and sexuality positions. No, two are exactly the same you see, so the interactions are what teach us how to handle people as we go along.

As I said before, I have met many people some who like me, for being me and some who hate me for being me, especially in Second Life. One thing I can say as an individual who uses Second Life, if there was ever a game, simulation or Virtual World that causes drama and emotions for many and sometimes, adverse emotions or at other times good emotions, it is Second Life.

People build their own little sims to hide in, others build sims to invite people to, for their own purposes and disguise them as different things, for different reasons. Some are for meet and greets, some for dating purposes, some for sexxual purposes, some for purposes of D/s and Bdsm and others for more.

I have been to many, seen many and evaluated many, of all kinds. I look at the builds, the work of the creator of the sims, the buildings and details they put in to them. Then I look into what they want the sim to be about, and their intentions in creating them. The things you may find in a virtual world are many, but the most interesting is the fact, they want to bring people in and have them there for their purposes mainly. few just invite people or allow people to look and play without worry. They set up rules for their little worlds, which is fine, unless they get to a point of too restrictive or too controlling ways. By too many rules, the owners of said sims lose people and then they start asking what’s wrong, when they should be listening to the members they have, more often. They forget it is not the build of the sim, or the reason it was built, or what they intended it for, it is the people in it that count, for without the people coming in, your sim will die out. You pay real money to keep your sim alive in Second Life by paying what they call tiers, which is basically the renting of the property cost. So someone owns the property on the Second Life Map and then rents it to others to make lindens. So in the end it becomes a business arrangement between the land owner and the club or group or sim builder, that must be paid for per month. So, there is a profit margin for the land owners on the map in Second Life.

Now recently, I was sent a prize example of the sim owners problems with keeping a sim going, and the sim owner is looking for answers, as to why he is losing people and people are not applying to join his little world or group so to say. But, when you have already been told why, and don’t listen, well then you deserve to go down, on your own. When you refuse to allow change, or don’t want to adopt to the modern ways or just have a broom up your ass and are too strict, well, you will lose. People grow, they change and even in a learning situation as some try to call their sims, training or a educational opportunity, the fact is if you don’t leave leeway for growth, different ideas and allowing people to be themselves well, you will lose them. People get bored and leave or angry and leave or look at the so called training programs and go this is old fashioned and too restrictive, then ask questions and bring it up on these sims, and the Owner then gets angry and dumps the people. By, dumping those who raise issues, problems or questions, the Owner is showing they can’t handle the sim or the people in it and make it work by being flexible and adaptable to new ideas. It reflects back on the Owner of said sim or little world they created. It shows them up for what they are, faulty, incomplete, adolescent or foolish or just not what they call themselves, in some cases. People can spot phoenies from far away.

Well if you own a lil virtual world in Second Life and you wonder why you can’t get applicants or people to join your group, maybe just maybe you’re too restrictive, too idiotic or just plain blind and don’t have the ability or patience to run such a sim. Playing dictator doesn’t work either, if that’s your answer because you pay for the sim, and built it and set it up. For the bigger your ban list gets, the worse it reflects on you and the people you keep and it angers those who you have banned and you may face retribution or payback. No one cares that you pay real money each month to keep your sim alive in Second Life. that’s your money, have fun with it, of course. But know people want the truth, to be treated decent and when things don’t work out they hate liars. Lying to a member who tried to make it on your sim, to get rid of them, because you think they don’t fit in, is just plain wrong and people get mad. And if you anger enough of them, they will fight back and you shall pay a price like lose of people coming to the sim or applying to join the group. Word gets around that 1) You have no idea what you’re doing and what your doing is illegal, or just plain out wrong. 2) People talk and it gets around how you treat people and it does come back and bite you in the ass. 3) If you treat people wrong, you anger them, upset them and then you will end up paying a price, because not all. like you messing with their name or reputation, period.

So, when you cry, and complain, you can’t find members, are not getting applications for membership, and need ideas on how to attract people, it will get out. People talk, just so you know. In the end, when you see you have a problem, you should sit back and re-examine what you did to yourself, to get to the point you are at now. Mistreating people, lying to them or saying things about them, you shouldn’t to make them leave or ban them from your sim is wrong. Treat them properly, tell them the truth and ask them to leave, first. don’t just ban people!. Last advice for this case in truth here is, if you own the sim, are going to disrespect, mistreat people, before you ban them without any respect, be prepared to get the same treatment in return. It’s what people do when something goes wrong in real life, and it should apply to Second Life too!